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    Today I got taken into private chat. He wanted to be the naughty boy who got caught masturbating in my panties ('I get a lot of that). He suggested that we'd be there for 20 min but we were only there for four. I'd like an evaluation to help me understand if I'm doing this right.


    him: You caught me mommy
    me: what are you doing??


    him: Don't you knock?
    me: well sometimes I forget. Are you wearing my panties?


    him: I'm sorry


    me: And you are masturbating? I told you not to masturbate in my panties! And I see
    you are wearing the wet ones from beside the bed. They are the ones that smell like
    me....they are not even clean. Those are the ones I especially don't want you to wear!!


    [at this point I move my cheapo cam to directly across from me. Now he can see me up
    close but the monitor is off to the side. I cannot look at cam and see his words simultaneously... this may have hurt]


    [slowly remove my clothes and start rubbing my nipples]


    I proceed to go on saying things like:


    "those panties remind me of the fun your daddy and I were having last night. Now
    they are making me so horny that you will have to eat my pussy!!"


    [get the dildo and start working it around my vag]


    THERE you little pussy muncher...you have to eat me and I'm going to spank
    you at the same time!! And you can't even touch your dick while I do it!!


    [spanking pillow]


    so then he leaves...and I'm wondering, am I doing something wrong? Any comments would
    be appreciated...thanks and happy Friday!!!
    Your marriage is a tragedy but it's not my concern....
    -Grace Jones

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    Sounds good to me, except for maybe he wasn't into the spanking him or touching his dick part.. I am an expert at roleplay.. in fact some tell me they can't find anyone better than me.. .. (oh such an honor..sigh).. but looks good to me.. some guys like your ending, but usually they express they want it.. I would keep it to more of a loving.. type of thing.. like taking care of him .. "you are such a goodboy" mommy loves her lil boy.. haha!!..LOL.. many different ways to do it.. maybe he liked it to much.. doesn't matter.... You can always ask if their is anything specific they want!.. but most are like HUH??? some just want generic, others want something elaborate.
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    Every guy likes his roleplay slightly different. All I can suggest is that you encourage them to take part more so you get a better idea. We're not mind readers! Ask questions as you go along, MAKE them take part.
    You can't win them all though.

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    I ask how they would like me to react when I find them...some will want me to be surprised, angry then get turned on....some want me to be surprised, angry humiliate and punish them (they normally want something anal related and black mail)....some want me to surprised, then understanding and caring, showing them my body, and how I like to be touched etc and to be seduced.

    They are so different...
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    Great replies, thanks girls!!! Katy and anonymous - yes I agree I should have maybe been more loving and caring, that is something I will keep in mind....funny I got so many wanting to be humliated at first that I got in a mindset, but yes motherly in an understanding way.

    And Viodina, definitely I will ask more questions next time. Great tip..I was thinking that too after it ended...

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    You're welcome Christine. For some reason the part that is jumping out at me is mentioning Daddy...it's probably best not to bring third parties into the scenario, especially if he is wanting a special moment just with you. Thinking about where these guys are coming from when they want a maternal feel to the role play, Daddy could be a negative emotional trigger.
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    Good thread! I struggle with new roleplay sometimes
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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    Sounds good to me, except for maybe he wasn't into the spanking him or touching his dick part.. I am an expert at roleplay.. in fact some tell me they can't find anyone better than me.. .. (oh such an honor..sigh)..
    It's an awesome honor...it's the theatrical part of webcam modelling!! Control their brains and you have them!
    Your marriage is a tragedy but it's not my concern....
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    Maybe he finished? Sometimes they can't get out pvt fast enough once they have had their fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BluJ View Post
    Maybe he finished? Sometimes they can't get out pvt fast enough once they have had their fun.
    That's very true....I've had a lot of guys leave right after they are done with out saying anything and I'll be wondering if I did something wrong or not but most of the time they come back and say how great it was and sorry they finished so quickly, I think the majority just finish fast and don't have the brains to say bye at least lol

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    I personally would have done that whole role play without toys.... when a guy tells me they want a role play where they are a naughty boy who got caught masturbating in my panties"... I would tease the guys and make them ask to see me naked....In my mind toys don't seem to fit that roleplay..... . But who really knows why guys do the thing that they do

