
Originally Posted by
bunny8558
Bringing up my intelligence/degree has helped has been when guys start asking all those awkward questions about why I'm a stripper. "Why don't you get some guy to take care of you?" "Why aren't you in school?" etc.In those cases, I'll tell them that I have a degree and tried to find a "real" job before deciding to dance, and that I love it. They usually stop being so inquisitive after that. If not, I try to change the subject. I've noticed that a lot of guys ask those questions AFTER dances for some odd reason. I try to move guys with as little conversation as possible as a personal challenge... no persona needed for that!!! I also try to make my "persona" match the guy's needs, then move. If the guy gets too heady with conversation, I try to relate something back to sexual stuff... i.e. my bisexuality. This works to keep conversation from getting too intellectual. I have noticed that when I'm tired, I'm more likely to be chatty and nerdy with customers. I try to avoid getting tired during doubles and long shifts in order to avoid that... I hate talking for free. Whatever you do, you have to constantly think about selling and moving!
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