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    Default How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    So I get guys in my room and I say hi and they say hi and we chat a little then I try to steer them to go private. I say things like...we can do that in private or we can do this in private, you will see this in private or let's go private, and on and on and on. But I;m wondering, don't the guys know this already, don't they know about going private with a girl? Do I have to constantly tell them that or should I just keep quiet after exchanging pleasantries and just let them take me private if they want as I assume the button is right there in their face no ?...because to keep pitching it is getting exhausting lol

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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    The "broken record" aspect of this job, is actually the biggest reason I mostly only work about 1 - 3 days a week.

    I manage pretty comfortably on what I make 1 - 3 days a week, (I make enough to pay the bills, pay the rent, pay for two people's food and basic supplies, and still treat myself to some clothes or perfume or whatever every now and then) but the knowledge of how much I COULD be making (shit tons more than I currently make!) if I put in the hours, is still not enough to motivate me to work longer hours.

    It drives me nuts and I too find it exhausting. So many people in free chat could just pass for being the same guy. Same questions over and over.. and even when I feel EVERYONE in my room knows that I'm hairy not shaved, that yes I am "fantastic thank you! And how are you?", that I am from the UK... it can be as much as a second away until I get asked the same question again! *_*

    But wait!... "bb no volume here so can you type it instead? ....BB?..... BB! FFS TYPE IT I CAN'T HEAR U!
    ....Y U IGNORNIN ME SLUT?"

    Like OMG sorry, you want me to fucking FAX you it bb? email? snail mail bb? Here! Take my goddamn address so you can spam your dick pics to my actual location!

    Yeah, fuck that noise. XD Lol! I think from now on, I will take to ignoring them. All the info they need is in my profile.
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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    Free chat is a special kind of hell, lol. The DMV of the sex industry.

    I know it's no one guy's fault. They are just trying to chat us up - but its endless, never ending of the SAME questions over and over. No wonder girls snap, lol.












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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    Become a domme and never beg. lmao. I dont ask guys for privates. I tell them if they don't start putting out some funds Im fucking leaving.
    I find that begging a guy for free is enough to get them hard. Treat them like shit and they start throwing their money at you.

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    Fine line...some guys like being treated like shit, and its like a free humliation session for him

    I swear it...with some of these guys, you just cant win. Me, I just get bored and ignore him.

    And ohhh yes, I HATE those guys telling me to type instead of talk.
    Or when Im typing cause I have to be quiet, tell me to talk instead of type. Just slay me.
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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    Just like women who date assholes and give them all their money, time, etc etc (ie: me), it's a vicious cycle. I found that on Black Friday, when I wasn't getting any pvts, I made some kind of mean comments about how their wives must have the credit card cuz ya'll are all broke... And that got them tipping and a couple privates. I find men don't like to get their egos hurt -- even through the computer, lol. But I don't ask for a private ever. If they ask show ass bb, I just say I dont take requests without a tip or we can just go private. If they keep being like that, they can gtfo of my room, and thats when you bust out the douchebag to the rest of the room & the guys who have money are either going to take you private, or leave of their own accord and the freeloaders will... .well, continue being freeloaders. Just my experience once. Asking for privates is giving them the power -- I dont do that cuz thats what they want, they want to feel like you'll cater to anything they want and then you're asking for a private, and they can say, haha NOPE!!! DENIED!! STUPID BITCH! HAHAH! (woman haters, I swear) but if they start asking the questions, then you have the power to answer & turn THEM down, which switches it up & shows anyone in the room you're not taking shit and then the guy who's got money is either gonna spend it or usually leave. I wonder if that makes any sense? Just the way my brain processes it.

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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    I personally RARELY tell guys you can see this or that in private, or tell/ask them to go private at all. I think most guys find it a big turn off. If they ask something like "show this or that or do this or that" then yah, kindly tell them they can see that in private. But if they don't make a request, I don't tell them or ask them to go.

