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    I just started dancing in NYC a few weeks ago. I had my first vip last week and I screwed up. I got a spray tan earlier in the day before my shift. Well after a half our vip, and a lot of sweating, I notice the guys shirt was covered with my tanning lotion. His crotch and shirt were completely orange. I felt so bad. Poor guy was freaking because he had to go home to his wife. Let's face it we all need to wear some makeup but how do you prevent it from getting all over the guys clothing? I've heard of some people putting down towels, but doesn't that kill the mood?

    Also, what do you guys do when you have a really drunk guy buying a half hour vip from you? This guy was literally half passed out and could barely speak. He paid via credit card before going into vip and was pretty much out of it the entire half hour. I literally could have just sat there, but I felt bad for him so i went thru the motions. When half hour was up the vip host asked if he wanted more and the guy said yes, meanwhile, he had no clue what was going on. He ended up paying for 2 half hour vip sessions. When asked to sign the second receipt he couldn't even hold the pen so the host had to sign for him. Maybe I'm too new at this to care, but I just felt like this young innocent guy who had too much to drink was taken for a ride. On top of it the vip host added in the tips on both receipts. He's in for a rude awakening when his credit card bill comes.

    Last comment, in my last vip (this club makes all it's money on vip) the guy tried to grab my boobs. I was told right from the getgo no boob or kitty touching allowed. This guy was very forceful but I was afraid to say no. I quickly just changed my dance routine and luckily the host came in and intervened. How to you stop this from happening without upsetting the custie, especially when they've tipped you a lot already? Is this the norm for NYC?

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    1) dont wear a spray tan that rubs off
    2) if you are uncomfortable with guys spending $$ on you, you should get a different job
    3) tell the guy hes being too forceful and hes lost his touching priveleges. if he continues stop the dance. you should always get $$ upfront so they will behave if they want to continue. trust me, if you tell him he is hurting you, he will feel bad and stop.

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    If a guy is drunk it's not my problem. This is a dog eat dog business. Now if you were plying him with booze to get him drunk so he'd buy a dance that's a different story. But if he's so shitfaced that he doesn't know what he's doing and you had nothing to do with it then he's fair game. No different than when a shark sees a wounded animal flailing around. Does the shark feel guilty about it? Hell fucking no. I am the shark and I gobble them up.

    If someone's touching me where I don't want to be touched stop the fucking dance. You got the money already. Always call security first. Stop the dance and remind them that you'll stop the dance if they continue to break the rules.

    As for the tanner I can't help you cause I enjoy my pasty white skin.

    I think of customers the same way that I think of the feeder mice that I give to my snakes. They are our survival. Stop feeling sorry for them. Nobody is holding a gun to their head. Unless you are deliberately spiking their drinks or doing other unethical shit, they are all prey items for us.
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    Lol @answer number 2-so true!
    I have had an incident with fake tan before but only a VERY slight mark on a guy's moleskin trousers-they're quite abrasive, my tan never rubs off on smooth fabric.
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    For half our vip, do you dance for the full half hour or stop to chat, have a drink, etc. Do you keep your top off the whole time? I've found I run out of things to do during that half hour!

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    In V.I.P I talk most of the time or play drinking games, I tip the waitress so I can drink shots of water, I dance mostly at the end to try to get them to stay but it really does depend on the guy, as for them drinking I encourage them, its not like your spiking them or forceing them.
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    No matter how much you get tipped, you cannot put your boundaries aside in order to not upset the customer.
    You are an independent contractor. In our line of work, the customer is not always right. And when it comes to a difference in comfort levels, the customer will usually NOT be right.

    You are in a sex-charged environment. They always want to touch boobies (or any other action that they can get away with). It's your responsibility to stick up for yourself, and the host's (security's) responsibility to back you up.

    Some girls are okay with boob grabbing. When I first started dancing a few months ago I was not okay with a guy's hand being anywhere touching my boob, even grazing it. After I'd been dancing for a bit I got a feel for how far a guy was going to push it, what he was trying to get away with, and I got the hang of a certain timing that I could allow his hands to wander only to a point that did not push my boundaries, and be able to move his hands aside in a discreet way in order to be firm with my boundaries, preserve the mood, and establish my authority over what he can or cannot do.

    Yes, the club outlines the rules in a black-and-white manner, but you'll see that even how they phrase the rules will vary from club to club even in the same city. They're dealing with strippers. Strippers aren't notorious for following rules. Can you imagine the direction things would go if it was the standard to say "you can let the customer go as far as you are comfortable"? The club would be filled with prostitutes. So their rule of "NO TOUCHING BREASTS" generally won't be followed 100% but it will keep the level of contact that you're having to compete with to a minimum.

