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    Ok so tonight I had my audition and I decided to hang around for a hour I ended up selling a dance to a guy who kept begging me for sex! He kept offering me 500 eeeewww! Not cool! Anywho I kind of felt bad because it seems all I made was 30 bucks! I mean should I consider this my first night? I was just a tad bit worried as silly as it sounds. I need to learn the hustle for sure!

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    My first question to you would be, how much do you know about your club? Is it an extras club? Is it known for being dirty? If it is then get the heck out! If the answer is no, you probably just got unlucky and got one of those annoying men who don't understand the rules of a strip club. (it doesn't happen a lot but it is bound to happen every once in awhile)

    Don't stress over only making 30 bucks. I think I made like 60 my first night. The best thing to do to learn hustle is read up about it on here. Another thing that can help you as a new girl is watching other girls and what kind of techniques they use. But I wouldn't worry. When I first started I didn't have a clue in hell what I was doing. You'll pick it up, you just need to get into the flow of it.

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    I noticed that I got solicited a LOT more as a new girl than I do now. Also, when I took a break and came back to it, I got solicited a lot my first couple of weeks. Both times were at the most upscale clubs in my area, so regardless of what kind of club it is, it's bound to happen.

    It's almost like guys can sense a new girl, like horses can sense fear. Not to freak you out or anything! Like hollywood said, read up on hustle hut, and just keep trying! Eventually, you'll settle into a persona and a groove that works for you, and more men won't get the sense that they can try to take advantage of you.

    That being said, I still get the occasional guy that just doesn't get it. At this point, I know my boundaries well enough to know that I'm not comfortable even putting up with that kind of thing anymore, so if they don't stop after I explain to them that it's against the law and against my personal code, then I kindly stop dancing for them and move on. It may end up losing me money in some situations, but a lot of times guys that are trying to pay you for sex aren't actually going to spend that much money in the club anyway... They'll stop when they realize the won't get OTC activity, and then you both just walk away frustrated and annoyed. Hopefully, you work in the a club that has a decent volume of clientele, and once you get a hang of things you'll realize you have your selection of customers and don't have to put up with the skeezy ones.

    One tip: It always helps me to think of it in terms of me choosing them, and not the other way around. There's something about that mindset that I've realized makes me carry myself differently, and I end up attracting more well-behaved men that are more prone to wanting dances.

    Good luck!

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    Hey ladies thank u for responding! I was a little scared cuz this was jus my audition and not my first night so it was definitely nerve racking lol. I don't think this club is a dirty club. I heard nothing but good about this place. I was thinking bout starting this Friday. I need to get a good hustle because there were dances that I could have gotten on my audition night if I wasnt so lost in what to say! Any tips ladies, please and thanks in advance

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    Quote Originally Posted by izzydiva View Post
    I need to get a good hustle because there were dances that I could have gotten on my audition night if I wasnt so lost in what to say! Any tips ladies, please and thanks in advance
    Hustle Hut is full of them. Good luck.

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