    Also, you are not obligated to answer every single person who comes into your chat and asks a question. You don't HAVE to address each and every one of them, you don't HAVE to say hi to them. If I did that.... I don't know wtf I would do. There's just too many people coming in and out to feel like you have to answer each and every one of them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    Also, you are not obligated to answer every single person who comes into your chat and asks a question. You don't HAVE to address each and every one of them, you don't HAVE to say hi to them. If I did that.... I don't know wtf I would do. There's just too many people coming in and out to feel like you have to answer each and every one of them.
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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    Oh, I get SO repetitive.

    There are some questions that just get an insta-response that I don't even think about...to the point that if I get asked that question IRL, I sometimes respond without thinking.....you don't know embarrassment until you have had a friend's new gf compliment you on your eyes, and without thinking respond "well, you should see the rest of me". Oooooops.

    I find that when you have squatters that are polite but have an actual conversation with you, it can help relieve the tedium....and sometimes if I feel like it is just too obvious, I will actually comment on it! Geez, I feel like a cross between a stripper and a parrot! Who will come save me from boredom by taking me pvt and fucking my brains out? I just get really silly....

    But yeah - it is part of the job...
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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    I just use the SM auto-responder. I set it up for normal questions and I just annoy the fuck out of them back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    I just use the SM auto-responder. I set it up for normal questions and I just annoy the fuck out of them back.
    Me too, i have the most common answers saved and paste them into chat. I wish they would have more than 5 answers displayed in chat cause i need more a click away

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Oh, I get SO repetitive.

    There are some questions that just get an insta-response that I don't even think about...to the point that if I get asked that question IRL, I sometimes respond without thinking.....you don't know embarrassment until you have had a friend's new gf compliment you on your eyes, and without thinking respond "well, you should see the rest of me". Oooooops.

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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    I just can't ask and beg for privates. I feel crappy doing it and just refuse to go there. I feel like I'm lowering myself some where I don't want to go if I beg. Usually if its super slow, I will just sign out and come back later.

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    Default Re: How can I Stop sounding like a Broken Record for Privates?

    I never ask for pvts, either. I send them to the paid section or ask "mind tipping for the request?" if they ask me to do things for them. Don't want to waste my time and energy for someone who isn't interested at all or "wants to be seduced to go pvt". I'll better save them for the ones who are interested and willing to pay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    ask "mind tipping for the request?".
    mind?
    bhahaha!
    I just had this vision like I do sometimes of tieing them down and stealing their money..
    Would they mind that? Im sure they;d not.
    If Im wearing a thong.... lol

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    That's one reason I don't care for Gold shows. I do them sometimes, but mostly I just stay in Classic Chat. The only time I change to party chat is when I plan on doing a gold show. I will not Beg and keep nagging for the tips either. All these guys get a lot more action then they normally do when a gold show is in the making..they know this and take advantage. Don't get me wrong...I totally love the gold show when it happens and everything falls into place, but man do I get freaking pissed off when they don't go the way I want. LOL I tried one today before I signed off for the day. Set my timer and waited..gave those guys 7 minutes to have at least one pledge..no one did, so I canceled it. You just never know I guess! LOL Last week I had three successful gold shows in one day.

    Begging and asking for privates, exclusives and gold for the shows looks so unattractive to me. Just my personal feelings on it. It makes me sad to see a pretty, beautiful and sexy girl asking for shows. Then I get angry at the dumb asses not giving her what she deserves.

    I should change up some of my auto replies..heck I don't even remember what I put in those really, its been so long.

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    Oh jeez...I forgot to put down what I wanted to say to you sweetie. Just sign out if it gets to much for you. Don't let them get you down, you shouldn't have to ask for shows..none of us girls should have to ask. These guys know what a site like this is all about. Just look pretty, beautiful, seductive, smile, look into the camera as your talking to the men and just be your sexy self. If no shows are happening and its bringing your mood down, take a breather. (((HUGS)))

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