    That being said, you have every right to stick to the strictest rules because they are there to keep you safe and for the most part they are in place in accordance with the law. As you dance longer, you will figure out what you want to remain firm on and what you are comfortable with.
    FOR EXAMPLE:
    In the city I started out dancing, technically it is "air dances only" as in, don't fucking touch the customer and they cannot touch you. There is literally one girl who follows this, and I have seen her have a LITTLE contact once in a while. Everyone else gives a pretty standard lap dance. There is the occasional girl here and there who does a little more than standard, and at the extreme end of the spectrum there are girls who do extras. At my first club, the extras girls would get fired. The "little more" girls would get talked to, but no punishment, and everyone else was free to do their lap dances.
    The next club I went to, the one I'm usually at now, stated the rules in the same strict manner but their protocol is slightly different. the VIP is not supervised in the same way, girls there may do a little more to make their money, flat-out extras happen and although management doesn't make a strong effort to catch them, if they are caught or if they are interfering with other girls' ability to make money, they are fired.

    Now, sometime after I started at the second club I became less freaked out by boob grabbing, but they really only get one good grab before I take control of the situation and modify my dance, physically hold their hands away from me, and if it gets out of hand I call the bouncer over. Some girls allow boob grabbing and more. I don't. I don't allow guys to squeeze my butt cheeks or get too close to the crack, never allow them to approach my vagina, and if they ask at the beginning of the dance what they are allowed I tell them they can touch, just not by vagina, butthole, or nipple area, and they may not put their mouth on me.

    The moral of the story is set your boundaries, don't be afraid to enforce them, and if they ASK what the boundaries are, be firm and simple. Picture the flight attendant showing everyone how to buckle a seatbelt. Just like that.

    And if your boundaries change as you become more comfortable with giving dances, that's not something to be ashamed of. So long as it's what YOU are okay with, not what THEY demand of you.

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    RE: the touching -- I work in NYC too which is one big grey area in many clubs, in spite of the rules. Every dance/customer is of course different but I think unless the guy is aggressive or too drunk to listen, keep it very light, moving their hand away firmly but flirtatiously. If it continues I sometimes joke "ooh that's a $20 fine every time you do that" or even more if it seems like they have money to spend. Then when you are dressing I say jokingly, "don't forget to pay your fine". Of course sometimes they walk away but they always laugh and sometimes they do actually give you extra! That said it is a case-by-case basis and when you are really uncomfortable and lines are firmly crossed, put a stop to it.


    I also second Tempest -- It is a dog eat dog world -- believe me there, are as many guys trying to get dancers drunk to get free dances and push the boundaries as there is the reverse. These guys are walking into a ring of fire -- we are barracudas -- we will part you from your sobriety, your plans, and as much of your cash as we can get our pretty hands on, and you will like it, damn it!

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    chanzep: that's awesome that you can get away with talking and playing drinking games. I guess I will get used to it, but I just feel like the minute I get in the room (very private btw) I have to start being all seductive and take it all off (except thong). If you think you have the guys attention at the end you will ask if he wants another half hour? If not, do you get dressed and just hang out until time is up? Sorry for all my stupid questions I honestly feel more comfortable asking them here then the girls at the club -- not feeling the love just yet.

    I'm also not quite used to feeling a guys erection, but it's hard (no pun intended) to avoid it and ignore it when it's front and center. The first time I felt one I jumped up quickly and changed my dance routine I was so freaked. Do you try to avoid the area and just tease in other ways? Do you ever undo their belt and pants just to tease a little more without having to touch? In other words, I'm trying to maximize the teasing without having to touch they guys package. Ugh such a newbie in need of advice.

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    ^In the same note as charlotte. mentioned, if you're frightened by a man's erection... Maybe you're in the wrong profession?

    Never undo their belt and pants. That completely gives the wrong idea, to the man and the security at the club. But christ, don't be afraid of it. It's not going to bite you.

    Oh and I guess I can be helpful too. If a guy has a hard-on and I can tell he needs to adjust, I usually face away and do a little air dancing for 5-10 seconds to give him a moment of privacy. 9 times out of 10 I can tell they're repositioning back there. Lol.

