Should I try this.?

**TriXieBaby** · 12-05-2012, 12:03 AM

I met this guy on streammate. He messaged me saying he wants an 'intimate e-mail friend'. He said he will send me money. I decided to e-mail him back. I'd like to try it out. But I wanted opinions of others before anything. Right now I'm asking how much money he'd be offering. He said he could send it to me through green dot or western union. I know nothing about green dot. I've used western union twice before. But for personal things. Is it unsafe to put your real name out there with customers like this? Please tell me your thoughts!!

**TriXieBaby** · 12-05-2012, 12:04 AM

I just got a reply saying 50$ a week.

**Classy_Katy** · 12-05-2012, 12:11 AM

I've had so many offers from guys that would involve me giving out my personal information, usually offering stupidly high amounts of money...I wouldn't do it!

**TriXieBaby** · 12-05-2012, 12:16 AM

Apart of me wants to say yes! I'm just not sure about giving out my name for the money to be sent. Or whatever else info I'd have to give out in order to receive it.

**Timor** · 12-05-2012, 12:20 AM

Badbadbad idea. You'd be telling him where you are and potentially opening it up for him to look you up, plus he'd have your real name. PLUS, $50 isn't much. It's not worth it.

**LilRedRidinGood** · 12-05-2012, 12:22 AM

no...don't give out your real name. tell him to donate the money on one of your cam sites or tell him to sign up for Payoneer or Amazon.
Fuck western union. they could hop a bus, GPS you and cut your head off.
I have tons of Payoneer sluts. (sorry Im a domme) I charge $50 every 3 days unless they piss me off then they get $50 penalties.
I just give them my BUSINESS email address and poof! sent.

**TriXieBaby** · 12-05-2012, 12:23 AM

Better safe than sorry.

**TriXieBaby** · 12-05-2012, 12:34 AM

How does Amazon work? Through gift cards?

**TriXieBaby** · 12-05-2012, 12:43 AM

Thank you so much. That helped a lot. I just told him he can pay me through streammate. And I haven't gave him any contact info. He's spent on me for an exclusive once. I'm thinking about just sticking strictly with streammate. It's my best bet. And I would NOT want to risk it for something stupid.

**vivianbear** · 12-05-2012, 01:19 AM

Dude, sign up for NiteFlirt! You can get an affiliate link that pays $50, per signup, once he spends $50. You can send him pay-to-view mails that he has to pay to open so he can send to your inbox but any response is going to cost him whatever you charge and you still make 70%. Hell, I'd charge him $75/week and email him every Friday and I'd still make $50.

**kortneykay** · 12-05-2012, 04:04 AM

I'm glad you decided not to do it. Most guys who try and snatch you away from sites are usually low ballers. They try and offer to cut out the middle man, while actually screwing you over in the long run. They will try and make it sound good, only to offer you less than your worth/charge because they know you only get a certain cut. $50 is not enough to be constantly bugged day in and day out and it does get to that. I had a guy find me offline, he spent about $14k+ on me over the course of about 6 months. Also, when he realized that it was to be an online relationship the well dried and he would occasionally send me more money throughout the years. It's been 4 years, I'm married, and this fool is still bugging me but not spending cake like he once did. In his world he wants to wife/date me before he comes out of his pockets like before but I'm not trying to hear it. Occasionally he will spoil me with a few hundred bucks but it's really not worth it.

**Jaana** · 12-05-2012, 04:35 AM

$50 a week isn't very much. I did something like this once, without the personal information or Western Union, and charged $200/week because these kinds of guys tend to be VERY NEEDY. If you're having an IM chat with them and you take longer than .5 seconds to respond they get upset. It can be stressfiul and it rarely ever is just writing e-mails.
Plus, anytime you need to give out personal info to a custie, especially one you don't know very well, it's bad.