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    So yesterday I had someone request a 10 min video of my bf and I and paid me $100 in advance via amazon gift card. I told him I only sell pov style videos as I do not want videos with my face in them potentially circling the internet He insisted that there be a bj scene. So after much contemplation I woke up this morning and asked him if I could refund him. I got suspicious, do you guys think I am overthinking his motive? Who pays that much for a 10 min blowjob ?!

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    For a custom video with two people that's actually really low.

    Personally I would charge more than that for a custom couples video.



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    I charge $10 a minute for my custom videos. (I had someone pay me $70 for a 7 minute video of me chewing cum fulling clothed.) But I always make sure I get every detail about what they are looking for before I even let them know what the payment options are to make sure it's something I will do. If you didn't discuss the video before he sent the payment then it's his fault and tell him you can't do it.

    Edit: I agree with laurie, that is low for 2 people. I don't do couples videos.


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    Default Re: But why pay so much...?!

    Why NOT pay so much? I'm glad he's paying properly. It's the guys trying to get a 20 min video for $3-$5 that are the problem.

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    I got a exclusive on SM last night for a pov BJ at $9.99/min and the guy stayed for 20 minutes and today emailed me asking if I can get on tomorrow for another show....this wasnt even a real bj...it was on a toy. if a guy likes you he will pay whatever you ask. For a lot of these guys money isn't an issue..some are rich others aren't particularly rich but don't have a wife or gf so the money they would spend on one is spent on cam shows instead. Others need to see something specific to get off or need the personalized attention...

    Think about it this way...why do girls spend $500 on a handbag and other on shoes..because they want it..they have the money and want the luxury... We ARE tht luxury for a lot of guys

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    Wow. After all this I feel like an idiot for charging $100 for a 30 minute video... Especially one as drawn out... No wonder he was so nice and said h would t mind the price going up....

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    Thank you guys, I was thinking he wanted to profit from the video some how. Now I know I guess.... Is doing pov "safer" than bj shots etc?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meaganminx View Post
    Thank you guys, I was thinking he wanted to profit from the video some how. Now I know I guess.... Is doing pov "safer" than bj shots etc?
    I'm sorry would you mind rephrasing? I don't understand the question....

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    I am truly wondering if I have to worry about my face being on redtube..... I wouldnt mind a pov being all over the place... but not a 10 min bj vid

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    Nah, I wouldn't worry about it being leaked. Guys who are willing to pay that much usually aren't the type to share with other people for free, it's the guys who want your stuff super cheap that you have to watch out for.

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    Your face is in a pov bj vid...right? From the guys POV....honestly if a guy is paying $10/min he's less likely to upload it some where than a guy paying 3/min...in theory.
    Remember if you don't want to be on tube sites the only way you can 100% prevent the risk is not to cam.
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    Thanks for the advice. To be absolutely honest, Im camming because I got kicked out of my house (Im 23) , or losing a temp job (stupid reason I know) , and Im kind of in panic mode. I like the money it brings and dont mind doing privates etc. For some reason the bj vid seemed a bit personal for me, I'd rather be seen (face and all) masturbating , than sucking someone off. I guess Im just splitting hairs. I dont particularly want to quit..... Im in a weird place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meaganminx View Post
    Thanks for the advice. To be absolutely honest, Im camming because I got kicked out of my house (Im 23) , or losing a temp job (stupid reason I know) , and Im kind of in panic mode. I like the money it brings and dont mind doing privates etc. For some reason the bj vid seemed a bit personal for me, I'd rather be seen (face and all) masturbating , than sucking someone off. I guess Im just splitting hairs. I dont particularly want to quit..... Im in a weird place.
    Your not splitting hairs..it's just not in your comfort zone and it's completely understandable..everyone has different comfort zones and limits.
    Remember never let anyone tell you your limits are wrong and don't do anything you are not comfortable with no matter how much money it brings, in the end it isn't worth it. Stay in your comfort zone and you will find guys who respect that and are willing to pay.

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    Just going to second a lot of what has already been said, namely that $100 for a 10 min couples video is a pretty normal price. I usually charge $5-10 a minute for custom solo videos, so I would be charging somewhere in the $10+ range for a couples video.

    I have also had guys give me $100 for a ten minute vanilla masturbation clip - some of them just want to give you more!

