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    Default Age play on streamate?

    I get a lot of requests to do RP younger, like way under age. Not only that, but requests to RP as a daughter, niece, neighbor's child, or their daughter's friend. It makes me so sick when some guy asks me to RP underage. Like I literally want to puke on their perverted selves. It disgusts me to the point where I do not even want to cam anymore because I start to think that if they have these urges in porn they could eventually act on them. Because of brain plasticity, their brains eventually won't be able to get off by just age play on a camsite, they'll want the real thing. It REALLY scares me especially when a guy asks me to act like a certain person they know in real life that's underage.
    But I think there needs to be some sort of report potential pedophile button or something, because some of these guys are really worrying me. Anything else that someone asks me to do that I personally do not feel comfortable with, I just say no and brush off. I wouldn't know what to do if a guy started looking up child porn or actually molesting a child because he got hooked on the fantasy because of me. I always make sure that the guys know how sick and wrong I think they are to have fantasies about a child, hoping that will stray them from the age stuff...
    I'm not completely sure if age play like that is against the rules on sm or not? I want to be sure so I can add that to what I say. I would think that at least in the US that would be against some kind of law?

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    Default Re: Age play on streamate?

    Age play & incest are BOTH against the rules. Ban Ban Ban is what I do. I get plenty of guys wanting me to be their mother, I block immediately.

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    Default Re: Age play on streamate?

    It's in the performer code of conduct "Performer agrees that s/he will not violate any law concerning obscenity. Performer shall not portray depictions of sex involving any person under the age of eighteen (1 years of age, rape, incest, bestiality, fisting, necrophilia, any form of minor activity, urination and/or defecation."
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    Default Re: Age play on streamate?

    Just say that it's against the rules.

    The last thing we need is yet another thread rehashing the fantasy debate that will inevitably go nowhere.

    If you know or have good reason to believe that a criminal offence has or is being committed, report it to the site, that's the best you can do.
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    I wish I could do more, this one guy had a request so specific about his daughter's friend that was sleeping over at his house. It really freaked me out... Is there a way to go back and ban someone or report them to streamate?

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    I should think you can still report them. Don't forget though, there will be guys who are just trying to shock us and get a reaction.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hysterical View Post
    I get a lot of requests to do RP younger, like way under age. Not only that, but requests to RP as a daughter, niece, neighbor's child, or their daughter's friend. It makes me so sick when some guy asks me to RP underage. Like I literally want to puke on their perverted selves. It disgusts me to the point where I do not even want to cam anymore because I start to think that if they have these urges in porn they could eventually act on them. Because of brain plasticity, their brains eventually won't be able to get off by just age play on a camsite, they'll want the real thing. It REALLY scares me especially when a guy asks me to act like a certain person they know in real life that's underage.
    But I think there needs to be some sort of report potential pedophile button or something, because some of these guys are really worrying me. Anything else that someone asks me to do that I personally do not feel comfortable with, I just say no and brush off. I wouldn't know what to do if a guy started looking up child porn or actually molesting a child because he got hooked on the fantasy because of me. I always make sure that the guys know how sick and wrong I think they are to have fantasies about a child, hoping that will stray them from the age stuff...
    I'm not completely sure if age play like that is against the rules on sm or not? I want to be sure so I can add that to what I say. I would think that at least in the US that would be against some kind of law?
    I'm sorry to be harsh, but opening yourself up to fantasies you're not comfortable with is a huge part of your job, and something you're going to have to get very used to if you want to stay in this industry with your skin and your sanity intact.

    As someone who has all kinds of incesty / age play / taboo fantasies myself, what you say about the whole "report potential paedophile button" really disgusts me. You cannot just go around assuming that people with fantasies that if they were illegal in reality, will no doubt go and act on them just because you gave them a cam show, and you must see to it that they immediately get dealt with for thinking. People just don't work like that. There was a conversation like this a few days ago actually...

