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    Default I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    I wanna give couple of my custies Christmas gift.
    Never done this before. Have been a dancer on and off for a few years.
    Just joined SW. Simply awesome site !!!

    Neither is a big spender. Spends $40-$60 each visit (30 min to an hour of company) - but visit often.
    One custie always gets dances from me - gets from other favorites too. But never leaves club until he has gotten dance from me - and one time tipped me without a dance since he was in a hurry.

    These two really make my day. Time after time. Good lookin, honest, witty and well put together.
    I really haven't asked about their personal lives - just for the fear of putting a damper on fantasy.
    (I'm pretty sure both are married and unavailable)

    I don't remember many $400 custies - but cling to each word, each story these two men share with me.
    They are special for me.

    I thought about offering free dances or something like that. But at least one customer will not accept any free dances from a dancer. Something about not messin with the livelihood of a dancer and gettin bad karma. Whatever.

    I thought about giving a tie or a jacket - but that's kinda so-so.
    Don't wanna go the naughty/kinky route - as much as I would love it - for I'm afraid to spoil the fantasy.
    When I give dances - these are the most well behaved, nice smellin custies. Appreciative yet respectful of limits. Always. So much so I don't wanna reveal their names to anyone !

    What's left for me as gift possibilities - box of See's chocolates, bottle of JW 18 yr and Patron (fav drinks of these men).

    I would love to hear how you beautiful ladies show gratitude to your favorite customers.

    Thanks n luv

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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    You spending an hour with a customer that only drops $60 on you is gift enough.

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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    ^^^no kidding.

    this has never crossed my mind for customers who spend $2k. I just can't even imagine doing something for these guys.

    a decent mens jacket will be around $200. that's 4-5 hour sessions with these guys. if you really feel compelled to buy them something, get them a card.

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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    Yeah, if you have to get them something i would go for a "its the thought that counts" kind.Something that costs less than $10.Im sure they will not be expecting it so will be flattered that you got them anything.

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    i think you are out of your mind.

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    GURL, please. the only gift they deserve is a blown kiss at the cam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britchick85 View Post
    Yeah, if you have to get them something i would go for a "its the thought that counts" kind.Something that costs less than $10.Im sure they will not be expecting it so will be flattered that you got them anything.
    i think $10 is way too much for the measly $40-$60 shes getting.

    i say go to the dollar store and spend no more than $1.08.

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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    I would get them something simple and universally known as a good gift... like a small ornament or a mug with hot chocolate in it. Something from the dollar store would do fine. Something that says "Thanks, I've been thinking of you!" but not "I spent a ton of money on you omg."

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    You could always make and individually wrap a snack/goodie - I'm fond of making rice crispy treats for nice regulars of mine. It's cheap to make but shows you thought of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelydancer View Post
    You could always make and individually wrap a snack/goodie - I'm fond of making rice crispy treats for nice regulars of mine. It's cheap to make but shows you thought of them.
    Yeah, this is great. I used to make killer cookies for my regs who'd spend. If he likes any kind of baked good, it's a nice thing to do, he'll really appreciate it (who doesn't love their favorite snacks?) and it'll cost you virtually nothing if you have the primary ingrediants in the house (eggs, sugar, butter, flour, milk, etc..). I'd spend $3 tops on the chocolate chips and end up making $200 in an hour or so, just sitting with a happy guy, eating cookies. That's a perfectly fair deal, IMO.
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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    I personally would not, but if it's something you want to do I say cheap as hell home made cookies.

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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    Panties but like serious cheap throw away thongs that are in some $.50 bin. Hell girls sell those on sites for $20-$40. Or you can get them customized with your cam name.

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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    Panties ws my thought too, I have given a card before and I like homemade cookies idea also but have to agree that these guys are not spending in the range that would compell me to give a gift..... fuck I would be giving out a lot of gifts if it was!
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    Default Re: I wanna give couple of my custies a Christmas gift ! Ideas ?

    Draw, or make them something. Even if it doesn't end up super-good or impressive, customers love the novelty of getting stuff "hand-made by a stripper." Your professional title is your prerogative- a golden touch!

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    Thank you so so so much sistas !!!!
    So many ideas

    I'll try to get gifts for 20 of my custies who I truly appreciate.
    Homemade cookies, ("hand-made by a stripper" luv that yingyang ! ), personalized greeting cards, lingerie (naughty!), gift wrapping (so sweet lovely dancer) ... thank you for the great ideas.

    I already ordered fleming riding gloves for a custie who could use comfort while riding his harley. For another - a realtor - I've ordered an acre of land (on moon). He'll die laughing. (No kidding - this website sells authentic titles to acreage on moon).

    hugs n kisses
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    ^ 20?? I can't even imagine that. I get so annoyed when I have 2 or 3 regulars to deal with, I think I'd have an aneurysm at 20.
    Good for you though. I always regret not working harder to maintain regulars when its slow in the club.

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    Something for his desk so he will think of you whenever he sees it. A paperweight or a magnetic sculpture.

    I get these for my clients because they make such fun presents. They range from 3-30 bucks depending on what kind you get.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    You spending an hour with a customer that only drops $60 on you is gift enough.
    ^You took the words right out of my mouth!

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    Yikes I don't want to sound harsh but please be aware most of our customers are married and many have children at home. They can't just come home with a nice bottle of expensive wine (that you spent money on) or a box of chocolate.... it would look kind of weird.
    I just don't want your present to wind up in the garbage of the strip club parking lot.

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    Aw, I think it is a nice idea, and I'm sure they will find it refreshing to be reminded there are sincere, grateful dancers out there (because there are!) I agree with something small, very inexpensive, and not at all time-consuming to make (time is money!!). Nothing romantic or personal either, speaking from a safety perspective.

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    I've once bought a bottle of good whiskey for a regular (I know he buys it sometimes for himself as well) and once a quality tie. Those are both hide-able as "oh I got it for myself", versus some heart-themed chocolate box kinda gift. But then again, that regular of mine is a good friend already in a sense that we know each others real names etc.

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