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    Quote Originally Posted by bunny8558 View Post
    Bringing up my intelligence/degree has helped has been when guys start asking all those awkward questions about why I'm a stripper. "Why don't you get some guy to take care of you?" "Why aren't you in school?" etc.In those cases, I'll tell them that I have a degree and tried to find a "real" job before deciding to dance, and that I love it. They usually stop being so inquisitive after that. If not, I try to change the subject. I've noticed that a lot of guys ask those questions AFTER dances for some odd reason. I try to move guys with as little conversation as possible as a personal challenge... no persona needed for that!!! I also try to make my "persona" match the guy's needs, then move. If the guy gets too heady with conversation, I try to relate something back to sexual stuff... i.e. my bisexuality. This works to keep conversation from getting too intellectual. I have noticed that when I'm tired, I'm more likely to be chatty and nerdy with customers. I try to avoid getting tired during doubles and long shifts in order to avoid that... I hate talking for free. Whatever you do, you have to constantly think about selling and moving!
    Lmao @ "why don't you get some guy to take care of you?" In my head I'm thinking "that's what I'm trying to do. Stop rambling and start paying!" Haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by breedesires View Post
    Ive had a similar problem. I come off more as the comic relief. Im always making jokes and keeping the mood light, but fear I loose some of people taking me seriously. IDK if its to hide insecurities or what. I find myself being almost some of the more intellectual of the girls on the roster and in general a good talker, and feel it sometimes works against me
    I think we're all gonna have these moments. At that point I would just use the talking skills to ask the customer questions. Make him feel special. Say "oh enough about me..what about you? What do you do for fun?", etc.Stroke his ego and ask him questions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlotte. View Post
    just ask straight up. most won't tip anything worth staying for. all this job is is acting. I have my bachelors too and so do a lot of girls I work with, and we don't bring that up to customers. intelligent conversation may make you a little $$ occasionally but it takes way too long, enforces the idea that we are willing to hang with these guys for free, and ultimately is a big time waster. keeping the conversation short and sexy is the best way to maximize your $$$.shanna dior said it best. guys come in for a fantasy and the vast majority of guys don't want to come in and hand over hundreds of dollars to discuss chemistry with some random stripper. they already went to school, they may have an advanced degree (aka way smarter than you) and they want to escape the intellectual world for a few hours. the ones that aren't intellectual to want to be belittled by your knowledge. and volunteering to spend lots of time with guys with fascinating conversation is just making you vulnerable to time wasters. it's so funny how so many new girls think their education or interests make them better and smarter than the other girls. the smartest girls at the club are the ones that make the most money the fastest. pitch your dances and move on. me and most money makers close in 30 seconds or less. no time to get intellectual in 30 seconds. I don't understand the impulse to want to impress random people with your smarts while you're wearing a g string. these guys are only going to think of you as the slutty floozy at the seedy strip club, so just take advantage of that and profit. if you want to impress someone intellectually, enter an essay contest.not to mention the girls I know who tend to occasionally let their guard down and spend a lot of time talking about serious things with customers are the ones that attract the stalkers. I've never had a problem with that and that's because every customer just meets a very one dimensional character at work.
    Brilliant. We need to use our street smarts and not our pure intellect. Really, this is a sales job. Its business. You make your pitch and you close the sale. If any of you have had sales jobs you will find its not that different, as I am discovering. And yes, acting is part of it too of course.

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