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    Girls!!! How many times have you heard that from your partner!?!? I hear it almost every damn day lol. "Why dont you wear sexy things like that for me around the house?????" UMM.. because I wear this crap 7 days a week, 8+ hrs. a day AND when im at home and NOT working all I want to do is wear my tore up grannie panties with the shot elastic waist band and some oversized pjs! When im 'off the clock' the last thing I want is a g-string up my ass and enough makeup caked on my face to pass as a drag queen. Sigh... people who dont do this just dont get it!


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    Quote Originally Posted by RockabillySwag View Post
    Girls!!! How many times have you heard that from your partner!?!? I hear it almost every damn day lol. "Why dont you wear sexy things like that for me around the house?????" UMM.. because I wear this crap 7 days a week, 8+ hrs. a day AND when im at home and NOT working all I want to do is wear my tore up grannie panties with the shot elastic waist band and some oversized pjs! When im 'off the clock' the last thing I want is a g-string up my ass and enough makeup caked on my face to pass as a drag queen. Sigh... people who dont do this just dont get it!

    A long time ago I had this fuck buddy who would text me "Wear something sexy" when he was on the way to pick me up. Those three words used to annoy me...'wear something sexy'. LOL. Sorry, dude, but if we're driving over to a public place to mess around in your damn car, unless it's 80 degrees outside I'm wearing PANTS...lol. I'm not wearing lingerie, or a miniskirt. Now if you wanna pay for a hotel room, then I can bring those things IN A BAG, yes. But I'm not walking outside in cold weather wearing damn near nothing under my coat. I mean, let's use our brains here.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by RockabillySwag View Post
    Girls!!! How many times have you heard that from your partner!?!? I hear it almost every damn day lol. "Why dont you wear sexy things like that for me around the house?????" UMM.. because I wear this crap 7 days a week, 8+ hrs. a day AND when im at home and NOT working all I want to do is wear my tore up grannie panties with the shot elastic waist band and some oversized pjs! When im 'off the clock' the last thing I want is a g-string up my ass and enough makeup caked on my face to pass as a drag queen. Sigh... people who dont do this just dont get it!
    It would never happen with me. I always wear my underwear set with a tight top and pants when I work on SM. It is the exact same stuff I wear when I go out and socialize! (*laughs*)

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    I remember seeing one boyfriend's eyes nearly pop out of his head when he saw that I was wearing expensive, matching lingerie as I got dressed for work (including stockings and suspenders...garters I think to you guys). When not working I would wear jeans etc and usually just wear a t-shirt and pants (knickers) with no bra. I met my partner a few years ago and he introduced me to dressing up and role playing, so I will dress up in sexy lingerie and wear outfits so we can have fun together. I'm changed after camming by the time he gets home...unless we have a child free zone, in which case I love still being dressed in my cam outfit!
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    I had a loser ex say this to me I was thinking if you stop acting like a bitch and start spending money on me I will. I don't mind getting all sexed up for a guy but if he's not kissing my ass and going out of his way to make me happy then it's not happening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    A long time ago I had this fuck buddy who would text me "Wear something sexy" when he was on the way to pick me up. Those three words used to annoy me...'wear something sexy'. LOL. Sorry, dude, but if we're driving over to a public place to mess around in your damn car, unless it's 80 degrees outside I'm wearing PANTS...lol. I'm not wearing lingerie, or a miniskirt. Now if you wanna pay for a hotel room, then I can bring those things IN A BAG, yes. But I'm not walking outside in cold weather wearing damn near nothing under my coat. I mean, let's use our brains here.....

    lolol IN A BAG!! My gf always wants me to wear something sexy.. im a bbw and im very confident and like to dress nice but i can also understand that just because they make certain things in my size doesnt mean i should wear them!!

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    I can relate to everything in this thread! This is exactly why I make a conscious effort to pretty myself up for my man even on the days i'm not camming or when I am done with my shift. Yes, sometimes I do forget. Sometimes g-strings and restrictive bras are uncomfortable and the only thing that makes me feel better is curling up in regular, not designed to be sexy pajamas or sweats- or better yet, my man's tshirts. I wear my hair on cam down and flowing but the most practical and comfy style for me is a big ol' messy bun. I'm not trying to cook him a stir fry and spontaneously catch my long flowing locks on fire because the flame on the stove is too high, ya know! I don't have smooth skin so I always have to wear makeup on cam even though it makes me break out even more, so on the days I take off my face is unmasked and my man gets to look at all my splotches. Lucky him, right? But, when we watch movies together I've caught myself thinking and saying, "Oh my Gosh, that lady is so beautiful and put together and I am a slob!" My man has never suggested that I dress better for him or put on makeup for him or style my hair all complicated for him but *I* want to do those things for him, because I love him and want to spoil him in every way. The sexy lingerie may not be so comfortable but the way I look at it is, the more I flaunt it the more my man is just gonna tear it off, once he is satisfied THEN I can change into the granny panties

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    Those 3 words (wear something sexy) irritate me because I feel it implies not looking good enough already! I just hate being told what to do lol. My lovers would never tell me what to do any way though.

