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Last edited by Ms.Belle; 09-17-2020 at 10:02 AM. Reason: DELETE
Woah. First of all, I am so, so sorry. Even one little comment like that from a significant other can permanently damage some women's self confidence. I am SO sorry. It sounds like his comment clearly has nothing to do with you or your vagina in its real state (as opposed to an imagined state), so try to detach your beautiful body from his hurtful beliefs. You sound realistic enough that you'd know if you had some kind of issue going on down there.
Second of all, it sounds like he has some woman issues that need to be worked out before he should be allowed to be in a relationship with one. He may even have some self-hatred issues with his own genitalia - putting yours down makes him feel better about himself. Maybe someone in his past made similar comments about him, so he feels the need to lash out at his partners prematurely. It doesn't make sense that he knows you intimately (i.e. he knows that your vagina/vulva isn't smelly or unkempt) and yet harbors untrue beliefs about vaginas.
Whatever the reason, it isn't your job to wade around in his psychological muck when it comes to stuff like this. He didn't approach you as an adult and say "Hey, I have something I need to talk about. It's pretty offensive, and it's something I'm trying to get over, but ever since I was younger..." or whatever his reason is. He failed to communicate with you as an adult...he did communicate with you, but in a very childish way. And it's completely unacceptable to be in a sexual relationship with someone and to detest a part of them that is core to their identity. I can't speak for you, but this would be a deal-breaker for me - and I'm an asexual! He doesn't have to love oral sex or anything - everyone has their sexual quirks - but if he can fuck your vagina, then he should probably have a healthy appreciation for it.
This issue plus the whole long-distance relationship thing screams "not worth it" to me. There are TONS of fish in the sea, and even though the dating process can suck sometimes, you owe it to yourself to find a healthier relationship. Otherwise you're just wasting time!
Please leave before he gives you a complex. The fact that he doesn't go down on you is enough reason to move onto better and healthier lovers. And by the way I've never had to deal with comments like those from a boyfriend or even a casual hookup and you shouldn't have to either.





You'll drive yourself nuts trying to over-analyze this. You did nothing wrong and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
The uniqueness of each vagina, particularly when it is attached to a beautiful woman with whom a guy is intimate, is something to be explored and enjoyed, not criticized.
He is either a stupid asshole or a delicate little princess. That is the only lesson here.
Last edited by rickdugan; 12-23-2012 at 07:29 PM.





Meican food does not look disgusting, either.
Last edited by slowpoke; 12-24-2012 at 08:27 AM.
Unless you're tolerance for assholes (and your maturity level) is higher than mine, dump him and tell him his small cock is the reason why....you think he's a great guy but, alas, someone built like him could never satisfy you. You've tried your best but he just can't take you there...Such a shame, really
in all seriousness though, this guy is mean and callous and his issues shouldn't become yours. If he doesn't care enough about you to not say rude and cruel ish like that (let alone think it?!?) then he doesn't deserve your feelings, or your beautiful pussy that apparently no one but him has an issue with. This is about him, not you. I dunno...everyone already said it better above.
I'm sorry he put his ish on you. Not fair
hugs





i had a boyfriend who hated vaginas too. would NEVER go down on me, or touch it, and always said it "sounded disgusting just being that close to a pussy ..uck!" he was always telling me mine smelled bad when we fought, which is TOTAL bullshit i even love my smell
he was horrible in bed. turns out he is gay.
not saying your bf necessarily is but he has some issues, sounds like an immature little shit with penis issues like charlie said!



Maybe he thinks penises are beautiful and look just as delicious as a canoli. Nothing wrong with a man being gay but I think there is something very wrong when gay men hide their true selves and carry on relationships with women. Or maybe he's not gay he's just really strange and a huge jerk. Buy him a cantina bowl and tuck a note saying Its over in the taco bell bag.





My very first thought when I read this is that he is gay and still in the closet.
I would be so hurt if a man said that to me.
I also think he's gay and very immature. I mean who says that?!!! & I would never stay with a man that didn't eat the box. Dump him.





He's a moron. He should be praising your pussy . Sounds young.
Get a new guy with good things to say.![]()




If someone doesn't like pussy, then they like dick.



At first when I read this I bursted out laughing. Because I thought it was a joke. Actually Im still hoping its a joke? No one puts up with a man like this whom they have no real tangible ties with i.e. property or children, right? Even then....ugh! Trust your instincts. Unassign him a ringtone that way you dont even know he's calling. Move on. Get centered. My mama always said "When people tell you who they are, you should believe them the first time!"





MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





Yeah .... I didn't think gay .... but totally could be! My low libido guy didn't seemed thrilled about girly goods either and I still think he's actually gay and might be normal sexually if he was with a man.




yup, gay and you need to ditch this dumb motherfucker quick.
Ungoogle yourself:
Also, now offering phone sexins!



Move on. You find a guy who cant get enough of your pussy in his mouth and you'll forget that pussy-hating fool ever existed.
Have sex in front of a mirror. That's what I've been doing lately and it brings you a whole new perspective on how it looks in action.. which is phenomenal.



Well there is nothin wrong with that. I dont agree with every vagina looks pretty. When i see some girls changin their clothes at the strip club , sometimes i literally turn my face to other side to ignore em. Some of them look so weird and disgusting.Some of them look really extremly pretty. Dicks are same too i have seen 2 gross dicks in my life one of them was extremly shapeless red thingy other one was super hairy i mean not around penis on penis... yuckie. i guess its normal it depends to vagina or dick.
However i would never tell my partner that they have ugly dick or vagina... i simply leave them alone.

oops! doubled up![]()
Last edited by emstar; 12-25-2012 at 04:14 AM. Reason: double

As I started reading this I was thinking it was just a dumb guy thoughtlessly passing on a joke. But then you said he never goes down on you. Really? I don't think i've ever heard of a man who isn't keen on going down on a girl unless he thinks she isn't clean. And then you go on to say he kept going on about vaginas being gross!
I have to agree with everyone else so far, this guy has some issues, and you really should let him go and sort it out on his own, otherwise you are in danger of having your self esteem damaged. It's not like you can go and swap your vagina for something else, it's a part of you, if he's hating on something that makes you what you are (a female) it's a no brainer what to do with this person.
I'd be very careful hun-in fact as it's long distance and he's not doing much good for you at the moment-I'd get rid. I tend to agree with the 'If you don't like pussy you like dick' but also, in my experience they tend to not like WOMEN, in general. They tend to have nasty qualities in relationships.





Gay! I've had a few lovers who were like this dude, and They eventually ended up coming out of the closet after I left their sorry asses! Who has time for that shit? This is how I feel about men, in general- "DO TO ME WHAT GOD PUT YOU ON THIS EARTH TO DO,OR GET THE FUCK OUT!" I love sucking your dick, balls, ass,etc, so get down there, and do me till I come, motha fucka!- (But that's just me-) I hate intercourse(fibroids)-OUCH!!! Plus, it's so boring. pump,pump,pound,pound,repeat,repeat,YUCK!
Saying something like this should disqualify a person from ever being within 30 feet of an unclothed pussy ever again, IMHO.
Unbelievable.
I usually preach 'tolerance', 'communication', 'understanding', and 'forgiveness', but that there is BF-to-exBF instant transition material. No further discussion required.
it might be his subtle way of coming out perhaps?





A statement like that is the mark of a man who is immature, it's the mark of a man who lacks empathy and consideration. The boy is a chauvinist at best and a misogynist at worst. Either way... he doesn't deserve to be with you. He needs to fuck off.... now.
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