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    I slapped up a profile on Whats your Price a while ago, probably when everyone was talking about it here. Well I had no action for almost a year then a few weeks ago a wink, but he was cheap. Now I just got a wink, asked for $200 and he accepted! Now what? O I also have another offer pending. I am not going on these dates to find a man, I'm actually gay. So guess I'm straight for pay....lol. So can anyone tell me how this process goes?

    Edited to add second guy who is from Texas said yes to $300, not sure where that is gonna go thoguh.
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    As far as I know, now you just email/PM to arrange the where/when of your date. Make it clear (in a cute way) that you'll expect to be paid at the beginning of the date, maybe in a gift bag or a card, so that he doesn't bail on paying at the end and so that you can walk away if he turns out to be a complete douche. I'd also try to make it clear that it's a date only and not sex (well everyone's different but for $200 I'm guessing no private time) so that you're both on the same page. When I was on WYP I'd get offers and the guy would be like "what's you idea of a good date?" and I'd be like, oh dinner and drinks etc, and he'd be fine with it, then a few messages down the line I'd get something from the guy along the lines of "Hate to bring this up, but just so we're clear, you are coming back to my place afterwards, right? That's included?" SMH... I could never find any decent, non-creepers on there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    As far as I know, now you just email/PM to arrange the where/when of your date. Make it clear (in a cute way) that you'll expect to be paid at the beginning of the date, maybe in a gift bag or a card, so that he doesn't bail on paying at the end and so that you can walk away if he turns out to be a complete douche. I'd also try to make it clear that it's a date only and not sex (well everyone's different but for $200 I'm guessing no private time) so that you're both on the same page. When I was on WYP I'd get offers and the guy would be like "what's you idea of a good date?" and I'd be like, oh dinner and drinks etc, and he'd be fine with it, then a few messages down the line I'd get something from the guy along the lines of "Hate to bring this up, but just so we're clear, you are coming back to my place afterwards, right? That's included?" SMH... I could never find any decent, non-creepers on there.

    Good luck!
    Well so far the first guy messaged me, I replyed and havent heard back and I meaasged the second guy andd nothing back. But yes I will definately make sure that there are no shenanegans after the date, ick.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    I could never find any decent, non-creepers on there.
    Aren't you getting paid to put up with creepers? If they weren't creepers it would be free, right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    Aren't you getting paid to put up with creepers? If they weren't creepers it would be free, right?
    Umm.... not entirely true. I escort and my clients pay a good amount of money for our meetings, and the majority are not creepers at all. The idea that every man who has to pay for it must be a hideous creeper who couldn't get it for free, is a myth. That said, I'd imagine there is a much higher creeper quota on WYP than in escorting. I have no problem putting up with some level of creeper-ness for a well-paid dinner, but all the guys I was in touch with on there were either creepy in the "so how about I pay you $50 and pay the dinner bill, and we'll have sex?" way, or creepy in the "it rubs the lotion on it's skin" way. Neither of which was worth the money for me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    Umm.... not entirely true. I escort and my clients pay a good amount of money for our meetings, and the majority are not creepers at all. The idea that every man who has to pay for it must be a hideous creeper who couldn't get it for free, is a myth. That said, I'd imagine there is a much higher creeper quota on WYP than in escorting. I have no problem putting up with some level of creeper-ness for a well-paid dinner, but all the guys I was in touch with on there were either creepy in the "so how about I pay you $50 and pay the dinner bill, and we'll have sex?" way, or creepy in the "it rubs the lotion on it's skin" way. Neither of which was worth the money for me.
    Totally agree. I've met a much higher caliber of men as an escort then ever from dating sites (even the ones that claim the men are rich, these guys are the biggest douche bags of all!).

    The type of man on a dating site, even whatsyourprice.com is totally different from the type of man who sees a mid-range to high-end escort.

    I have never had a creeper as a client when I was an escort, but I have definitely had first dates where I left and felt like I needed to take a shower when I never even touched the guy.

    Unless a woman was very experienced in dating or in the adult industry (which most of us are here!) I would not recommend the average woman find a date on a site like this, even if they just wanted some extra money or if they thought the guy was a good guy. These sites are douchebag central you'd honestly have a better shot using craigslist.

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    I really hope the OP's date goes well I am definitely not saying anything to the contrary (sorry if I sound that way!) I just meant that I don't like these type of sites in general and I feel like they can take advantage of girls who don't know better (not really anyone here, naive girls who are too trusting).

