I need advice on lap dances. What exactly do you do?
I waitressed for 3 weeks and am transitioning to dancing this weekend. Help!

I need advice on lap dances. What exactly do you do?
I waitressed for 3 weeks and am transitioning to dancing this weekend. Help!
I would check out this thread it has some awesome videos including how to do a lap dance http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...l-Video-Thread
Ask one of the girls at your club for a lap dance. They can vary based on local rules, so that will really give you the best idea.





like shana said, watch or ask the other dancers in your club. but whatever the rules are, be sure and give lots of eye-contact and be sensual and "into it". i try and picture a guy that absolutely turns me on when im doing dances..don't be cold, mechanical or distant because guys really pick up on that and they come here for a fantasy and sexual, gf experience, not for another woman who acts turned off by them. i see far too many girls who just act like they want to get it over with as soon as possible with as little effort as possible..the customers complain, it gives us all a bad rep, and they don't earn any money.



The first move I learned from a fellow dancer was to thigh-grind. This is where you straddle one leg, facing the guy, with your outside knee on the seat and your inside foot (the one between their legs) on the floor, you lean forward against them, and your thigh is brushing or pressed against their goods. You can grind this way without having to touch their junk with your hands, butt, boobs, anything, they are somehow fooled into thinking you are pressing your bodies together a LOT more than you actually are, and it's a good position to be able to lightly brush your hair against them, caress their shoulders/chest etc.. And, you can alternate which thigh you sit on like it's a whole new move on the other side!
That's just one move I know, there are a ton of tips out there on giving lap dances and a bunch of youtube videos.





I always ask him when I start, "are you a breast man, an ass man, or a leg man?" Then depending on his answer I spend most of the three minutes showcasing what he likes. If he's a boob guy, then away back and forth most of the time facing him and giving sexy sultry looks. If he is an ass man, spend most of the dance facing away from him, but seductively looking over the shoulder. If he is a leg man, then spend most of the dance standing between his legs with one foot up on the couch, swaying your thighs and hamstrings near his face.
The important thing to remember is HOW to upsell another dance or VIP time!!
Rebecca Avalon
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