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    Default Being "the new girl" at the club

    How was it like for you as the new girl at your club? How do you treat the new girls that get hired?

    And how are the girls at your club (in general)?

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    Being the new girl at my club was awesome! When I was super new I made the most money. The managers would bring me to all the VIP clients, who would make it rain by way of welcome. Now they don't do this as much, as I prefer not to sit in the VIP lounge... I'd rather mindlessly dance for customers than listen to them drunkenly ramble about their wives lol. But yea being the new girl is awesome, and at my club, everyone was super nice to me.

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    In most clubs, I'd say new girls come and go so there's not much special treatment. You'll have some girls (especially during the day time) go out of their way to be nice, give advice, and chat, but most will just ignore them, perhaps with a couple being bitchy. Most dancers warm up to the new girls once they've been around for a while and have proven themselves to not be too annoying, though there's inevitably going to be some bitches around no matter how long you're in the club.

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    I travelled for a while, and believe me, there are some girls out there who want nothing to do with a new girl!! I've seen both extremes - the very welcoming and helpful to the downright malicious and bitter, and these two can coexist in the same club. When it was really tough I just let it roll off, heck I was travelling anyway :p

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    I really don't give a shit. I'm there for money not friends. I focus on my money. Fuck bitches.
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    Yeah, when I was new (1st club) pretty much ignored & kind of curiously watched. I didnt mind it, since it was a dive & alota girls were strung out messes, I didnt want to be involved in their dramas. My home club now ive been at a yr and 1/2, if the girl seems like a solid person I will go out of my way to be friendly, give them some tips on how the club usually is. Im going to try out some new clubs soon, so hopefully kharma will work its way around.

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    I mostly ignored new girls at my home club (the one I always came back to for years), unless they went out of their way to be nice to me, in which case I would be nice back. I'm not a mean girl! I see no reason for it.

    Now I'm the new girl again, and I'm mostly getting the same treatment. Mostly indifference. Some girls have been sweet, complimented me or offered me advice on specifics of the club. No bitches so far, and I have to say, I'm SO thankful for clubs with no bitches. Like Tempest said, I'm not there to make friends -- but we deal with enough from the occasional shithead customer! The last thing I want is dressing room drama to compound that frustration.

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    Default Re: Being "the new girl" at the club

    Being a constant new girl because of traveling, I'd say that the usual reaction is just to be ignored. I usually just go about my business and just be as courteous as possible, because I never know who the money-making veterans are, and you always want to stay out of their way at their home clubs. Most girls are nice if you have to talk to them, although usually apathetic to your presence.

    Just be nice and don't get in anyone's way and you should be fine!

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    Of course when you have 32DDD tits you're going to attract attention. Most of them usually get curious. I had one girl come up to me and exclaim "Apart from porn stars and fat chicks you have the biggest boobs I've ever seen!"

    She was so sweet, she almost warmed my little black heart.
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    Only ppl that should be focused on are customers, not fellow co-workers.

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    Lol I remember when I first started and was new, I would introduce myself to everyone. Now I don't and focus mainly on doing my job. I don't really greet new girls but if they ask me questions ect. I would be nice to them as I see no reason to be bitchy. I remember this girl when I first started dancing, we worked a few shifts together and she was cold, would not even look at me and pretend I didn't exist. I kept my distances and after working for 10 months at the same place we now talk to each other quite often and she's actually one of the nicest person I've ever met.

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    Default Re: Being "the new girl" at the club

    theres always at least 2 new girls every time i come into work it seems..high turnover..so a new girl is no big deal. i've been at my cub for a year and i don't socialize even tho i know everyone i don't see a point I'm there for money and anything else gets in the way. i'm never ever mean to a new girl tho just because she is new that is so high school we should all be adults..when i first started i had one girl who was super mean ( i should say woman, she was 45 with a huge chip on her shoulder) she accused me of stealing her "spot" and made a point to wipe down everything with disinfectant like i was filthy. some people are bullies and take advantage of the fact new girls have no friends to defend them i think thats low. when I'm a new girl i make sure not to make any enemies or gossip , but that goes whether you're new or not

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Only ppl that should be focused on are customers, not fellow co-workers.
    This!^ Love Vyanka


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    Well lets see. I like to travel around and try out different clubs so I've been the new girl a few times. Usually the other girls are nice, sometimes I make a friend out of one of them. And then I've experienced the total opposite. One club I worked at one of the girls was desperate to get me fired, would spill her drinks on me, etc. I just kind of stayed away from her because I wanted nothing to do with it.
    At my club now, the management doesn't really like new girls so they were bitching at me the first few times about everything since I wasn't used to the club and didn't know all of the rules. But there have been more hires so they've been more lax to me lately

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    I actually had worse experiance as a new girl waitress than a dancer, ever. The waitresses would get mad cause i sold more than them which means more money then them but as a dancer I am pretty much ignored which is what i do in return. I stay to myself & only talk to another dancer if i absolutely have to. Ive been in the biz long enough to know these girls wont ever be my real friends & I just ignore them

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    Very much depends on the club ime, but current one is really lovely and newbies are made to feel right at home. I try and show the same solidarity that I myself appreciate with newcomers.

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