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    Default Etiquette for sending a Escort away

    Over the weekend my bf and I went out had a great night then came home and he had the great Idea to order a escort.
    Which if I got any of you ladies, I would probably been stoked but He found this one on Backpage.

    She showed up in worn tennis shoes, old faded jeans and smoking. Essentially looked like she was heading to a dive bar or walmart. I let her come in figuring its dark and maybe with a little light ... idk Once in the house I can tell that shes definitely not working sober though I dont know enough about drugs to tell you what she was on. She peels off her coat and then informs us shes 4 months pregnant and has never done couples. At this point I've got no idea the polite way to deal with this situation, Does Ms. Manners have a chapter on dealing with stereotypical hookers?

    So Ladies, what is the polite way to send a escort away?

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    Default Re: Etiquette for sending a Escort away

    Give her $50 for gas and tell her you changed your mind.
    (Ewww, pregnant and drunk/high....omg)

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    Default Re: Etiquette for sending a Escort away

    You would or should have giving her about $100 as a cancellation fee and send her on her way. there is no other way of doing it some just say they are not interested and send the girl out without even paying a cancellation fee.

    next time try and find a reputable provider.
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    Default Re: Etiquette for sending a Escort away

    You would or should have giving her about $100 as a cancellation fee and send her on her way. there is no other way of doing it some just say they are not interested and send the girl out without even paying a cancellation fee.

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    Minnie, What % of her rate, would you give her as a cancellation fee. When I asked her to leave I did give her money for her time but not $100. If I had been the one doing the picking I would have had it planned out a week in advance and Known the girls favorite color before she got here lol. I also suggested she look into C4S to create some pregnancy clips to tide her over while she couldn't work.

    This isnt so much of me /us decided last minute against the idea but the fact that she was an unsafe choice, who was advertising herself as something she wasn't. That and I have a phobia about pregnant women.

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    Default Re: Etiquette for sending a Escort away

    Many use the guideline of giving half the fee for cancellation IF it is the client that decides not to go through with the appointment. Many think no refund is due if the woman that shows up is not as described, not the girl in the photos, etc. Certainly anyone showing up drunk for any civilian job' would simply be sent home. Sounds like you did the right thing defusing the situation, not creating a scene, 'tipping someone down on their luck' / having whatever issues...

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    Default Re: Etiquette for sending a Escort away

    cancellation fee? i dont think it is fair at all for anyone pay a cancellation fee for something this disgusting. the "escort" was very unprofessional, i dont think she deserves jack shit.

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    Oh boy oh boy...yes definitely do research next time. There are so many places you could go to like TER or NR, even if shes a BP girl, google her phone # to see if she has any reviews...anything. I think youre super lucky that it wasnt worse (and it could have been...believe me)

    But yeah, as far as etiquette goes...in this situation because she was not as advertised, around $50 would have been fair enough. I mean, she *did* show up and didnt rob you or something. As far as BP risks go, thats a plus. And yeah, better to pay her to leave, than have her cause a scene or come back with her "cousin" to collect money.

    Now if its a case where she is as advertised and its no fault of hers that you are turning her away, but youre just not vibing, changed your mind, what have you...then 50% of the rate is fair.

    Ive been cancelled on in person twice, and both times the guys gave me the full rate, but I think cause they felt really bad abt cancelling and wanted to make sure I didnt think it was me or something about me.
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