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    Default Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I am now starting to get repeat customers or regulars who take me private but when they do, it kind of makes me feel, I don't know, weird or something because it's like, I am doing the same things, saying the same words and acting the same way as the last time we went private, a day or two ago. Am I suppose to some how, come up with a new different show for each repeat private show customer because for now, I can't think of anything else to say and do? I feel weird like they may get bored or realize that I'm faking because after all, they already know what to expect and what I'm going to say, show and do in my sessions.

    Maybe it's just me, but for those who have dozens of regulars, how do you manage to give them a different experience each and every time? Or is it even ok to give them the same damn thing each time. Sigh!!! I think I might be over thinking things

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I know exactly what you mean! Reg or not, I always ask what they want as soon as they take me private so they always have a choice of what they'd like, but all the same, a lot of my regs seriously just seem to like the same thing. I just figure if they actually wanted something else, something different - they'd definitely ask, (or not come see me at all) being as they're paying a lot of money per min to watch me!




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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    This happens pretty regularly to me and I've never thought twice about it. Some guys just have particular fetishes and find a model who does them really well. If anything, despite it perhaps seeming strange, definitely take it as a compliment. They've found the model (or maybe you are one of a couple...they might really need a fix) who can do their kinda of show so well that's all they could ever want and need. It's kinda like when I go to a certain coffee shop how they make my chai tea. It's damn good and every time I'm in I want the same thing because it hits the spot. Same story really. A guy has something that gets his rocks off and you do it well so really, keep at it. High fives to ya, lady.

    If there was ever a question of a guy recording or whatever he would only get that once so if that thought ever crossed your mind, no worries. I keep notes on my regulars about their shows and they appear quite happy when I remember who they and exactly what they dig. It's money I can count on. I mean, you -could- spice it up if you want. Sometimes when I do a 'favorite' show for a guy I will ask "So...tell me... *lean in* how am I getting you addicted to me? *sly grin and a suggested move pertaining to their show*" This could give some info. I have a guy who only wants me to put on black lipstick, drool, and smear it on my face. I asked him that question and he said he loves the way my mouth moves when I speak and that my lips are 'perfect'. I went with it and felt more comfortable. Safe way to ask!

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    I totally get where you're coming from but I've learned that quality regulars are drawn to you more than what you look like or how fast you can get them off. It's your personality, your smile, your eyes, the way you flip your hair or whatever that is that just DOES IT for them. What works to my advantage is that I'm a Transsexual so that alone is a novelty, a fetish. I give them the danger, excitement and unpredictability that isn't run of the mill. I find it easiest when I'm being myself. I don't do ANYTHInG I don't like.
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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    Phone sex is just like this 95% of the time if not more so I'm used to it. If they are regulars, they obviously love what you are doing (or they wouldn't come back) so I wouldn't worry too much. Men tend to be more simple than we think they are and most like their fantasies and are very particular about what they like. I guess all you can do is ask unless he's a certain type that wants the same exact show each time. Sometimes doing the same thing over and over can drive someone nuts but regulars are bread and butter 99.9% of the time so I stick with what they want. If you're bored with yourself you can always recreate yourself and offer other things.

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I'm like Incantatious. No matter who the member is or how many times they have visited, I always start with "What kind of show are you looking for babe?". A friend of mine said I sorta remind her of a hooker on the corner chewing gum leaning up to a John' window. "wanna date baby? what kinda date you lookin for?"

    It never hurts to just ask, that way you can be relaxed during your show and know for sure you are giving them exactly what they want!

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    Men are stupid when it cums to sex, lol!

    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Phone sex is just like this 95% of the time if not more so I'm used to it. If they are regulars, they obviously love what you are doing (or they wouldn't come back) so I wouldn't worry too much. Men tend to be more simple than we think they are and most like their fantasies and are very particular about what they like. I guess all you can do is ask unless he's a certain type that wants the same exact show each time. Sometimes doing the same thing over and over can drive someone nuts but regulars are bread and butter 99.9% of the time so I stick with what they want. If you're bored with yourself you can always recreate yourself and offer other things.