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    Here is what I would do during a 30 min VIP: I take off my top right away since he is paying the big bucks to spend time with me. Chat and drink a little for the first 5 minutes or so, and ask if he would like to have some dances. If not, just flirt and chat and drink the whole time! (Best kind of VIP customer) Most guys do want some dances, though, and some guys want you to dance the whole entire time. Just after a few dances tell him "Let me know if you need a break heehee!" that way maybe YOU will get a break. He is paying you handsomely for your time, however, so I don't get offended if they want me to dance the entire time, lol. As for the boners, I just ignore them. UNLESS he wore like basketball shorts or sweat pants and didn't wear underwear on purpose (happens all the time, especially old guys.) In that case I try to make it obvious that I'm disgusted, and just completely avoid the area. Usually doesn't result in a long string of dances, but I don't care because I think that's gross. And NO! Don't undo their belt or zipper!!! lol IMO, that is taking it WAY too far and sending the completely wrong message. Maybe gently rub the inside of his legs a little and give him a dirty wink or smile, but don't get too close to his crotch when you do this. That might be a better way to tease haha

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    Oh, and at least where I have worked, you dance and/or hangout for the full time he paid for until the VIP hostess/waitress/bouncer comes in and tells you the time is up. That's when you put on your sexiest face and ask him "Wouldn't you like to sign me out for another half-hour?" "You're not really done playing with me, are you?" etc etc

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    You girls are awesome! thanks so much for all the advice. One more (silly) question.....I do know it's standard to put your boobs in the guys face. I don't want a tongue lashing out at my nipple, so is it cool for me to put my hands on my nips when I go for his face? I know these are all minor details, but I figure if I start off slow I will more likely maintain my integrity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by swirlygirl View Post
    You girls are awesome! thanks so much for all the advice. One more (silly) question.....I do know it's standard to put your boobs in the guys face. I don't want a tongue lashing out at my nipple, so is it cool for me to put my hands on my nips when I go for his face? I know these are all minor details, but I figure if I start off slow I will more likely maintain my integrity.
    ^That's very intuitive of you, I don't think a lot of girls realize that goal when they are first starting out. Good for you! Yes it's ok to put your hands over your nipples.

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    When I put my bare boobs in a guy's face, i sort of cup them with my hands (thus shielding my nipples) and kind of juggle them against the guy's face. Guys like the feeling of boob on face and they will hardly realize you are covering part of them, because they can feel the inner side-boobs against their face.

    When I'm doing a bikini dance (the topless bars here only allow these), i shake them side to side against his face and keep it very brief so he doesn't try to get his mouth on them.

    I read in another thread you can put certain things on your chest skin that taste very bad to discourage guys putting their mouth on you. The example I saw was Bath and Body Works hand sanitizers. I do this sometimes, if it's a night known for a rowdier crowd.. but I'm also pretty good at just dodging their mouths. But it's a good backup plan.

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    i've always found it pretty easy to avoid the tongue lashing without covering my nipples..maybe just hold them further away..i wouldn't suggest covering your nips with your hands and putting them in the guys face..and a side not, never spray tanner on before work. do it the night before, wash and scrub a bit before work and you will most likely be set.

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    I''ve been doing a lot of reading on different message boards tonight and now I'm really confused. It sounds to me like a lot of dancers basically dry hump the guy until he almost cums, then stops right before his time is up so he will buy another slot of time. As much as I need the money, I guess I'm just nervous and having second thoughts about what I'm doing, especially after reading on another board what some customers say they've done in the vip. My only hope is that what I've read is all bullshit. There's just no way I can compete with girls getting close to giving a happy endings, even from just grinding. Am I naive to think I can get away with minimal ass to crotch grinding? Thanks for your patience with my questions.

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    ^ Is it the standard in your club for girls to grind to almost completion? Remember, dances are different from club to club, and customers on the interbutts will always say "OMG yes 10,000 strippers have done bareback anal with me in the VIP for only $20!" They love lying/bragging about how much they get for how little.

    I work in an extremely high contact, extras-heavy club, and I was in the top 5% of earners through December and so far this month. I do not do extras and I don't allow as much contact as many of my customers try to demand. You are not naive to think you can get away with minimal grinding, but you will have to hustle harder to make up for it if it's the norm in your club. Keep at it, though, you can do it.

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    Well at least she's not asking about bringing her fuck buddy in to see her dance.

    OP, you'll be fine. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders and not stuck up their ass like some other recent posts we've encountered. If you're not comfortable with something don't do it. Simple as that.

    I maintain my boundaries. If a customer wants to touch my $5000 funbags I tell them that they're going to buy a CR (1/2 minimum) and they're going to tip me on top of it. If they start whining "So and so lets me touch her tits in the regular LD room!" I tell them "Then go get a dance with some fat bitch that needs her Twinkie money!/go get a dance with said druggie dancer!"

