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    I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm putting in the hours, trying to have fun with camming and nothing. Just insults thrown my way and very few shows. I greet people and get told how sad my show is, that they'll take me private if I bash my ugly face into the wall. I say hi and get told instantly, 'bye'. I do my makeup wear what few cute clothes I have and my body and my camming room are clean. I suppose it could just be rotten luck with my room and people in my room, but I'm sensing a pattern.... I feel like crying, it seems like every a**hole online has a direct link to my rooms.

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    I noticed when I say hi or hello, then they leaves, if I´m not saying hi or hello, they stay longer.. I don´t know why. Too much pushing say hi?

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    I know it can be tough but try not to let it get to you and don't give up.

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    are these premium members being rude to you or is the people being rude those who aren't properly registered, i.e guests/basics? If so then I wouldn't bother saying hi to them as they have no money. As for premiums if they are rude, there is no need for it. Don't take it personally because every model even the most beautiful ones get rude comments everyday too. i used to get it all the time and get offended by it, but now i just give out the abuse back.

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    to the OP. are u new or not new?
    I guess ur new..?
    ok...

    this is the hardest advice to follow but ( and I hate to give it cause I hate being told the same ). .... keep smiling!

    Put your acting face on...
    Keep smiling.

    And make sure u do your homework before hand: HD encoder is on, your sound is on, your cam is nice quality, you look neat and your room looks neat too.
    and whatever you do, dont make it sound like and look like this is work for you.
    Dont call it a shift.
    Dont call them customers.
    Dont talk about how much $ you need.
    Dont display your toys like its a toys store.
    Dont act too horny. Dont sit there stiff.
    Dont charge too little.
    Dont take anything for granted.
    People do enter your room? Be happy they do. They dont have to. They want to.

    And read all that u can on here...
    Dont read it while you work thou, read before or after, when you can concentrate on what you;re reading.... plenty of AMAZING advice here.
    Dont start your cam BEFORE you take a couple of minutes for yourself to tell yourself that you are grafetul for everything that you have in life, you are lucky to have the little things, you are beautiful and deserve the best.
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    I believe in major seduction when camming when being a BBW. You need to look amazing the moment they set their eyes on you. Men are visual, a clean room and area are nice but they need to see an attractive woman sitting in front of them first. Your eyes, lips, clothes need to bleed sexiness. Have you thought of changing your look? How about a nice long, flowy wig? Maybe some bright red lipstick? Think Marylyn Monroe sexy, make them remember you. This of course is my opinion but being a bbw myself, when I cammed I made sure I had something extremely alluring on, sexy from head to toe, my voice, flirtatious, assertive, alert, and cute/quirky and funny. Even if they were broke, they stopped and stayed in my room for hours and I never revealed anything in free chat. You gotta make them believe you're the baddest fat bitch on that site.

    MakeUp- Is it on point? Would you take you private/fuck you?
    Clothes- Are you fully clothed in regular clothes? I don't do regular clothing unless asked. I always wear lingerie and I changed at least 3 times a shift. Lingerie screams sexy and that you want to fuck now, not later, no bullshit.
    Assertive?- Are you greeting them all by name and engaging with them?
    Themes- Try standing out, having themed nights


    Have you thought of spreading yourself out to other niche sites? www.allbbwcams.com is one where the guys won't make fun of you. There seem to be a lot of wanks on nowdays but they do come in and chat with you.

    And last but not least, camming isn't for everyone. You have to have a thick skin in this business. Also, you may be cut out for videos/clips instead. Perhaps if you posted a pic we can help you a bit better? The great thing about camming is that everyone has a following no matter how you look! Some of us just need a little work to make the best money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    to the OP. are u new or not new?
    I don't know how to answer this. Been camming on and off occasionally since March, been really focused on it the start of this month. So I guess you can say 'yes' as far as time invested. I've been on SM, AW, MFC albeit the latter was 2 or so months ago. When I used to go online it was for 2-3 hours at a time. Now I have been doing it doing it daily for 6-8 hours for 2 weeks straight. I use a Logitech 9000 and my sound is always on. My computer is unable to handle the encoder. (I've tried.) As for lingerie, I'm very much unable to afford anything and live in a rural area 100 miles away from anywhere. I work with what I have. I never discuss money. It is very hard to keep smiling but I usually manage to pull it off. Usually. If I can't smile, I just log off. lol Point taken, the really nasty comments are usually from non-members. Damn cowards. The registered members who do comment are usually are just the ones that type 'bye' and are on their way when I greet them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    It is very hard to keep smiling but I usually manage to pull it off. Usually. If I can't smile, I just log off. lol .
    oh no.. if you cant smile at the moment, take the camera off your face and touch your boobs or something...
    YOu dont have to log off just cause u cant smile for 1-10 minutes...