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    I dont see the point really, because when I do wear sexy stuff for my husband he takes it off in 5 seconds anyway. When he gets home early and see's me just logging off camming in sexy stuff he always tries 2 molest me that is annoying cause I really just wanna put on my sweats and make a coffee and hes all horny so I'm like LE SIGH.

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    The other day my boyfriend asked me why I don't use my dildos in front of him. I was like wow really...when you have a penis of your own. I asked him if he wanted me to use them on him and he didn't say a damn thing.


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    When a guy says that, I say "I'll wear something sexy when you wash and shave Your sweaty Balls!"

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    I agree 100% OP. That's while I'll be signing off of work before DH gets home. He always goes there. "Why don't you wear sexy outfits for me baby?" Ugh! I have a closet full of sexy stuff and he never asks me to wear it. He only really likes to see me in body stockings. lol. It's funny how they only want you dressing up when you're performing for others. Oh the jealousy of men ;0

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    Mine asks "why don't you moan loud and talk dirty for me like you do on cam??"

    Um, I don't because it doesn't come naturally to me and makes me feel uncomfortable. I do it on cam because I'm ACTING and putting on a show. I mean, sure I can moan and scream like a porn star, but it would just be fake. I'd rather just be my quiet self when I'm having regular sex. *shrug*

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    Thankfully my man is very understanding that I need to disconnect from my job and gets why I'm in PJs and a hoodie most of the time. But when he does want me to dress up all sexy for him, I have special undies, lingerie, outfits, etc JUST for him. He does sometimes want me to do a striptease or something for him, and I'm kind of like "uggghhhh you do realize how rehearsed this is for me now, right? =\"


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    Quote Originally Posted by EvelynHeartsYou View Post
    But when he does want me to dress up all sexy for him, I have special undies, lingerie, outfits, etc JUST for him. "
    TOTALLY!! I do this too- I have camming lingerie, "regular" underwear, and then "boyfriend lingerie". Getting so crowded in my dresser! :-P
    But, uh, in answer to the question- My boyfriend doesn't say this exact thing, but he alludes to it. He likes garters and corsets, so that's fine, cuz I think those things are too difficult to get on/off for camming. But anything else- chemises, bra/panty sets, etc, I don't mix and match them between camming and the boyfriend.

    P.S. most of the time, when I wear lingerie for my b/f, he looks at it for a second, says "oooh! Sexy!" and then rips it off. So it's not a big deal.

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    I totally understand and I hear this from my husband too. It's annoying that he can't see the difference between me being on cam and real life. I guess he thinks that I love doing this..and I should be the same way when I'm not working. No guy is going to spend money seeing what I wear when I want to be comfy. After wearing all that stuff for work, using sex toys and talking dirty all day long..I'm just sick to death of it. I'm annoyed beyond belief when he wants to use the sex toys..then he gets pissy because I'm not into it. Well Jeez..use your brain. I don't want that fake shit..I want you. DUH! LOL The sad thing is.. before I cammed I was all up for playing with toys...now I just want to burn the things. Camming has changed a lot of ways I look at things and some in a not so good way. I can't stand to hear him say "Well you do that for those guys" Yes..I do, but not by choice, it's to make money. He has a hard time seeing the difference..I guess. OHHHHHHH and I will get totally pissed off if I'm into cam mode and getting ready and I have to stop to have sex with him before I work. All I want to do is hurry up, get myself ready, make my money and then sign the hell off. When he wants to have sex before I work..I start looking at it in a way that both sex with my husband and camming is the same way...irritating! I think it's because I don't want to really sign on..so I'm in a hurry to get it over with.

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    Oh, actually I love walking around in my lace thongs or transparant dresses. I feel very sexy in them. I even think about wearing stokings as normal pantyhoses under skirt when I go to school But my boyfriend doesn't like slutty-sexy looks. When he come over to my place, if I was just disconnected from a webcam show, he makes me undress and dresses me with my super innocent pink night dress immediately He says that is because I wear them to seduce other men. But he was just the same before I start working as a webcam girl. One night I opened door to him in my sexy Frenchmaid costume, stockings and highheels, he was not even turned on
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    No need to apologise Sage and I didn't even notice any! Some guys do prefer us to be all sweet and innocent...it's more fun not to be though!
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    HAHAHA I almost spit my water out!! I know what you mean.. I am the same way.. often times I just wanna wear sweats out in public and just look like a bum!


