Hi ladies, thanks in advance for your replies! I spent a week (not overnight, just evening dates) with a new sugar daddy who gave me a very generous amount of money (no sex, but private lap dances, cuddling, etc) and took me shopping. He lives in new York and I'm moving there soon. He offered me a job with his new company as a hostess (basically) with a salary (more than what I make now) and I can choose my own schedule. While this seems like possibly a bad idea, I really don't want to dance in new York but I still want to take care of bills and go to school. I wouldn't mind a sugar arrangement until I save enough money.
Anyway, he bought me a ticket to new York to come visit him in ny for a few days, staying in a nice hotel. During this time i want to get details about the job, visit a campus, look for an apartment/area and make some money. I told him I had to take off work but didn't mention money because our last meeting he became very sensitive about it. I just assumed he would give me more than enough like before. But I decided to casually allude to needing money in an email telling him I might need to work one or two nights while I was there since its been slow at work and I couldn't really afford to take four days off. He responded with "that's fine" ?????!!!!! Really? It's not fine at all, lol. I havent responded but my plane leaves tomorrow. I know it's super last minute but I don't want to come back empty handed...advice? How do I get money out of him without asking for it straight out or crying which is basically what I did last time.



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Still yet, I would make sure to have enough money while traveling, because you just never...ever know when a guy will get wierd. I was with a guy that id been with for 5 years...we were on the opposite end of the country, and he threatened to kick me out of the room one day into a weeklong trip because he didnt like my hairstyle. He told me to pack my stuff and figure my way back to the airport, and of course I didnt have money for a change flight fee. I *still* get mad thinking about that...!!! 
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