    And "Because of brain plasticity, their brains eventually won't be able to get off by just age play on a camsite, they'll want the real thing"? I don't even...
    I mean, how you are qualified to make this declaration? When will people stop thinking that fantasy = eventual must-be reality? Because by that token, whenever you play shoot-em-up games, you will eventually want to go on a shooting spree.

    To answer your question:
    Yes, it is against the rules on SM.
    No, it isn't against the law for two consenting adults to role play in the US.

    My suggestion?

    If you're that disgusted by "sick perverts" with fantasies you don't like that make you want to puke / vomit / delete them / whatever, stop camming.

    Either that, or do yourself and your business a massive favor by conducting a lot of research in the psychology of sexual fantasies and fetishes, where they come from, how they occur and why they exist. It's fascinating, the purchases can be write-offs and you will be doing yourself and your job, your sanity and your working mindset a huge favor.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post
    I'm sorry to be harsh, but opening yourself up to fantasies you're not comfortable with is a huge part of your job, and something you're going to have to get very used to if you want to stay in this industry with your skin and your sanity intact.

    As someone who has all kinds of incesty / age play / taboo fantasies myself, what you say about the whole "report potential paedophile button" really disgusts me. You cannot just go around assuming that people with fantasies that if they were illegal in reality, will no doubt go and act on them just because you gave them a cam show, and you must see to it that they immediately get dealt with for thinking. People just don't work like that. There was a conversation like this a few days ago actually...

    And "Because of brain plasticity, their brains eventually won't be able to get off by just age play on a camsite, they'll want the real thing"? I don't even...
    I mean, how you are qualified to make this declaration? When will people stop thinking that fantasy = eventual must-be reality? Because by that token, whenever you play shoot-em-up games, you will eventually want to go on a shooting spree.

    To answer your question:
    Yes, it is against the rules on SM.
    No, it isn't against the law for two consenting adults to role play in the US.

    My suggestion?

    If you're that disgusted by "sick perverts" with fantasies you don't like that make you want to puke / vomit / delete them / whatever, stop camming.

    Either that, or do yourself and your business a massive favor by conducting a lot of research in the psychology of sexual fantasies and fetishes, where they come from, how they occur and why they exist. It's fascinating, the purchases can be write-offs and you will be doing yourself and your job, your sanity and your working mindset a huge favor.
    I am with Incantatious on this. Yes, it is against the terms of the SM contact. But, camgirls should not be in the business of judging other people's sexual desires. Making this career choice limits any future career we might have working with children because society believes that we are so 'oversexed' and 'slaves to our desire' that we MIGHT touch their children or somehow breath on them or look at them the wrong way and turn them into sluts like us. To the majority of society it is we that are the 'sick perverts'. That is why we get paid the big bucks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hysterical View Post
    Because of brain plasticity, their brains eventually won't be able to get off by just age play on a camsite, they'll want the real thing. It REALLY scares me especially when a guy asks me to act like a certain person they know in real life that's underage.
    1. The term 'brain plasticity' is used in regard to the way the brain is able to make new neural pathways. It has only recently been discovered that our brain can produce new neurons. It was previously believed that when we were born we only had so many neurons and that we would die with the same number.

    2. There is not a single shread of scientific proof to back up your claim that because guys ask for underage play on a camsite that it will drive them to act out their fantasies in real life.

    Your personal opinion is your personal opinion and science is science. At this current date in time there is NO correlation between the two.

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    Well, I'm 46 years old and I've been having my taboo fantasies for a very long time...I haven't started to go out there in public and make them real and I have no inclination to.

    My partner plays Football Manager on his PC...sometimes he makes "manager of the month" and gets a big pay packet with it...I keep hoping he'll find the game no longer satisfies him and that he'll go out and make the fantasy real, but it hasn't happened yet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    My partner plays Football Manager on his PC...sometimes he makes "manager of the month" and gets a big pay packet with it...I keep hoping he'll find the game no longer satisfies him and that he'll go out and make the fantasy real, but it hasn't happened yet.
    Hee hee. Well, I have my fingers crossed that he will become dissatified with the game too.

