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    Girls,If you had a fwb or f*ck buddy who enjoyed strip clubs would you ever consider telling him what club you worked at? Do you think its a good idea to invite him to come see you dance?I was wondering what the experts think. I mean it sounds like a good idea business-wise, especially if he already likes strip clubs. Why not lure your friend in for a fun lapdance? The only downside I can think of is that it might give the girls, custies, and management the idea that you're an extras girl (if they find out you had/are having sex with him). And especially when you're not one of the extras girls, the last thing you want is solicitationSo...yes or no? Good idea?

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    Um no. It's a bad idea. It's right up there with hand feeding wild alligators. Why the hell would you even mix your private life with your work life?
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Um no. It's a bad idea. It's right up there with hand feeding wild alligators. Why the hell would you even mix your private life with your work life?
    For profit of course. The guy likes strip clubs and he likes me so is a lap dance that insane? I suppose I was just thinking about money...drawing in business...for me and the club in general.I explained my viewpoint....could you explain yours? Maybe I'm slow but what's the issue with bringing one friend in?? Anyone? Hey, I gotta ask lol

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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    Also girls, if a guy like that is really into strip clubs I'm betting there's a good chance he'd run into me at some point anyway lol. Run-ins are bound to happen to some of us

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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    1. It's distracting.
    2. He's more likely to think he can get away with pushing boundaries/rules.
    3. He's probably not going to give you more money than any guy already there would, but will likely expect you to hang out for free.
    4. How are you going to feel if he blows you off to get dances from another girl?
    5. It probably inches in against a rule or two many clubs have about bringing in boyfriends.
    6. It seems like a bad practice to "draw in business" by pulling in men you sleep with.
    7. If he turns out to be a crazy, congratulations: you now have a stalker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuesdaymarie View Post
    1. It's distracting.2. He's more likely to think he can get away with pushing boundaries/rules.3. He's probably not going to give you more money than any guy already there would, but will likely expect you to hang out for free.4. How are you going to feel if he blows you off to get dances from another girl?5. It probably inches in against a rule or two many clubs have about bringing in boyfriends.6. It seems like a bad practice to "draw in business" by pulling in men you sleep with.7. If he turns out to be a crazy, congratulations: you now have a stalker.
    Ok thanks. Sorry I wasn't trying to offend anyone or break any rules...I'm just a curious newbie but at least I asked before doing it. Only way to know and ya gotta learn somehow.Number 4 doesn't bother me at all actually...he's a pal having a good time and hell, the girls would probably thank me (however, on second thought its a taboo idea in general so I don't wanna cause any drama.)Number 5 is something I didn't know - thanks for the heads up, girl. I def don't wanna break rules. Number 5 scares me the most! Number 7 is valid but since I know him well enough I trust him. Strangers are more likely to stalk me but whatever...bottom line: if the guy I bring in makes one false move, I'm gonna have to take the heat for it. And that is not something I wanna sleep on...a whole club of angry people hating me/blaming me.So scratch that - no outsiders will be lured in. I'm clear on that now. But if he's a strip club customer and he comes in and sees me that ones out of my control oh well.

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    This job is about giving a dumbass the ILLUSION that they're going to fuck you. Obviously with your little fuckbuddy that illusion is broken.

    I met my current boyfriend as a customer, but do I invite him in to "see me dance" Fuck no. He's already seen me butt ass naked bouncing up and down on his dick, what's the point of having him watching me on a stage?
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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    Bad idea. Been there - slightly different situation, I didn't so much invite but never said he couldn't. Turned out super awkward, yes he asked for dances off me that were super awkward because in my head I was just thinking "but I fuck you for free, you're wasting your money. And now I feel like a ho for taking your money and sleeping with you later." was also super paranoid about rumours spreading about me fucking customers. And got really jealous when I saw him getting dances off other girls assuming he must find them more attractive than me because he's paying just to see them naked when he's going home with me.

    He later admitted he felt really shitty and jealous when he saw me talking and dancing for a bunch of other guys and not asking him to get a dance with me.