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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    The registered members who do comment are usually are just the ones that type 'bye' and are on their way when I greet them.
    If you are on SM, do you have the "free" window open? It is the one at the very bottom - you will have paid chat at the top (that only opens up when someone comes into a show), then "guest" chat...then if you have it enabled, "free" at the bottom. If you are looking at the "free" window - CLOSE IT! CLOSE IT NOW!!! Those guys are asssssshhoooooolles. I keep the free enabled (better placement, tv shows, etc) but keep the window closed...and every now and then if I am bored, I'll pop it open and just stare....it is like the worst of "stupid annoying shit you hear on cam"....I will have all of my guests being lovely, polite, telling me I am gorgeous, perfect, etc...and then the free guys are all saying "show us your tits you ugly slut". *shudder. They can't take you pvt anyway, so why bother registering the crap that comes out of their keyboards? If you are worried about losing a conversion, do what I do, and every now and then say "If you are talking and I am not responding, it means that you aren't a full member! I can't see you! *pout* Just add your cc info, and you should be able to come into my special "guest" room, and then we can chat! I'm not ignoring, promise!"

    Sucks that you can't use the encoder, but it is possible without it...stick with it!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm putting in the hours, trying to have fun with camming and nothing. Just insults thrown my way and very few shows. I greet people and get told how sad my show is, that they'll take me private if I bash my ugly face into the wall. I say hi and get told instantly, 'bye'. I do my makeup wear what few cute clothes I have and my body and my camming room are clean. I suppose it could just be rotten luck with my room and people in my room, but I'm sensing a pattern.... I feel like crying, it seems like every a**hole online has a direct link to my rooms.
    Hola! I am a BBW and sometimes not BBW. I started camming weighing at 240 .. yup...240 and 5 motherfucking feet of chunk. You are prob on a big site. I started on a smaller site. EVERY DAMN NIGHT...someone would troll me. Bash, go prv and not stay... THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN. I started my bigger sites that most of us work and the same damn thing. Its inevitable. I KNOW ITS HARD TO BRUSH IT OFF... girl, this is your induction to make it or break it. If you can pass one year , you have succeeded (hell pass one night, ur good in my book) TO THIS DAY... matter of fact last night, I cried. I couldnt take no more of lurkers. I got on this afternoon for 2 hours, one site made double bank of what I would've done last night normally. Different people 24/7.

    I lost custis when I lost weight, I lost custis with weight gain. Right now a gentleman is my "feeder" (isnt that when they want us to gain, and feed us? i think the term is right) He wants to play with my belly this that and the third..he wants this fetish and I'm milking it until he notices I'm loosing weight. He will eventually hate me and say I raped his wallet and I never planned on gaining weight.

    Models ( if they still troll chat rooms and all of know they do, I am dreaming it went away ya know) if models are trolling you, they are obviously not making money bc they are in your room. They are not making money trying to piss you off.

    Keyboard warriors... I think that's what we call them...FUCK THEIR SHIT. Im not going to tell you how I handle it, i will talk cash money shit to pc and tell them to go blow their daddy and mine,I'm not telling you how to handle it. If they continue I drop it down to their family, "I think your spawn just coughed up cum" I stoop LOW to get a point across. Funny bc 2 nights ago a man did that to me, I went in hard. Last night before I logged on he had left me a email apologizing.

    Its not bc your a BBW. Its not bc you have lets say blonde hair one day, brown the next hair, fuckton of facial piercings, one day you have hair, one day its short, 2 days later its 22 inches long, and 3 hours from now a new tattoo. Its not bc you may be a MILF,(if you ever find my cam, say hi! )

    The reason is WE ARE ON CAM , WORLDWIDE, WATCHED AND ADORED MORE THAN THE PRES... Hateful ass ppl dont go away, they breed, unfortunately for us we deal with it. 30 sec assholes, we all have them.

