I don't mean back-handed compliments- I think we can all recognize when a guy is just trying to tear you down a bit without being obvious about it. I guess what I mean to say is, do you ever have customers who say things that they think are compliments but are actually kind of insulting? If so, how do you handle it?
I've pretty much come to embrace some of my physical attributes that I never would have embraced had it not been for camming. For example. if someone would have called me "thick" before entering this industry I probably would have cried ands starved myself for three days. Now I know and believe that curves are sexy so when someone calls me "thick" I am just like hell yeah I am thick! And we both love my curvesI say this and I believe it.
What about when you don't think something is sexy, but your viewer does? Perfect example, tonight I had someone come in my free chat and when I asked how he is he said he's great now that he sees my saggy titties, and how he missed them and they are so saggy and it turns him on. I instantly became self-conscious and uncomfortable, though I didn't let it show. I don't think saggy titties are sexy. I wish mine were perkier, but they aren't. And while I love my breasts, hearing them refered to that way just rubbed me the wrong way and made me feel a little ugly. I played it off and tried to redirect the conversation and encourage him to tip so we can get them out to play, but... It still kinda sucked.
Am I just more sensitive than I thought, or do some of you also find yourself being insulted by well-meaning viewers? If so, how do you handle it?



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I will try to think of all of the compliments I have received on the things I think of as flaws. Actually my self-esteem used to be in the crapper before camming and I'm mostly confident now when it comes to my appearance. It's just those couple of little things that still sting and bring up old insecurities, I guess.

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