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Hey Ladies,First off i would like to say thank you to you all for your replies and welcomes! I apologize if i confused some of you! haha i guess the way i wrote the topic came out different than i had in my head hahaha! This forum has been so helpful to me already and i'm not trying to start off here on the wrong foot. I think discriminate was the wrong word to use to start with. I have been reading through the posts and going far back into them and 99% i've read have been amazing women supporting and encouraging each other and being helpful! So in noway did i mean to say that the entire forum or all the people are negative towards newbies, in fact it is the reverse and they have been very helpful and supportive.
I have been reading so much on this forum daily, i've literally been spending all day and night on SW lol that i guess the little bits of negativity here and there as small or unimportant as they were, kinda built up and then i saw the video about all newbies should see this or something and how they put their prices so low etc and are messing it up for the others and i agreed 10000% with it because i think she is completely true, and i know it was for anyone camming in general, i probably took it and a few posts personal even if i had nothing to do with them hahaha because i am learning as much as can, i know when i start that i will put my prices high to begin with etc that i felt like hey im not like that and im sure not every new person is either,
When i said everything in life is attitude i ment feeling good, looking at the good in everything, and being positive!
Once again sorry for any confusion. I hope you all enjoy the holidays and are happy, making more and more $$$ and enjoying life![]()

Hey Ladies,First off i would like to say thank you to you all for your replies and welcomes! I apologize if i confused some of you! haha i guess the way i wrote the topic came out different than i had in my head hahaha! This forum has been so helpful to me already and i'm not trying to start off here on the wrong foot. I think discriminate was the wrong word to use to start with. I have been reading through the posts and going far back into them and 99% i've read have been amazing women supporting and encouraging each other and being helpful! So in noway did i mean to say that the entire forum or all the people are negative towards newbies, in fact it is the reverse and they have been very helpful and supportive.
I have been reading so much on this forum daily, i've literally been spending all day and night on SW lol that i guess the little bits of negativity here and there as small or unimportant as they were, kinda built up and then i saw the video about all newbies should see this or something and how they put their prices so low etc and are messing it up for the others and i agreed 10000% with it because i think she is completely true, and i know it was for anyone camming in general, i probably took it and a few posts personal even if i had nothing to do with them hahaha because i am learning as much as can, i know when i start that i will put my prices high to begin with etc that i felt like hey im not like that and im sure not every new person is either,
When i said everything in life is attitude i ment feeling good, looking at the good in everything, and being positive!
Once again sorry for any confusion. I hope you all enjoy the holidays and are happy, making more and more $$$ and enjoying life![]()

Woops sorry for the double post, how do i delete one of them?





HAHAHAHAHAHA! In LRRG defense, I would tell her all the time to use the search function. Like every single day.
I agree with her. This place is becoming like CafeMom. I agree. Wahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! How many "stop the negativity" threads do we need to start? Seriously. I want all these noobs who think this place is soooooo negative to go try to get a job in a strip club for ONE NIGHT. Just one night. Go see how those girls treat noobs and then try to say this forum is negative. #realtalk
I mean I seriously can't believe this. I wish you could see my face. The sense of entitlement here is out of control. If you think it is so negative, get off the boards and cam. Use the money you make to buy some self help books on how to deal with real life. This is real life, girls. REAL LIFE!!!! SW was created to help guide you, not hold your hand and wipe your nose and tell you how much you rock while you ask the same redundant questions over and over and over again.
Seriously. Grow up and grow thicker skin OR get out before this business chews you up and spits you out.
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And why is it always the same handful of girls that are constantly complaining about how negative things are while the rest of us are like, "what??""!!!! Yes. THE SAME HANDFUL OF GIRLS!





