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    Default What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    I've been dancing for a few months and this weekend, I finally had a customer whip his dick out during a lapdance. I WAS SO MAD. I wanted to hit him, but, you know, cameras, and I didn't think it would be worth if it he pressed charges or something. So I just told him to GTFO instead.

    What would you do or have you done in situations like that? If you've ever hit a customer, did management take your side if he complained?

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    End the dance immediately and demand a huge tip. Maybe point and laugh at his tiny cock too. Then tell management and get him kicked out. At my club, they would definitely get rid of him for trying to pull something like that.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    Yeah, humiliation is probably a better route than physical violence. Also if hes unrestrained enough to pull out his Dick he might try to hit you back/restrain you, better to keep you rself safe and free from legal reprocussions. I think you handled the situation fine, thats definetly grounds to end the dance immediatly & kick him out. And hey, you already got the money.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    All dancers run into it at some point. I saw my first customer penis about 6 months into my dancing career and just stood there light a deer in headlights. I was so... shocked! I actually wrote about that experience in my blog.

    Now that it's happened, if it happens again, you'll be confident enough to handle it. Don't let this experience get you down, it doesn't happen very often (if you're not an extras girl, lol).

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    I have hit customers when they grabbed me, or touched inappropriately (both onstage & during dances) but as Janesays mentioned, there is the risk of being hit back. Whether management took my side or the customer's has sadly varied from club to club.

    I only clock them when they are actually that close to me, where they can/already have their hands on me, rather than say I turn my back to drop my undies & turn back to him to find he's done the same In that case I end the dance & get him kicked out.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    tell management and get him kicked out.
    ^This!

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    Just end the dance and demand a huge tip so that you "don't tell and get him kicked out". You can still tell on him. And just remember his face so you never dance for him again.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    My club has the VIP on cameras so they can watch the area. Both clubs I work at don't want to screw with the dancer's money so we have a signal for when the customer makes us uncomfortable in any way- we just raise our hand and a bouncer will see it on the cam and come over. I only found this out after asking, so maybe your club has a similar practice.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    im friends with a lot of the bouncers at my club, if i even raise an eyebrow they will come over and check on me lol, i prefer to have the bouncers yell at them and kick them out, becuase customers always pull the" oh, they wont' see, and i won't tell if you don't..don't you like my cock?" bullshit or just ignore me! grr makes me so mad

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    demand $$$ and immediately end the dance. occasionally I will give the option of extending the dance for significantly more $$ as long as they understand the rules. I would never try to humiliate them and always sure before you have a fast exit from the room because I have seen so many customers get violent. is laughing at a dick really worth getting shoved against a wall or your hair pulled? when something goes wrong I calmly dont say a word and walk toward the exit of the room (if there is a door, hold it open) with my purse before telling him he violated the rules.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    It will happen, you will have figured out better defense mechanisms as time passes and you have gained experience in the stripping world. When that happens I just say "put that shit back or you will get in trouble" in a firm tone of voice. Some girls say that they will get in trouble, but I like to make it sound like its the guy who is getting in trouble, not me. You have to give them airs of superiority and that you are in control, not them.

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    I have dicks pulled out during lapdances on basically a monthly basis! What can I say, it's just that kind of club...I've become sort of numb to it. I usually just look down, say "no, that is NOT allowed" in a really stern voice, and then continue my dances. If the dick comes out again, the dances are over. You'd be surprised how well a good scolding works.
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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    Im running into the same problem. In VIP, I'll be dancing for a dude (facing away from him) and all the sudden ill feel something and am all WHAT!EW! and its ALWAYS HIS FUCKING DICK on my back or something. I used to leave, but it happens so often (like every other VIP) that now I just sternly tell him to put it away. I don't know if I'm doing something that invites this kind of behavior but it makes me sick. Its disgusting and I hate having to constantly be on the lookout for penis. But, I have found that acting appalled and queasy and "oh my god, i am not a hooker" and acting so offended - that often times they'll just start throwing money at you. So theres that...

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tsepmet1 View Post
    Don't let this experience get you down, it doesn't happen very often (if you're not an extras girl, lol).
    Speaking of extras, even though I was so furious that night, I was also thinking to myself, "Well, at least now that staff has seen how freaked I got over a dick, they'll all know I'm not an extras girl." Lol. Gotta look on the bright side!

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    Default Re: What do you do when a customer does something wildly inappropriate?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChefKitty View Post
    My club has the VIP on cameras so they can watch the area. Both clubs I work at don't want to screw with the dancer's money so we have a signal for when the customer makes us uncomfortable in any way- we just raise our hand and a bouncer will see it on the cam and come over. I only found this out after asking, so maybe your club has a similar practice.
    This is so awesome and I WISH we had cameras in our VIP. Out of all the stupid freaking places to not have cameras.

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