    IMO all models have this issue.
    "your too fat"
    "your too skinny"
    "she wear hair"
    "she no blonde"
    "your tits are not perky"
    "your tits are not big enough"
    "GLASSES?" (like they are foreign objects unknown to man)
    "what s ur nationality"
    Eventually you will ignore these circle jerks by second nature, regulars who adore you will swift you in private. Some will throw a tip to see u smile bc unknowingly we do wear our feelings.
    My rule of thumb, some may think is dumb but Im doing pretty well in life, all of us have bumps in the road
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    The trolls on the other side of your monitor are not doing any of those for you. So fuck them.

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    Are you new? I almost think you have to start on a site before too many girls flood it. I think that's a huge key to getting good placement right away. That's why sites like MFC and LiveJasmin are so hard to get good placement on (when signing up as a newbie right now) even though a lot of girls makes crazy money... Its because a lot of them started before there were a lot of girls on the site so it was easy to get good placement fast. Its not easy anymore because there are too many girls. And good placement = good $$$. In fact, most sites, the higher you are ranked, the more money you bring in for the site on average.

    I feel like Streamate is starting to get to this point. Because of gold shows, girls are offering more and more for less and less. And more girls are signing up at Streamate because gold shows don't require like any brain power. You just dance around and jiggle your tits, you don't even have to talk to guys, and then you make money. But that pool of money is increasingly being divided between more and more girls, so each gold show girl is making less of an individual profit it seems. Guys are still paying for individual interaction/attention (otherwise its like watching free porn on a tube site TBH), but girls don't want to offer it bc it takes energy & hustling, so those girls just have to stick to gold shows and hope for the best.

    I've also heard from many girls who have recently left their studios, or left individual accounts for a studio recently (basically, girls who were on SM for awhile but then had to start over with a new account), that it took fooooorrrrevvvvveeerrr to get their placement back, or they never got it back at all. Which was totally unlike when they first signed up with the site 1 or 2 or 3 years ago when they practically got good placement in just 1 day. So I think that's part of the problem.

    Getting into something after it has already been flooded. It seems that only the people who originally started with it continue to make good money with it. A way to counteract this though, is by offering something that no one else does. An uptapped niche that catches the eye (of men/customers in this case) and makes them want to stay & spend. So I would say, find your untapped niche and then push it.

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    I am loving this advice - thank you all. I can relate a bit. I am curvy-chubby but prob considered borderline/small BBW too. To the OP I am so sorry for all the hurtful pathetic people. There IS a market for us! I think right now it is really, really difficult to seek out the right guys. SM in partic has gotten bad w/the weenies over the past month or two. For example, I have abt 350 people blocked over a 2 yr period, but my last 2 days on SM (last Sat & Sun) I blocked over 40 people - each one for good reason!

    I don't crunch #'s for SM but I can't imagine they are doing THAT well with the KGB traffic/Gold show bs. I moved to two other sites & I am much happier- better crowds, better attitude all around. One of them I have yet to hear a nasty comment --- now that's saying something.

    This is a small thought but really helped me lately: I stopped reading my twitter feed before my work shift: girls bragging about this or that is a buzz kill for me and looking at their tweets was not helping me "get it up" to be on cam. :-D

    OP I am hanging in by a thread financially and barely have $ for new stuff, so I totally understand how that stress can compound everything. Remember, you are beautiful and sexy and very fuckable. yes, yes you are :-) Kisses and all the best to you!

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    This is a small thought but really helped me lately: I stopped reading my twitter feed before my work shift: girls bragging about this or that is a buzz kill for me and looking at their tweets was not helping me "get it up" to be on cam. :-D
    Threadjack! But remember - a lot of the time, tweets are not 100% true! Many camgirls tweet ridiculously happy/horny/positive things to help pump up their fans and build themselves up as perma-awesome nymphos. Don't let it get you down imagining that they are really having a life that insanely fabulous and you aren't...

    I, personally, do it all the time. I am constantly tweeting about "awesome GS!" "so many orgasms today" "you guys are so incredible!" "thanks for paying for awesome thing x!" "I'm SUCH A FUN AND BOUNCY AND PERKY AND HORNY PERSON!". I'm usually tweeting this while exhausted, brain dead, and frustrated. Oh, and pooping. Does anyone NOT tweet while pooping? LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    I'm usually tweeting this while exhausted, brain dead, and frustrated. Oh, and pooping. Does anyone NOT tweet while pooping? LOL
    Ah yes, the 'ol pooping diversion. :-D

    In all seriousness, point taken. I know most twitter bragging is high stinkin' horseshit but on a bad day it's like reading the newspaper w/all the bad news. I have ADD, so maybe ignoring twitter helps me focus-idk.

