I have been searching for clubs to dance at for the first time and in the process I have been seeing some cute guys!! I mean is it wrong to date someone u met at the club?![]()
I have been searching for clubs to dance at for the first time and in the process I have been seeing some cute guys!! I mean is it wrong to date someone u met at the club?![]()





As long as you don't work at that specific club, why not?




Can you? Yes.
Should you? Up for debate.



Like, customers you happen meet? It'll cut into your money in the long run if you do. Employees or managers? I wouldn't, ever. This is a bad idea because anything can go wrong and it would be really awkward working together after a breakup. Idk. It's up to you regardless, but I wouldn't.





Be prepared for the consequences if you decide to. I can't say don't do it because my current boyfriend I met as a customer.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
I met my bf of almost 2 years in the club. The only reason why he was considered date-able is because he dropped serious cash on me when we met. I am not a gold digger but that is the only way I'd look twice at anybody. This work, not match.com.
"Some really cute guys.." when you say that, it looks like you want to make a hobby out of it. You haven't got the job yet but you're already considering dating around...sounds to me, your head is in the wrong place. I get so annoyed when I have one of those nights where all guys want to do is date me and not spend money so please don't make this look OK.
If you start treating work like an eye candy, dating fest, it will be terrible for business and you will have a reputation where no one will take you serious as someone professional.
Honey I think your head is in the wrong place.
first of all, one thing you will quickly learn about dancing is you literally "can" do almost anything you want.
That said, you don't even have a job yet and you're already thinking about hooking up with customers. I'm going to be really blunt here and tell you that there are girls that the industry just eats up, chews really well, and spits out the bones. Please don't come into this world looking for validation that you're hot. Do not come here looking for a boyfriend. Believe me a strip club is THE LAST PLACE you need to look for a boyfriend. (No offense previous posters, but ya'll have way more experience and know the score.) Even the most mediocre looking dancer gets guys asking for her number 20 times a night, it's so much more than at a real club, because 1. they're much more bold at a strip club 2. the idea of getting to take out/bang a stripper, like ANY stripper, drives them crazy (fact).
Please keep yourself under control and be about your business at the club, assuming you get hired. It's very telling that you haven't even been hired yet and you're already worried about how you're going to meet guys at the club to go on dates with. That should be the last on your list of 50 things you need to get in order right now. Please don't kid yourself about the men who come in there. Any guy you go out with or fuck will be telling his grandchildren about the "time he fucked a stripper" like HE'S hot shit. Don't think you're starting any love stories, and don't be a bit player in someone else's fantasy.
Thank you for your responses ladies![]()
I have personally done this&things didnt go well for me but now he wont stop calling me I mean its been months& i still get calls & i tell him"i dont want u!" and he says well i want u. LOL. psychos gotta watch out. Ill never do this again unless they are gunna change my lilfe for the better in a huge way i couldnt do for myself.geeze big no no in my book
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