hey ladies,
there has been plenty of threads on safety precautions and the value of screening but I have failed to find an updated and timely thread on screening for well known sites like backpage or cityvibe. I been escorting and stripping for almost three years now and BP has been my number reliable money maker. There are always a guy lurking on BP! But I have ran into incidents when I was very new to escorting and pretty much gave myself away (i agreed to money and services), since then I dont discuss services (maybe compensation but I usually post it on my ad and refer guys back to my ad if they ask) and it has worked. I sometimes turn down legitimate customers because of this protocol.
Now, for escorting forums and discussions boards, I do screen on those sites because allows me the benefit to, I can check hobbyiest reviews and their activity in discussion threads. But its almost impossible to screen in such nature on BP and cityvibe but ladies swear up and down they screen off these sites. HOW? How do you screen without scaring away potential customers or validating information. I know places such as P411 or Datecheck allow such things but BP I mean HOW? I would love to know the trick if the trade.
I mean if I was customer and you were asking where I work or my personal information I would just move on to the next lady. Thats what they do anyways..Its not like a lady has never had a guy set a date but never arrived or returned the call. Its not like he suddenly became "unhorny" he just found another lady he felt more comfortable with.
As of now when I do post on BP I just discuss time of arrival, duration of date and location. I give my room number when they arrive and make sure I check outside the window for LE. My last run in with LE (back in 2010) I agreed to money and service so I usually dont go that far in conversation but I have to say I have discussed such acts over the phone in the past but I can tell they were legit clients. LE is usually straight forward while guys that really like you will talk your ear off or act like you've known each other for years..I dont know..
Is this a good practice I am using or can i improve my screening methods?? Since I have progressed in my career LE is scaring me more than ever but the extra money and financial freedom is something that cant be replaced and I dont want to give it up!!



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