    Quote Originally Posted by RockabillySwag View Post
    Girls!!! How many times have you heard that from your partner!?!? I hear it almost every damn day lol. "Why dont you wear sexy things like that for me around the house?????" UMM.. because I wear this crap 7 days a week, 8+ hrs. a day AND when im at home and NOT working all I want to do is wear my tore up grannie panties with the shot elastic waist band and some oversized pjs! When im 'off the clock' the last thing I want is a g-string up my ass and enough makeup caked on my face to pass as a drag queen. Sigh... people who dont do this just dont get it!

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    I generally dress down A LOT when I go out as I've run into fans and customers more than once. I've been stopped to take pictures with them (including a woman with her daughter, which was bizarre).. LOL. So... not that I really care people knowing what I do, but I like to be left alone. Not that it happens everyday, but it's often enough that it's a bit annoying. I mean, when you are sitting in Outback Steakhouse and someone finds out who you are, pretty soon everyone in the place knows you are a XXX girl and everyone starts staring at you--especially the women, they all look at me as though I'm undressing their husbands. LMAO! The worst was I was sitting at a red light with my mother, windows rolled down, and a truck load of guys pulls up, and I hear, "hey I think that Justine Sexton, that porn chick". My eyes go WIDE and I panic and my hand bolts to put the windows up, and before I get them up, they all start yelling, "hey justine! hey justine!" My mom is like, "who were those boys?"

    Of course, now my mom knows what I do, but at that time she didn't... and I thought I was gonna have a heart attack because the windows seemed to take an eternity to go up... LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLexy View Post
    .... All I want to do is hurry up, get myself ready, make my money and then sign the hell off. When he wants to have sex before I work..I start looking at it in a way that both sex with my husband and camming is the same way...irritating! I think it's because I don't want to really sign on..so I'm in a hurry to get it over with.
    My boyfriend tries to get away with that sometimes- sex before I go to work. It finally got to the point where I told him if I have sex with him before camming, that I get tired at work faster and it hurts my earnings. Even if it's not always true. It's just a rule with us now- no sex within 6-8 hours before I start work.

    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLexy View Post
    I don't want that fake shit..I want you. DUH! LOL The sad thing is.. before I cammed I was all up for playing with toys...now I just want to burn the things. Camming has changed a lot of ways I look at things and some in a not so good way.
    Very well put. I hate how camming has changed my normal sex life too. It's more difficult for me to be turned on by my b/f, my orgasms are a lot shorter (because of trying to hurry before guys log off cam), and I have to stop him after every orgasm to let me rest for a second- I think my camming routine is kinda.... melding into my sex. Dunno how to fix it.... Basically... I wish my b/f would do the things I can't do for myself- ya know?
    Like, kiss my neck (a shit ton), caress my whole body, tell me how beautiful I am, touch my face- but he never does these things. He goes straight to the oral sex, and I just roll my eyes, "After 2 years of constantly using a vibrator on my clit, baby, your tongue feels like nothing."
    Ahhhhhh.... but I think the Ups of camming are definitely worth the Downs we have to deal with.

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    I guess I circumvent that problem the same way that Just does....I wear exactly the same crap off cam as on, I just switch my legwarmers/knee high socks/stocking for sweatpants or pjs...and that is because it is COLD. In the summer, I spend all day in my "cam clothes"....because I wear panties and a t-shirt or tank top. Maybe a cardi. I very, very rarely go in for the lingerie dress up stuff - I do that only when in pvt and at request.

    In fact, my partner has complimented me MANY times when I am going out and put on jeans and a nicer top....saying that is is so nice to see me OUT of my cam stuff!! Same with makeup - he always says how much he prefers it when I am NOT covered in inch-thick drag queen paint....

    But I do really hammer it home that it is a JOB, and I know that he would get really disturbed if he thought that I was switching into cam-mode when with him, or that I was being sexy with him the way that I am on cam. I have a very clear persona, and it is occasionally funny to freak out friends by switching on my "sexy voice" and being "Scarlett"....it helps make it really clear that I do not find my work persona sexy.
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    Am I the only girl with a boyfriend who thinks i'm sexier in my lounge pants, cotton underwear and a tank top? Lol something about my boobies being free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by caitir View Post
    I think my camming routine is kinda.... melding into my sex. Dunno how to fix it.... Basically... I wish my b/f would do the things I can't do for myself- ya know?
    Like, kiss my neck (a shit ton), caress my whole body, tell me how beautiful I am, touch my face- but he never does these things.
    Have you told him that you like when he kisses your neck, caresses your body, touches your face, and compliments you during sex? I bet if he knew, he'd do it!

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    My man is like that too sometimes...he used to say it a lot in the beginning but not much anymore. Truth is I am very casual during my off time (like sweats) but I do want to start dressing up for him more to make him feel special too. In the past when I've tried to dress up for him he thinks I just got off cam and can't believe it's only for his eyes! lol ... but I've noticed sometimes camming makes having sex with him feel tiresome...like dude I don't wanna give you a bj right now I've been giving them for hours!

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