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I worried for a moment about this sort of thing because my memory sucks sometimes. I try to keep notes on my regulars that aren't as frequent because I've had some enter private and just expect me to read their damn mind and know what they want because we've done it 1-2x before. It's nuts for them to think I could actually keep that much info on file but I do write down the show particulars of certain customers so that I'm ready, I can deliver, and with planning ahead, I can even add more to it.

    But really, what's with the regulars who enter and after being asked "so what's on your dirty little mind tonight?" get seemingly butthurt and leave? Seriously?!?
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    It's really about customer service LB. That's why they do that. I know we get a lot of business sometimes, but each person really just wants to be valued and remembered. Perhaps one day you can go down the list of your regulars and pick out things that force you to remember them. I worked at a really low paying phone sex company for a year and the men there bought receipts and would call. You never knew who would be on the other end of the phone. However, I listened and from the moment they got on the phone I greeted them by name by just hearing their voices. Never took a note in my life. These men were so surprised and happy that I knew who they were before they could even begin the session that they kept coming back. Of course, I gave great phone, but you get the picture.

    It's like those movies where the waitress has a crush on the business man who's been coming to the diner for 5 years. She greets him by name and knows, and gives him exactly what he wants. He orders the same thing every day. And he then leaves her a fat tip, and eventually asks her out on a date and falls in love. LOL. Force yourself to remember them, it will pay in the end!

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I find that my highest paying regulars tend to want the same type of show repeatedly. Even the ones who get privates just to talk, we usually end up talking about the same topics of conversation over and over again. I see it as them really admiring the specfic skill I have that they repeatedly ask for and it doesn't worry me at all. Occasionally they will ask to switch things up and that's cool, but usually whatever it is they like about me just "does it" for them and they can't get enough

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I really need to get better about taking notes on my regulars. If they like something in particular that varies from my normal routine, I'll make a note of it. Same if I know their name/location/quirk/etc. But I generally still start my shows by asking "How do you want to fuck me tonight?", "Where do you want to cum on me", etc. It always surprises me when regulars switch it up..... Wait, I thought you were a deep throat guy, what's with the new requests??? LOL

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    Yeah, sometimes those notes are necessary. I have only ever had one regular who requested something different every single time. And I mean really different. One time it could be spitting, the next would be queefing, the next would be "flashing my neighbors", and the next could be feet. Make up your mind, man!!! How many fetishes do you have?! Lol he was great though, I miss that guy

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    I've been thinking this a lot this week... I've gotten a new "regular" who has come back every night since Sunday and spent close to a grand on me so far yet we do the same show every night... I keep thinking he's gonna get bored of me but then again he's probably a spree spender and will run out of money before that happens.

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    My regulars are like this too. *Shrugs* Makes it easy for us.

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    lol thats awesome.
    As long as they leave satisfied that's all that matters. Be it head, straight sex, anal or all around the world. lmao

    Quote Originally Posted by CammiStar View Post
    I'm like Incantatious. No matter who the member is or how many times they have visited, I always start with "What kind of show are you looking for babe?". A friend of mine said I sorta remind her of a hooker on the corner chewing gum leaning up to a John' window. "wanna date baby? what kinda date you lookin for?"

    It never hurts to just ask, that way you can be relaxed during your show and know for sure you are giving them exactly what they want!

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    Default Re: Repeat customers getting the same show each time?

    I had been thinking about this too!!! I have a few regulars who always take me pvt for 30min- an hr. Im a BBW and these customers just like to see fat lol. so I feel like I need to change it up because I can only wiggle and jiggle for so long before it gets old lol. They dont complain tho so I guess I shouldnt worry too much. Plus its nice to get paid just to lay back and look/be lazy lolol

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