    10 months later we're still together and he's been in once or twice but just when it's super dead and I'm bored as fuck and only to drink and play pool with me - no dances.

    But just, no. Bad, bad idea.
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    Only if he's got a really fat wallet and he wants to feed my stripper bank.
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    Did this with a fiance who got off on watching me with other men. Was lucky in that there were no consequences. I would not have done it just for revenue though. Might I add that he turned out to be a complete asshole, and breaking up with him was the best thing I ever did.

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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    what the hell?? worst idea ever. lap dances = work. sex = fun. it's really important to keep clear boundaries. if you are fucking someone with money then just get him to buy you stuff. don't convince him to go to the club, waste your time, create drama, possibly get you fired and him banned, just to also have to work for some $20s.

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    Definetly againgst the rules.

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    Some of you could have been more polite about it...charolette. also, my club doesn't do lap dances. We are classier than that. And so is he...he wouldn't create drama. But anyway, I already said I wouldn't do this a bit ago. However, if he likes to go to the clubs then it is out of my control if he comes to mine..and sees me. Luckily, he has an early work schedule so he never stays out too late. helps put me at ease/lower the odds since I work later.

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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    ^ Keep in mind that 98% or so of the dancers here do lap dances. That's what common. Stage only clubs are not common.

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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    Oh its not stage only. We do table dances. Much different from the cheap grinding lap dances, which get can get guys off I hear lol

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    LMFAO, oh it's a "table" dance. Okay... lol, who are you kidding? You're a STRIPPER either way. Most people who dont do this kind of work wouldn't consider ANY of it classy. Now you're just being an offensive hypocrite who doesn't use much common sense. I didnt realize having some guy you fuck on the side come see you while you take your clothes off for money constituted as "classy". I'm a stripper, I do LAP DANCES and yes, I grind and I still consider myself CLASSY. Get a clue.

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    Wow....I'm speechless.
    1)Don't delude yourself. You're still taking your clothes off for money. You're not "classier" than the rest of us. Get your head out of your naive ass and get a clue.
    2)"Cheap grinding lap dances" depends on the area. Some are not cheap or grinding. And even if it is the norm it doesn't mean every dancer offers it.
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    You're a stupid cunt.

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    They could have been nicer? This is a cutthroat business. No one is going to coddle you. And as for your brilliant idea of inviting your fuck buddy to give you money at work, most places don't allow boyfriends in the club for damn good reasons. They're distracting, they cause drama and YOU WON'T MAKE MONEY. Which in case you've forgotten is why you're there. This is as bad an idea as dating someone ITC. Seriously. Why would you even consider this? The guys already fucking you. You're seriously gonna try and bleed him for his cash? Smh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pearl87 View Post
    Oh its not stage only. We do table dances. Much different from the cheap grinding lap dances, which get can get guys off I hear lol
    Ah, yes, its overly classy to invite the guy you're fucking to give you money at work to see you naked. Yup. Lmfao! Who the fuck do you think you're kidding? Now I think you're a troll. Take your high horse elsewhere dear. It's not going to be appreciated here.
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    dont knock the girls who give grinding lapdances since that is the norm of 99% of the USA. Most of the girls on this site might grind cock for money, but at least we arent dumb enough to bring someone we already fucked into work.

    the cliche 'dont shit where you sleep' applies.
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Pearl87 I hope you know you offended 99% of this site with that cheap lap dance comment. If you're for real and not a troll I feel really sorry for you. You will run into a lot of problems in stripping in the future with an attitude like that.
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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    very, very bad idea. i did this as a baby stripper and i can tell you i would never do it again. for many obvious reasons. not "classy" if that's what you are going for...lmao

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    Default Re: Would you ever invite your f*ck buddy to your club?

    Wrong place to say this. I have yet to meet a stripper that has never given a lap dance. You might want to reconsider the job you have gotten into if you think a lap dance is "not classy"

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    "She" has been curiously silent lol.
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