    But it does sound like being concerned about someone paying too much is a bit of an excuse - that this is just outside your comfort zone, and you were looking for a reason not to do it. It may even be something that you weren't aware of - you were subconsciously looking for a reason not to do the video. And that isn't a bad thing! You don't need a reason not to do something that you don't want to, and discovering your limits does not mean that you should quit camming completely! If you don't want to do it, don't do it! I don't do couples clips - it's just not something that I do. It doesn't make you a better or worse camgirl, so don't worry about turning it down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Meaganminx View Post
    So yesterday I had someone request a 10 min video of my bf and I and paid me $100 in advance via amazon gift card. I told him I only sell pov style videos as I do not want videos with my face in them potentially circling the internet He insisted that there be a bj scene. So after much contemplation I woke up this morning and asked him if I could refund him. I got suspicious, do you guys think I am overthinking his motive? Who pays that much for a 10 min blowjob ?!

    I charge 1,000 tokens on MFC for a 10-minute custom video. I do like the $10/minute idea that some of you use, and I'm curious...do you have a minimum for this? Like would you actually do a 1-minute custom vid for $10, or do you tell them it must be at least X minutes? I think I'd be willing to do a shorter custom vid (5 minutes, instead of 10) if a guy tipped 500 tokens.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLavender View Post
    I had someone pay me $70 for a 7 minute video of me chewing cum fulling clothed.

    Chewing cum, or chewing gum? Hehe.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    I charge 1,000 tokens on MFC for a 10-minute custom video. I do like the $10/minute idea that some of you use, and I'm curious...do you have a minimum for this? Like would you actually do a 1-minute custom vid for $10, or do you tell them it must be at least X minutes? I think I'd be willing to do a shorter custom vid (5 minutes, instead of 10) if a guy tipped 500 tokens.
    I generally get requests for 7 min clips, and $70 is fine for that. I don't think that I would really advertise anything shorter than 5 mins for $50...but it would depend on what they wanted.

    If someone was willing to pay $10 a min for a voyeur clip of me, say, brushing my hair - all I would have to do is set up a camera and hit record, so sure, I'll do it for $30. I don't do a lot of editing, so it won't take me extra time. But if they wanted a 3 min clip of me....drinking a certain brand drink and then pouring it on my head? Yeah, no. If the time taken to gather items, set up and clean up is less than the time of the video, we have a problem!
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    Slightly off topic, but is there a minimum amount of minutes that videos should at least be? I want to get into making video clips but worried that I won't be able to do ones that are longer than like 2 or 3 minutes, like say a sneezing video or coughing video or even a peeing video, can't do those for longer than a minute, unless of course someone can help me with ideas on how to stretch those type of videos out for longer minutes.
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    I'd say that a majority of my Clips4Sale clips are only 2 or 3 minutes long, because most of them aren't dildo vids. They're vids of me doing close-ups with my tongue and other silly stuff...lol.

    But when we're just talking about custom videos in general (which may be tipped for on MyFreeCams or elsewhere), a lot of guys like the good 'ole pussy play/toy play/naked striptease to a song, which is often times 5 minutes or longer.

    I'd like to think that most guys - interested in buying a custom video - wouldn't be silly enough to say "I got $10 left. Can I get a 1-minute custom vid of you in the shower pouring chocolate syrup all over that hot body?" LOL.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    I charge 1,000 tokens on MFC for a 10-minute custom video. I do like the $10/minute idea that some of you use, and I'm curious...do you have a minimum for this? Like would you actually do a 1-minute custom vid for $10, or do you tell them it must be at least X minutes? I think I'd be willing to do a shorter custom vid (5 minutes, instead of 10) if a guy tipped 500 tokens.

    I had no set video price at all since Im a noob , so the guy just made an offer, that he felt was fair.

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    Uhh, I charge $10-20 / minute for custom videos with no nudity or sex involved. And I resell them to the public after delivering to the custom buyers. On the rare occasions I get a custom with a request not to sell it, I'm obviously charging MORE because I can't make the extra bucks selling it in my stores.

    $100 for a 10 minute video is a pretty standard price but if I were going to do any sexual activity in the vid I'd charge a hell of a lot more than that!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Chewing cum, or chewing gum? Hehe.


    Lmao. I just noticed and tried to fix it but it wouldn't let me. I meant chewing GUM. And not sure why my quote says TheBrownFox. That's weird.


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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Chewing cum, or chewing gum? Hehe.


    Lmao. I just noticed and tried to fix it but it wouldn't let me. I meant chewing GUM. And not sure why my quote says TheBrownFox. That's weird.


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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLavender View Post
    Lmao. I just noticed and tried to fix it but it wouldn't let me. I meant chewing GUM. And not sure why my quote says TheBrownFox. That's weird.

    Nevermind, it fixed itself.


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