    And you didn't screw up. Stop thinking that you did. Your only fault is you need to stop thinking you don't deserve the money!

    Ever heard the saying "A fool and his money are soon parted"? It was probably invented in a SC.
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    In the way of your spray tan question: Next time get your spray tan the day before and shower it off the next morning before work. You'll still be plenty tan but if you get a spray tan the day of work, yes it will rub off. When you get sprayed, a lot of the actual spray is a colour guard and is not the "actual tan" so the tech can see where she's done.

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    Good advice thank you. What about all the bronzer and makeup I see all the girls putting on their boobs and ass. How do you look good without getting your makeup all over the guy? I can't believe you will have a happy or repeat customer if you've ruined their clothes or get them in trouble with their SO. The one guy I danced for his hands and face were orange when I was done with him. It was just a quick boob shake in face and he did have his hands on my hips. I guess that's their problem and I guess I'm over analyzing everything to death here.

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    The fake tanner you used didn't stay on too well, but certain products are known to stay on better than others.
    I personally just use the tanning bed (in moderation) and stick to no products on my body within 3 hours of my shift, I even try to keep my face makeup minimal, and the same goes for scents- try not to over-do them, although some are much more light and discreet than others.
    If you search the forum for key words like "self tanners" and the like, you're sure to find other girls' suggestions for ones that stay put.

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    1. Spray tan on another day if its going to rub off. Lesson learned the hard way.
    2. Drunk guy didn't get taken for a ride. He paid for time with you, he chose to sleep during that time. You fulfilled your duty and sat with him and made sure he was okay. After all, you could have been out there making money from someone else. Instead you took care of him.
    3. Set your boundaries and stick to em. I talk about it more here http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Things-...per&id=4253395
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    Quote Originally Posted by swirlygirl View Post
    chanzep: that's awesome that you can get away with talking and playing drinking games. I guess I will get used to it, but I just feel like the minute I get in the room (very private btw) I have to start being all seductive and take it all off (except thong). If you think you have the guys attention at the end you will ask if he wants another half hour? If not, do you get dressed and just hang out until time is up? Sorry for all my stupid questions I honestly feel more comfortable asking them here then the girls at the club -- not feeling the love just yet.

    I'm also not quite used to feeling a guys erection, but it's hard (no pun intended) to avoid it and ignore it when it's front and center. The first time I felt one I jumped up quickly and changed my dance routine I was so freaked. Do you try to avoid the area and just tease in other ways? Do you ever undo their belt and pants just to tease a little more without having to touch? In other words, I'm trying to maximize the teasing without having to touch they guys package. Ugh such a newbie in need of advice.
    It does depend on the guy, some time I will sit there in my thongs talking or even naked when they have been more demanding, then dance time to time esp when they are talking shit, I rarely dance for the whole time tho but I have done tho.
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    Quote Originally Posted by swirlygirl View Post
    I just started dancing in NYC a few weeks ago. I had my first vip last week and I screwed up. I got a spray tan earlier in the day before my shift. Well after a half our vip, and a lot of sweating, I notice the guys shirt was covered with my tanning lotion. His crotch and shirt were completely orange. I felt so bad. Poor guy was freaking because he had to go home to his wife. Let's face it we all need to wear some makeup but how do you prevent it from getting all over the guys clothing? I've heard of some people putting down towels, but doesn't that kill the mood?

    Also, what do you guys do when you have a really drunk guy buying a half hour vip from you? This guy was literally half passed out and could barely speak. He paid via credit card before going into vip and was pretty much out of it the entire half hour. I literally could have just sat there, but I felt bad for him so i went thru the motions. When half hour was up the vip host asked if he wanted more and the guy said yes, meanwhile, he had no clue what was going on. He ended up paying for 2 half hour vip sessions. When asked to sign the second receipt he couldn't even hold the pen so the host had to sign for him. Maybe I'm too new at this to care, but I just felt like this young innocent guy who had too much to drink was taken for a ride. On top of it the vip host added in the tips on both receipts. He's in for a rude awakening when his credit card bill comes.

    Last comment, in my last vip (this club makes all it's money on vip) the guy tried to grab my boobs. I was told right from the getgo no boob or kitty touching allowed. This guy was very forceful but I was afraid to say no. I quickly just changed my dance routine and luckily the host came in and intervened. How to you stop this from happening without upsetting the custie, especially when they've tipped you a lot already? Is this the norm for NYC?
    What club do you work at in NYC?

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    Last Post: 05-12-2003, 05:33 AM

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