Flor, it sounds like you're offended by the usage of the term 'newbie' on here, but I promise you that it's not intended to be a BAD word...plus we all started out as newbies at some point. We don't look down on anyone for being the new girl.
When you see threads on here with titles like 'Something for the newbies to read', it's not a thread meant to bash newbies...it's actually supposed to be helpful. Threads like that were probably created because we get so many new threads on here asking "Can I really make money at this? How much money can I make? What's the payout percentage? How much do you girls make?," etc.
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What's CafeMom?
I agree about the entitlement and all that... but I'm going to be quiet. Except I do want to say.... I'm so confused about how much girls expect to be told what to do with camming. Laurie is right... you would not find that shit ANYWHERE else. Business owners just don't typically make a habit out of guiding their competition. It's funny how it's expected in this industry.
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as a relatively new girl, i was pleasantly shocked at how kind, helpful, and positive the girls on SW are..but maybe that's because i was hazed in brutal strip clubs before camming or joining SW. the world is full of negativity, but i find that on here its a far cry from the real world and its an atmosphere where i can really relax and share, and learn myself! i dont find it at all negative...
Threads just seem to take a life of their own here sometimes, regardless of the OP original intent. Sometimes it leads to fun places, and sometimes it leads to frusterating ones. You'll get used to the choas after awhile and eventually just learn to enjoy the text ride where ever it ends up taking you.
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For someone telling other people "Wahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!" and "grow up", etc, etc, etc, you seem exceptionally agitated, upset and affected yourself... Are you okay?
The issue isn't with the fact that everyone who has complained or mentioned about the forum being negative lately, are all just a load of incompetent, whining babies who can't handle "real life" and require your vicious attempts at belittlement and self-help advice to remedy their concern. Which, for people in our situation, are all pretty understandable and reasonable ones that deserve to be taken into account, at least just as much as yours.
The complaints, which all have in common the simple desire for SW to be as stress and drama free as possible, has likely (just going out on a limb here) a lot to do with that many of us are in fact SO very used to negativity in our work and life, that we would appreciate ONE place where the bullshit isn't present on a daily basis, ya dig?
I don't care how many times newbies ask the same questions over and over again when they're right in front of their faces. If they wanted information that much, they'd find the answers soon enough. We don't have to give them advice - we have the choice of letting any thread go unresponded to, and drift into the oblivion of the back pages - but what's the point in spending your time giving advice to someone, to then turn around and act like they stole your precious time because they didn't behave exactly the way you wanted them to upon receiving it? How is that not self-entitlement?
I should say, that before I get a healthy dose of REALITY (lol), or whatever in return for what will now likely be construed as me "whining" in this message, no, I'm not insulted, no I'm not hurt by any of this complete nonsense. - I'm baffled that so many people confuse advice with losing their shit, and then go ahead and stamping their own seal of "#realtalk" approval on what is essentially a nasty tantrum whereby they give themselves free range in laying into other people for no apparent reason whatsoever.
Lol, I'm pretty sure everything will go back to normal when Christmas is over and everyone stops being madly stressed out about everything.





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I just try to help out as often as I can without regard to how long someone has been on the forum.
In defense of new girls here, a lot of forums I've used before weren't so chock full of info that searching for something would actually warrant useful info so it may not be the first thing to occur to some users on here. I've also never been on a forum where a thread has been used over a long period of time, like, years. Which is cool...it's nice to have those reference points to look at over the years. This just works a lot differently.
The cam industry is really overwhelming because there is so much out there and it gets crazy trying to find answers sometimes that girls can frantically just ask. Also it's a sensitive work place and girls may seem frantic for those reason. Important thing to realize is that at some point, we were ALL there. Hell, I started camming and just got excited people were calling me hot in free chat and I just got naked not knowing that was totally not what you were supposed to do.
Admittedly when I didn't quite have what I felt like was a stable foundation here, I felt some harsh responses from other girls. It didn't happen repeatedly so I didn't worry about it. Words expressed over text can lose their rhetoric and context at times so I've learned to let it go. I just do my best to offer the best info when I can and if I feel that it would do more harm than good, I don't say it. In the end that really doesn't help anyone.
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I don't have a whole lot to add - I think most things have already been said. I do think that there is a serious irony to this thread being titled "stop the negativity", because the original posting came across in a fairly negative way! Thanks for the edit, OP, definitely cleared up the tone that you were going for in the first posting.
Irony aside, I do feel the need to say that for me, personally - I am a big fan of the "tough love" that sometimes gets dealt out, especially with redundant threads. Other forums I have been on just do not compare to SW, because they are FULL of redundant threads, and the end result is that you don't have the same sense of community - you have one group of people answering the same questions over and over, while the people doing the asking pop in, get the answer they need, and then leave without contributing anything. I would hate for SW to become something like that - just a long line of the same stuff over. and over. and over.
I'm fairly thrilled that newbies (not a value-judgement term, just a factual one) might be reticent to post for a while, because it means that the forum is not clogged up with pointless and repetitive questions from girls who won't last a week in the industry. I absolutely adore the ladies that spend loads of time lurking, then start a thread to introduce themselves, and start posting replies for a while, and then start their own threads. Usually those threads are useful or relevant, and usually those girls are the ones that stick around and become a valued member of the community. And I'm glad that girls do say when they have done a search and not found the answer - frankly, it's just good manners, and those are rare on the internet!
At the end of the day, it also helps the people ASKING if they are directed to another thread where that question has already been answered. Because I, for one, don't put as much time and thought into my response if it is the 15th time that I have written out that same response. So a person questioning would be better off, would get more information, would get a better answer by reading an old thread than getting a half-assed answer on a new thread.
Is it a little selfish of me to want to keep this as a community, and not yahoo answers? Maybe - but I LOVE this community and I really don't know what I would do without you guys. SO much love! This is one of the most supportive, loving places I know - it's just that I think it is (as someone else said) not all sunshine and rainbows - we have opinions, we want to keep the community a community, not an FAQ, we can be fairly blunt and definitely impatient at times. But compare it to other forums, other "comment" sections or Q&A sites....because there you have people swearing and name-calling, trolling all over the place, getting into random religious judgements, and generally being raging cunts. Compared to that, SW is candyland....
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