    I'm happy for twitter tho, girls need to hustle and have every right to do so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
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    The trolls on the other side of your monitor are not doing any of those for you. So fuck them.

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    awe ty , that is sweet to say. I loved women compliments. men dont have that effect on me but when a woman does it, IM LIKE..... YES! There is hope. I found pics yesterday before the blonde episode that made me go w short hair, a few lbs lighter and a mini depression started. . I'm fixing it but your comment just made me feel better. TY SO MUCH!
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm putting in the hours, trying to have fun with camming and nothing. Just insults thrown my way and very few shows. I greet people and get told how sad my show is, that they'll take me private if I bash my ugly face into the wall. I say hi and get told instantly, 'bye'. I do my makeup wear what few cute clothes I have and my body and my camming room are clean. I suppose it could just be rotten luck with my room and people in my room, but I'm sensing a pattern.... I feel like crying, it seems like every a**hole online has a direct link to my rooms.
    Hey mama,do you mind sharing what your rates are?Please dont think im insinuating that you are cheap,but thats the one thing i didnt see in the thread,unless i just glanced right over it?The biggest douchebags on that site tend to be the cheapest-so if youre charging too low,that could potentially be your prob.the guys actually tell you bye?! well hell,consider yourself lucky!! they dont say a damned thing to me,they just leave!I know everyone says to greet everyone in your room but Ive noticed that ALOTTTT of guys run like hell the moment you say their name.i guess it goes something like "doot doo doooo,oh i like her picture,im gonna clickz on it.click.guess ill scroll down a sec while her room is loading and look at her pics.mmmmm yea...*scrolls up to see you wer'kin that room*oooo chunky monkey,my fave flavor...fap fap fap.hears "well hey there RicoSuave69420"from a sweet sexy far away voice.thinks "huh?wait,what?!?she can SEE ME?!what happened to my invisibility cloak,dont choo know im Harry Potter son?! OMGZ RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!*as hes exiting*"wheeeeew,close one!i have no intention of paying for pussy EVER in my entire life(even though pussy is never free im just too stupid to realize this) and i just wanted to nut all over your computer screen forehead!
    I generally do not greet every individual person now,I will say hello to the new guys coming in,but in a statement that greets them all at once,not individually.And if they stay around for X amount of min,then ill address them personally.i notice many of them stick around much longer when i do this.some arent necessarily fapping,but reading your profile to get to "know" you better or to see if you offer their particular fetish.like Fridays said,the fact that theyre coming into your room is a great sign,that means they WANT to honey.You may have shit luck and have gotten you a jealous model as well-i cant find it right this sec but theres a thread started from another bbw model where she goes OFF,ranting about other models etc logging into her room just to call her similar names.Many women LOVE to hate on us fat chicks but let it run off of you like water over river rocks babe.Go to the main BBW camgirl thread,read the first and the last page or two especially-we were just talking about freeloaders and some bbw statistics that may help you feel better about yourself.PM me if you need ANYTHING,ive only been a camgirl for 3 mths now,but im a BBW on SM and it really helps to make friends and have ppl that can talk to/relate to you,and to reassure you that you are not alone.also BAN!! BAN BAN BAN and BAN!!! they say ANYTHING even remotely rude to you,or cheap,BAN!just bc youre a big girl doesnt mean that you have to take that shit!didnt you take enough shit from cruel sons of bitches when you were in school?that is,if you were big as a child.this is YOUR show,YOUR room,YOUR money,YOUR life-dont let them ruin it for you this time around too,just bc youre juicy doesnt mean you arent worthy of ANYTHING other chicks have or do-we are ALL meant to be treated EQUAL!keep in mind many cheapasses will insult you trying to get a rise out of you so they can get some free humiliation.oooh yeeeeaaaaa call me a buck toothed twig dicked turd burgler again babaaaay!dont rise to it and dont show any emotion,i just smile smile smile and ignore them and talk to an imaginary guy as im blocking any cocksucker that dare speaketh the insult to me...so cheer up, you can do this girl i know you can!!!!

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    ^^^ IMO those are average prices. When I started SM my thought wad " I can only go up to 5.99, fuck that shit, close my account" They raised my rates.

    ALSO this may help and Im sorry if someone mentioned it before....Do you have a static profile picture. If you dont email them and ask to make your bio pic static. The prettiest model can turn real ugly with those cam shots. I use to log off and log back on when I didn't have static bio pic.

