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    Hi girls,

    I took some time off due to some health issues, and I don't know what it is, but lately I have just been feeling so negative and down about work and developing anxiety when I think about going back. Obviously this is financially impossible, not to mention a counter-productive attitude.

    So I was wondering if any of you could throw your two cents in as a reminder of what is so awesome about being an entertainer - what you love, the best parts, fun stuff about your weekly routine that you couldn't otherwise do, or even if you have ever felt this way, how you pump yourself up to get back into it. I know it's obvious to say money but for some reason that is not doing it for me right now (yeah, not even the pile of bills on the table. Right now I can't even save for something awesome because I got myself in health-related debt. But I'd love to hear something, anything that comes to mind that will hopefully make me feel amped up and lucky to even be able to do this type of work when it's not an option for everyone.

    Maybe it's also my age - I'm 34 - and to be honest I'm not so worried about younger girls because it's the older girls who kick ass in my club, but I suppose I'm more like - ahhh, what am I going to do after this with the economy the way it is and my gap-filled resume. Actually if anyone could be kind enough to point me in the direction of any life-after-stripping type threads or any related to my original question that would be great!

    Positive vibes only please and thank you!!!!

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    Default Re: Motivation, anyone???

    try to remind yourself
    1, you are beautiful and fun, so much in fact that men wish desperatly that they could have you and are willing to spen hundreds of dollars just to have a slice of your time
    2, you have a kickass dancer body that other women admire and men daydream about
    3, you are so amazing in fact, that you are able to support yourself financilly while working less than 40 hours a week and your entire income comes from how beautiful and witty you are
    4, if someone isnt nice to you at work, your posiion is so awesome and you are so bad ass that you know he is being a dick because he is unhappy with himself, not you and that you can be a dick right back, whereas at any other job you would have to deal with "the customer is always right\\" bullshit
    5, women who are not strippers litterally wish they were and spend money to look like you do and get the attention from men that you do
    6, being a stripper, you have the chance to always improve your interpersonal realtionship skills as well as public speaking, if you can get naked in front of 100s of people, you can give a speech to 20 with no sweat!
    7, you have the opportunity to act out any fantasy or pretend you are anyone you want to be, you do not have to be yourself if you dont wanna!
    8, you get to be a social butterfly, its a way of keeping your relationship as well as your customers realtionships exciting, (ir, get off that you can talk to other guys without actually betraying your signifigant other, keeping things exciting)
    9, you are literally men's whole fantasies, enjoy that fact and know that you can have prettty much any guy at any class-level you want
    10, our job is fub! we get to work in the sex and club industry without ever actually doing anything illegal! we get pornstar status minus the fluffers

    keep your chin up and smile, you have the potential to make as much money as anyone can dream of while still enjoying a normal life. you are beautiful, fun and smart and people want to spend time with you and have you pay attention to them. good luck!

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    Audrey you are amazing! Thank you! I am gonna print this and put it on my refrigerator. :-)

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    Yep! This should be a stickie


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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    Default Re: Motivation, anyone???

    I was so going to write about needing motivation. My club has been extremely slow.. when I get there the place will be damn near empty.. I then have little motivation to work.. I went home early every time I went in for two weeks now!! Anyone have some tips to stay motivated in a less than busy club??

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    One of the girls I work with repeats to herself over and over "It only takes one" - and it's true - just one guy with a fat wallet can totally make your night even in a club that is dead. Remember that when it's dead everyone loses their motivation and the girls sit around getting drunk talking to each other. If you can stay a little aloof from that you have a better chance of catching that one guy...

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