I successfully quit dancing last march and have been working as a bartender ever since.
At the time I was in a relationship which I ended in October. I briefly dated a friend who knew about my history, but that didn't work out.
Now I'm about to start dating a guy from out of town who doesn't know I used to dance. If he was any other sort of guy I wouldn't fret about it but he works in banking and I'm concerned that when I tell him he'll think I'm after money, which isn't the case. I clearly decided money isn't a priority when I gave myself an 80% pay cut to work a job where I clean toilets.
If I tell him too soon he might just walk away but if I wait too long it looks like I'm dishonest.
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