    Im glad a bit of all kinds of models replied to this thread and its not just a "BBW" thread. Feedback from everyone is always nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Threadjack! But remember - a lot of the time, tweets are not 100% true! Many camgirls tweet ridiculously happy/horny/positive things to help pump up their fans and build themselves up as perma-awesome nymphos. Don't let it get you down imagining that they are really having a life that insanely fabulous and you aren't...

    I, personally, do it all the time. I am constantly tweeting about "awesome GS!" "so many orgasms today" "you guys are so incredible!" "thanks for paying for awesome thing x!" "I'm SUCH A FUN AND BOUNCY AND PERKY AND HORNY PERSON!". I'm usually tweeting this while exhausted, brain dead, and frustrated. Oh, and pooping. Does anyone NOT tweet while pooping? LOL
    LMAO touche' lady! for some reason i JUST saw what you said about tweeting.youre so my hero girl,you always give the best advice,are patient with the newbs,funny and can convey any message just the way you want without fighting with anyone or coming off as anything but pleasant and intelligent.ok threadjack over(and hopefully i just didnt make myself sound like a total suckup lol i promise im not trying to kiss ass,i just <3's me some M.R!)
    everyone else has given such wonderful advice as well,thank yall for weighing in even if you arent a BBW,like Temptingmodel said,feedback from everyone is always nice.i know i didnt originally start this thread,but i thought id show some appreciation anyways...I see some threads get a ton of answers,and some barely get a response,so its always nice when ladies take time out of their lives to help someone else.hopefully other bbw's in the future will discover this thread(bc there isnt THAT many on bbws anyways) and be able to take all this great advice and utilize and use it to the best of their abilities to up their game!

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    ^^^^ AW! Everyone is being so freaking NICE to me this week!! Thanks guys!!

    OP - your rates seem great to me! Right on target - don't go believing that you are "too expensive" - even if some douchewad tells you that you are. Trust me, somewhere, there is a guy telling a girl that $1.99 a minute is too expensive. If someone charged $0.50 a minute, it would be "too expensive" for some. So it is NOT your rates. Keep them the way they are, or if you want to experiment with a little lower - please don't go lower than $3.99/4.99, K?
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    I am a BBW been on SM for 3 yr's I started out low wish I hadn't but did I give myself small raises every 6 mos. I am not over 3.00 when I raised my rate to almost that much I have lost a great deal of my customer's and in the 3 month's since have not gained a lot of new one's. Sad part is since I raised my rate's I am no longer on front page I am on page 2 somewhere 5th row. I have not lowered my rates but feel if I go high right now it would not be a good thing. My goal is to be up there by May but to me a lot has to come into play on my end to command that price. This is just me giving my 2 cents, letting off steam, and hoping for a brighter future as I embark on the next step of my journey.

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    I am so sorry I did read it wrong <3 Do you do Gold shows? Do you have any specialties that some girls do not do? Maybe you checked placement when placements where off? Do you use encoder?
    Quote Originally Posted by Sugarmama View Post
    I am a BBW been on SM for 3 yr's I started out low wish I hadn't but did I give myself small raises every 6 mos. I am not over 3.00 when I raised my rate to almost that much I have lost a great deal of my customer's and in the 3 month's since have not gained a lot of new one's. Sad part is since I raised my rate's I am no longer on front page I am on page 2 somewhere 5th row. I have not lowered my rates but feel if I go high right now it would not be a good thing. My goal is to be up there by May but to me a lot has to come into play on my end to command that price. This is just me giving my 2 cents, letting off steam, and hoping for a brighter future as I embark on the next step of my journey.
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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    3years and not over 3 bucks per minute? that is why you are on pg xyz....good luck on your next step and highly advise to raise your rates

    You missed the part when I said I was before I just raised my rate soon as I did I went on page xyz plus lost income.

    Thank you for wising me luck

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    Well, maybe it's not your rates sugarmamma? But I agree, just stick with it. You will eventually gain new reggies if you are doing your best and are sticking to a time-frame. No matter how expensive you are, if they have money, and like what they see, and aren't going to get any freebies, they have no excuse but to pay your rates. I say it like this, other chicks might be cheaper, but there isn't another "me" I'm the creme de la creme of an ebony bbw and they won't find me in anyone elses' room but mine. So shut up and pay me mothafuckas

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    Ty for pointing that out. I am sorry ,I did read it wrong. I understand a vent. I vent all the time, lately its been worse.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sugarmama View Post
    You missed the part when I said I was before I just raised my rate soon as I did I went on page xyz plus lost income.

    Thank you for wising me luck

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