    I hope everything goes well for you a_little_mermaid! Be safe!

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    Yes, I meant the site WYP specifically. It sounds like an escort site for people that don't want to use the word escort. Escorting (as in the title Escort) is an old profession and most people understand what it is, so yes you can get genuinely upstanding guys who just want the company of a lady for the night. They know what they want. But by blurring the lines and adding more secrecy and less definition to the business, WYP invites confusion, frustration, deceit and abuse by the sheer nature of avoidance. If you want an apple, sell apples; don't sell a tour of the orchard.
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    ^Then profess that to the owner of the site. But no, we are not paid to "put up with their bullshit"

    McKenna has it right on, hope you have good luck on there, report back

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    I've been on that site for about a year or so. Met 4 men, 3 were quick meets, dinner, they came to my neighborhood, $60 per, all gentleman. The fourth, I chatted 4 times, met him at starbucks gave me $1200 in an envelope. one time meeting. Always get cash at beginning, or at least half upfront, and the other half at the end of the date. I did nothing with any of them, other then convo and a dinner date, except the starbucks guy who knew I was having a difficult month financially so he gave me 3 X more then expected. All kinda random...

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    And was that it? No follow ups no drama? Damn. I didn't get paid for my dates at okcupid or plentyoffish and saw more bullshit and drama than that! I stand corrected, maybe WYP has some purpose?
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    Quote Originally Posted by funkymamagia View Post
    I've been on that site for about a year or so. Met 4 men, 3 were quick meets, dinner, they came to my neighborhood, $60 per, all gentleman. The fourth, I chatted 4 times, met him at starbucks gave me $1200 in an envelope. one time meeting. Always get cash at beginning, or at least half upfront, and the other half at the end of the date. I did nothing with any of them, other then convo and a dinner date, except the starbucks guy who knew I was having a difficult month financially so he gave me 3 X more then expected. All kinda random...
    Are you saying you did nothing with them, as in not have sex with them or any thing sexually related with them. Just got paid for dinner date and that was it??

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    Exactly...nothing but the dinner date. I asked for very little so that nothing would be expected in return, $60, and a nice dinner, almost always my choice...sure why not? I had them meet me in my neighborhood, within two miles. They were all gentleman. The doctor was peculiar, gave me an envelope and he said "no strings attached" a gift. I didin't know it was 1200k at the time. I was having a bit of trouble with the rent and he was being kind, though I think he liked me liked me too. I screened everyone over the phone as well.

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    Are you saying you did nothing with them, as in not have sex with them or any thing sexually related with them. Just got paid for dinner date and that was it??

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    It's very possible to get paid for doing nothing and having dinner. Back in college I signed up to a few sugar daddy sites. Met two in person. Got $300 from two guys at the beginning of the date, ate dinner, and went home. I also scored one camming. Got $14k from him over the course of 4 months, never met in person and wanted an online GFE, no nudity. It's possible. We still talk to this day but I'm married now. He tries to meet up but took a step back last week when he invited me on a cruise with his family and I told him I wasn't looking for anything more. Took me 4 years to get that across to him lol.

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    All the sites have creeps and time wasters on them. I had no luck with WYP complete cheap asses. I had a few offers for dinner $40.00 not worth my time or my gas. Shit why waist good makeup for that. I think the sugar daddy sites is a better route just got to do your homework. Good luck this job is just hit and miss!!

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    Sorry gals lost track of my thread. Long story short both guys had agreed on a price, one guy didnt respond to my message to him and the other just stopped messaging me. So yeah time wasters. Oh well.
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    I had a couple of decent WYP dates. Only twice. Both for $200. One, I met at a cheesy Italian place, in the tourist quarter of my town, he gave me the money as a gift inside a book (I mentioned I love to read) and it was fine. We ate, walked around, I took him to a hip little hookah bar, for coffee and then drove home. It was fun to get out of the house for $200. The second (different guy), took me to a local Greek Fest. It was cute and we enjoyed the day and the fest. We then went downtown and I showed him my favorite dessert spot. We had some cake and coffee and then I went home. My approach tends to be let him make the date and coordinate the event. If there's time, I'll suggest a fun spot that I particularly enjoy, that he's probably never been to. I don't put time limits on the day but why should I? I'm just hanging out. Both guys were total gentlemen but obviously, it was a once in a blue moon kind of thing. I haven't had a single, no-bullshit guy since. Oh well. If it pans out, just show up get the money and be a fun girl, for the night! It's intended to be NSA, casual dating and nothing more.