    I have a taboo fantasty too!

    I roleplay with other people on webcam that I am an oversexed nympho and that I am always ready to have sex with strangers.

    Funny thing, I've never found it has compelled me to run out and have sex with strangers in real life.

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    http://www.yellodyno.com/html/child_molester_stats.html

    The fact that ANY adult has fantasy about raping a child, Yes, It is rape, sickens me greatly. So to say to be a cam girl means we need to be tolerant of this kind of fantasy is total complete BULLSHIT! No, block & report the person. Copy & paste the conversation & email to admin.

    1. it is against almost all cam site contracts
    2. Visa will pull billing

    There is NO justification for those kind of fantasy or rollplaying & if you think so then you NEED immediate psychological help. This more than likely your boundaries as a kid sexually were crossed. It was NOT okay for that person to do so. EVER!

    Child molesters never just rape one child, the average is 100 kids before being caught.

    How do you know it isn't an undercover cop setting you up to bust the cam company?

    If it sickens her, then that is her instincts kicking in to say how wrong it is. NEVER make her question those instincts.

    Cam girls saying underage sex is okay Grosses me out to NO end. What I think on the matter is illegal in how to punish those who even think it is okay in any kind of manner. Killing a child's soul even in the deepest of imagination is WRONG! Wanting to harm a child in any kind of manner is WRONG in reality or fantasy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    to say to be a cam girl means we need to be tolerant of this kind of fantasy is total complete BULLSHIT!
    No one here said she needs to be tolerant of the fantasy, but I did say that in order to protect her sanity she needs to accept - as part of her job - that she will encounter a LOT of shit that isn't to her taste. Because guys with particular fetishes aren't liable to just disappear any time soon: no matter how many get blocked. It is a part of the job.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    There is NO justification for those kind of fantasy or rollplaying & if you think so then you NEED immediate psychological help.
    Where are your credentials? I'm being serious. Those are strong words you're laying down, and - as I can imagine you intended - I am going to treat them as such by assuming that you have the necessary evidence to back up your claims.

    In return, I will inform you that I myself have discussed, at great length and in gritty detail, all of my gloriously fucked up, wonderfully perverse fantasies to both an assessment psychologist, and a CBT therapist at The Maudsley hospital. You know what? They encouraged me to keep thinking about them, because it was me believing I was damaged (like a huge portion of society would very happily have me believe), that was doing me the biggest psychological harm.

    As you're reading this, do please keep in mind that this is a world leader in mental health research we're talking about here. I'm not exactly going to take an uneducated view over a professional one. So, anyone is welcome to take it up with them if they wish.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    If it sickens her, then that is her instincts kicking in to say how wrong it is. NEVER make her question those instincts.
    I am not "making" her do anything. I gave my best advice based on what she had detailed - before any advice was given, she said herself that it's almost enough to make her not want to cam.

    No one said "Look honey, you better be taking those privates from guys who you don't want to entertain". It wasn't even implied. It simply doesn't exist. The beauty of our work is that we have the freedom to choose who we entertain, BUT if we are relentlessly barraged by guys who make us feel incredibly uncomfortable to the point we start questioning if we want to do this or not, then I might advise she does herself a favor and gets a job that doesn't make her feel that uncomfortable. You see? I was actually looking out for her.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Cam girls saying underage sex is okay Grosses me out to NO end.
    Where did anyone say that underage sex is okay?




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    Ok guys. OP's question has been answered. Her complaint is for her to come to terms with on her own. I hate to be harsh, but I'm locking this thread. It's been talked and retalked and masticated and spit up many times and it pretty much always goes the same way. Loveshooks and I don't need to be pointing and banning people on the first day of a beautiful new year.

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