Well I can understand it being different for an stripper than escort, since nothing is already assumed, and Id suppose OTC time is agreed on...but yeah, as an escort, seeing how I charge for my time and upfront about that, it does slay me whenever a guy offers to take me to dinner, but decides Ill be so happy for food Ill throw that whole pay me for the time thing out the window
And yeah....Ive gotten those trip offers before too. Ive gotten the "but Im paying for your flight and the hotel and food! I have to pay your rate too?" and Im nice about it to them, but in my head Im thinking..thats what travel and accommodations are not included in my rate means Einstein! I mean, I guess to them, we'd see it as a free trip and jump on it, but its not like that.
I mean, on a serious level...they are paying me to spend time with them. Im not hurting for food or company...if Im not getting paid for my time, Id rather spend that time with my daughter, with friends, catching up with my sister, with people in my life that are important to me who I dont get to spend time with, or on the interests and responsibilities in life that Id rather spend my time on.
They are paying me to not do those things, in exchange for being with them instead. Im sure of it that strippers consider their time just as valuable as well. wish some guys would think about that before they come up with these "offers".
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