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    And was that it? No follow ups no drama? Damn. I didn't get paid for my dates at okcupid or plentyoffish and saw more bullshit and drama than that! I stand corrected, maybe WYP has some purpose?
    I don't get your point. WYP is explicitly intended for social escorting. It's not a smokescreen for anything else. You're literally paying a girl for the time to go out on a date. Its intended purpose is actually to avoid the kind of bullshit you're describing on hipster dating sites like POF and OKC. The principle is: a man is courting a woman so he pays her for investing her time into meeting him and to give him a chance to move forward to a more intimate step. The benefit to the man is that by paying a woman, he's investing in the assurance that she now has the incentive to come prepared and fully present to be his ideal date, at that time. She's showing off her best behavior and personality (because she's being compensated) and he's showing that he has the means to provide a great evening and respects her time and attention. Also, I don't know why you, presumably a man, would feel entitled to being paid to go on said date, at all or why you would even consider OKC/POF as an outlet for that. Weird.
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    I met one guy the other night for the first time. He offered me $50 and gave me $60 on the date. Yea, it wasn't a $100 but I was just glad to get out the house for a couple hours and we went to my favorite restaurant which is literally like 5 mins from my house.

    He was really nice, cordial, etc. I made it clear sex was not involved but apparently he's looking for his soul mate and I don't think he understood the premise of WYP which was okay. I made the effort to be funny, sweet and nice. I think its good practice and I made a quick 60 bucks in the process.. and drank like 5 sangrias! y'all know those things are weak as hell


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    To each his or her own ; live and let live, yada, yada , yada, BUT : How , if at all , do you screen out any creeps and weirdos ? With escorting you ask for references and can check them. How do you do it with "Dating For Dollars ". Don't get me wrong. Nobody has to explain or justify anything to me. Or anyone else afaic. I'm just focused on the safety issue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    How , if at all , do you screen out any creeps and weirdos ? With escorting you ask for references and can check them. How do you do it with "Dating For Dollars ". Don't get me wrong. Nobody has to explain or justify anything to me. Or anyone else afaic. I'm just focused on the safety issue.
    As far as "screening for weirdos," that is kind of difficult especially over the internet. I like to think I have a good sense of what a person will be like depending on how he writes his emails. I'm a writer so I am constantly reading between the lines. Shorter emails make me wary.. the let's meet at 7. the end kind of deal.. hmmm.. a non weirdo should care enough to ask some questions about me personaly before jumping to wanting to meet so quick without giving an explanation why...

    Either way... I think as long as you meet in a space where a lot of people will be (restaurant, lounge, etc) you'll be fine. I like to tell my dates "oh I told a friend I was meeting you tonight.. she saw your pic and said you were cute!" A potential criminal might take that into consideration that you told someone where you would be and they have his picture. Plus with online dating... you've got emails to track potential criminals down... seems like they will take that into consideration but regardless, I always pack a stun gun in my purse and pepper spray.

    I also recommend women to sign up for self-defense classes. It couldn't hurt.

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    Just signed up for this and so far the guys seem liked time wasters.
    Plus this really annoying thing has happened a couple times now where it'll say sometime rejected my offer. But I never even sent an offer out in the first place.
    Wtf is that?
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    Even when a few guys on here agreed to do $200, after I messaged them to say hi and set something up, they NEVER followed up with me. What is the point of these guys even using this site, if they're never going to follow through? After having so many offers rejected, it's especially frustrating to have these $200 guys (getting my hopes up) not follow through.
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    The best way to find a sugar daddy or a sponsor is in real life. No truly wealthy man is going to start a bidding war for a date. I've been on SA and WYP. SA can be very profitable if you're willing to have P4P dates. WYP has lots of cheap guys, and the ones who are genuine with their $200 offers are basically expecting an escort but they're too cheap to hire one, or they know they could manipulate a broke college girl easier than they could a pro.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    The best way to find a sugar daddy or a sponsor is in real life. No truly wealthy man is going to start a bidding war for a date. I've been on SA and WYP. SA can be very profitable if you're willing to have P4P dates. WYP has lots of cheap guys, and the ones who are genuine with their $200 offers are basically expecting an escort but they're too cheap to hire one, or they know they could manipulate a broke college girl easier than they could a pro.

    if you don't mind me asking: how did you go about negotiating a price? and like how did the conversations about that usually go?

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