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    Default Turning An Extremely Devoted Regular Into An Indie Customer, Online Sugar Daddy?

    Well hello girls, I've been searching the forums recently to see if there were any threads that covered this. However, I haven't been able to find one that closely related to my situation. Anywhoo, I've been camming for a little less than a month now (before that, I was a dancer), and I have a few regulars. They're all really nice to me, come see me everyday, and always take me on 30-60 minute block sessions (my rate is 4.99 a minute). I know it's probably against SM rules, but for them being so generous towards me, I gave them my "camgirl" email. This way, whenever I go online, have a promotion, new clips, etc, they are able to know firsthand. So my first question is, how do I turn them into independent customers? Do I just email them and say "let's do this on Skype instead"? Should I be honest with them and tell them that through the site I only get 35%? Also, one of the regulars are really into me. Is there a way that I can turn him into an online sugar daddy? Lol any help would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Turning An Extremely Devoted Regular Into An Indie Customer, Online Sugar Daddy?

    You can't really turn them. If they're generous, they're generous, and they will be generous without you having to ask for it. If you ask to skype instead, theres a good chance they won't want to or they will start pushing your time boundaries. The only place I was really successful with getting skype shows was MyFreeCams because you could charge slightly less than MFC's pre-set private amount per minute and guys know that.

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    I know how you feel. I had a custie who would regularly spend 2 hours or so with me in private on SM and it hurt alot that I was only making a couple hundred from those sessions, instead of the few I could have been making as an indie. But he felt comfortable with SM, so on SM we stayed

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    From what I have see my custies on SM, they will NOT want to go on skype, even if it will save them some serious cash. So far, only guys on ManyFreeCams would, at least for me. *shrugs*




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    Default Re: Turning An Extremely Devoted Regular Into An Indie Customer, Online Sugar Daddy?

    Ditto to everyone. First, be careful about giving them your cam girl email, if SM finds out you can get suspended. There are ways of getting custies to contact you off site without getting caught, but you must be VERY discreet about it.

    Alos? Yeah, for some reason SM tend to not want to swicth off site for some reason? I know how frustrating it is when you are only getting 35%- in my case I was with a studio and only getting 20%. Imagine my frustration when my good regs would spend an hour in exclusive with me and I'd calculate how much they paid vs. how much I actually got. *sob*

    In my experience, the guys who spend a lot and tell you how into you they are actually aren't that willing to do shows with you off-site. The cheap guys who want irl contact usually are, but the good guys who pay lots? Not so much. This applies to SM only. In fact I had a reg who would do 3-4 hour long exclusive shows with me every weekfor months just talking, fantasizing about dating me irl etc etc. He ended up giving me his email address, I wrote to him about possibly camming outside of SM, he never replied (even though the next week in exclusive he told me he did get my email???). When I finally quit SM I emailed him to tell him where I'm camming now and told him I hope we can have fun on there. Has he replied? Have I seen him once on this new site? No. Sucks, I used to make so much money off him.

    The bottom line is, these guys claim to be so devoted to you but the reality is, 9 times out of 10 they are more devoted to SM.

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    Thank you so much, girls! Ahhh, I'll just let it go and deal with SM taking out their whopping percentage lol.

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    I think that if they want to do offsite shows they would try to find you offsite.. Maybe if you dont already have your camming name the same as your twitter you could change it. Mines the same and when you google my cam name + streamate it's the first result....Ive had a few regs find me and send me wishlist gifts but they've never done offsite shows...like was said before most of them are devoted to the camsites...if they wanted to do offsite shows I wouldnt anyways... I love SM and have my prices set so I am happy with the amount I'm getting from that 35% and dont want to deal with the hassles of an indie show

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    Default Re: Turning An Extremely Devoted Regular Into An Indie Customer, Online Sugar Daddy?

    if he isn't willing to do any indy skype shows with you then maybe try and get him to sign up through your cammodels link? that way u are getting 75% for those longer shows. offer them some sort of an extra incentive to sign up through your link. if you are already talking to them offsite then chances are you can maneuver them to do what you want them to do, you just have to really brush up on ur sales skills. :-) i have gotten a couple of dudes from streamate on skype but it wasn't something that i was 'trying' to do per say. they initiated the contact. they found me through google. i don't give out my contact info on streamate instead i watermark my camfeed and i can be easily found. i just make it available to them and then i go from there. it's definitely not impossible to get the big box guys to go indy but the more loyal, in love, infatuated, addicted to you they are the better your chances they are going to follow you wherever you want them to go. you just gotta be a really good sales person.

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