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    I'm with Isobel and GR on this. I am also bi and the more natural a woman looks, the more I want her. Also, I love love love super curly, full hair on a woman of any color. I think it might be my fetish

    But I think you should do what makes you most comfortable because that is what will make you most desirable in the long run. Confidence is a huge turn on.

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    Not to but to fine a point on it but straight hair on a black girl does not equal fake hair. Before I had locs I could do a blow out, flat iron and my hair was down my back and straight. I have 4b hair and I used to hate that people assumed it was a wig or weave. To the OP's question as I stated I have had locs always and the number of customers I have had tells me it's really not a niche market. Everything that is different is not necessarily only going to appeal to a niche. Guys don't know what they like until you tell them they like it. Besides guys can like different things. I have a guy on NF who call me faithfully. He also calls a friend of mine who is half my age with blonde hair and blue eyes So I don't think it's always a case of either or, sometimes it's and.
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    I'm just posting an exchange Rina and I had via PM. I think what she had to say was really valuable and I appreciate her bringing it to my attention and giving me the opportunity to clarify what I was trying to say:

    Quote Originally Posted by Rina
    I'm sending you a PM because I didn't want this to turn dramatic in the threads with others getting involved. I like you. I think you are awesome but you're statement that you're sick of seeing black women with with fake hair, left me feeling uncomfortable. I suppose is the word.
    I get what you meant, and I know it wasn't bad but Isobel while I appreciate what you're saying and that you're sick of it. I think you have to realize that it's more than other people don't like black hair at play here. We still live in a day and age when Black women with natural hair can and do face discrimination in the work place, where there are companies that will absolutely tell you that natural hair is not accepted or professional. That's in addition to centuries of cultural stigma and propaganda that teach that black women and girls that their natural hair is just wrong. I know you're aware of this most likely, but hearing someone say they are sick seeing black women with fake hair who doesn't have to deal with the choice between being fake and natural well. . . I feel like it then makes the choice to not be natural bad, and I just feel my hair doesn't need more politicizing, or judgement. I know this wasn't your intent, because from the rest of what you wrote I think the point you're making is that you're sick of black women feeling they have to have fake hair, but I wanted to give you my perspective on it without causing drama.

    Rina

    PS I know you know this but it bears repeating not all straight hair on black women is fake hair.
    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren
    Thanks for lending me your perspective on this and for appreciating what I was actually trying to say! It's hard for a white person to comment on the issue of anything pertaining to other races, because I know I don't know anything about it from the inside, the important view, and can only comment on it from the outside...which is often unappreciated, and can come off as insensitive or stupid, since, being on the outside, I don't know all the feelings, thoughts and issues. Yes, I was definitely trying to say that she shouldn't be made to feel like she HAS to change her hair or do all that crazy, expensive wigs/straighteners, etc. I wanted her to know that there are lots of people who find natural hair beautiful and she shouldn't feel that the way she comes naturally, out of the box, is bad or unattractive. I was trying, in a one woman, one comment, to break the cycle of cultural stigma and propaganda.

    ....probably, "sick of it" wasn't the best phrase, I'd just edited and re-edited and wrote and cut the comment so many times already that I was irritated with myself and just pressed play already.

    Would you mind if I C&Ped our exchange in the thread? I think that what you said came off caring and supportive, and I don't think that anyone would feel you're starting drama. If you feel this way, probably lots of other viewers do too and they could benefit from this exchange.

    And yes, not all straight hair is fake. I'm just talking about the feeling that one HAS to "correct" kinky hair to fit with the dominant standard. I want to say I, at the very least, do not buy into that standard. A parallel I made in one of the edited posts I didn't make was that of coming out as gay. The more people know they know someone who is gay, the more likely they are to support gay-friendly policy and legislation. I'm all for visibility, it's hard and it doesn't always work (which, among other things, is why I never said it), but I think that if more people reflected diversity instead of bending to the dominant standard, the dominant standard would become weakened and change or evaporate as people became exposed to diversity and realize there's nothing wrong with it.


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    I think it might work in your favor to have locs. Makes you stand out. Try it out and see, and if it doesn't try a new style. Like the others said, there's tons of women with straight hair and not many with locs.

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    I used to have my hair in braids and twists and still did well doing cam shows. I remember one time doing a show and one braid fell out from my head and it dropped on my thigh. I was so embarrassed it didn't interrupt the show manage to make the guy to enjoy his time with me. He didn't mention to me about the braid fell off and not really sure if he notice with me quickly moving my body causing it to fall down on my dark color bed sheets also at the time used non HD quality cam. I love to change up my hair wearing weaves, wigs, and right now natural.

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    yeah i just clicked on your links, you are gorgeous.

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    Default Re: Black Camgirl with Questions about Dreadlocks and Camming

    I'm a bit late to the party....but here's my 2 cents.

    Mixed white/black girl with dreads here. I get at least 5 comments every 30 minutes about my dreads, always positive. Rarely do I get something along the lines of "shit locks" or "wash your hair" bullshit. It's something good that sets you aside from the rest and makes you stand out.

    Overall, do what you want. :p Hair is hair. There's someone for everyone.

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