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    It sounds good to me. I'm always getting guys like this. I have only one guy that likes it motherly. All the rest like me to call them a bad boy and be stern with them. I understand wondering though. I have done roleplays and the client will leave abruptly. So I'm like "did I fuck it up for him?" Guess what though...they always come back. I think maybe he just couldn't hang and blew. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLexy View Post
    It sounds good to me. I'm always getting guys like this. I have only one guy that likes it motherly. All the rest like me to call them a bad boy and be stern with them. I understand wondering though. I have done roleplays and the client will leave abruptly. So I'm like "did I fuck it up for him?" Guess what though...they always come back. I think maybe he just couldn't hang and blew. LOL
    that's what I'd like to think...but since I'm new I'm looking for ways to improve my act and focus on customer service. I just ordered my laptop which will finally allow me to go upstairs to my room and get off the uncomfortable downstairs futon...

    Aven - good idea, I should probably have focused more on him and less on me...good point!
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    Did he rate you after the show?

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    since direct incest play is a hard limit, I change it over to daddy's girlfriend or stepsister or something.
    After catching the "boy" I would have made him feel bad/naughty for doing it but not go straight into punishment. I would have reminded him that he probably does it often. Actually, when I were to have "seen" what
    was going on I would have acted shocked but not repulsed as if the idea itself was okay with him and I somehow approved of the fantasy while still feeling the need to scold him and shame him. I get myself in the
    headspace of the possible situation as much as possible.

    Also the husband bit probably did not add to the situation. Guys into panty sniffing are into the taboo of doing something naughty and wrong and being caught just raises the adrenaline. It's sort of like mental edging and
    there are two ways you can go with that. One is to jump to corporal punishment in which case the mischievious act wouldn't be the subject or to take interest in it. 90% it's the latter which is why this sort of role play
    is a limit for me. If not, I'd start telling him the sort of thoughts he's thinking and why he likes it while showing him a pair of my dirty underwear at the same time and holding them up to the camera. Comment on the
    smell and that so he knows he's been caught, stick them in his mouth and punish him. Punishing him could be spanking if he suggested it or making him masturbate in front of you adding to the element of shame.

    You can get a lot of answers out of someone through role play by simply asking situational appropriate questions. As Vlodina and others said, make them participate as it will seem more involving and real to them. Play it right and a role play session can last up to an hour.

    It can be a bit challenging because you may have to jump out of your camgirl persona to make it work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LolaBohemia View Post
    Guys into panty sniffing are into the taboo of doing something naughty and wrong and being caught just raises the adrenaline. It's sort of like mental edging and
    there are two ways you can go with that. One is to jump to corporal punishment in which case the mischievious act wouldn't be the subject or to take interest in it. 90% it's the latter which is why this sort of role play
    is a limit for me. If not, I'd start telling him the sort of thoughts he's thinking and why he likes it while showing him a pair of my dirty underwear at the same time and holding them up to the camera. Comment on the
    smell and that so he knows he's been caught, stick them in his mouth and punish him. Punishing him could be spanking if he suggested it or making him masturbate in front of you adding to the element of shame.

    You can get a lot of answers out of someone through role play by simply asking situational appropriate questions. As Vlodina and others said, make them participate as it will seem more involving and real to them. Play it right and a role play session can last up to an hour.

    It can be a bit challenging because you may have to jump out of your camgirl persona to make it work.
    Wow, this is SO interesting, and I have so much to learn!!! I was trying to act like a horny sex kitten and playing with my pussy but it sounds like a very different approach was needed. Awesome advice, thanks!!!

    christine
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    ah yes, kink/fetish and "vanilla" are, at most times, VERY separate. People who crave the taboo often have the mainstream bearing little effect on them so going the road barely traveled is the best choice.
    Understanding sexual deviance (neutral term) and psychology are often key to creating a satisfying role play scene. This might be why I do shows that are nothing but talking as if I'm writing a book.
    For basic taboo kink scenarios have a setting and character approach developed so you don't scramble for ideas. Often when I'm doing role play customers would rather look at my eyes or lips as opposed to any naked part of me.

    Fetishism and role play is often way more mental than physical/visual. These guys are my bread and butter. Reading strange erotica or fetish stories can help a lot with online role play but only spend time doing that if it's requested you engage in it fairly often. Acting also helps a lot as well as having the ability to think quickly.
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    Do ask how he would like you to react first...I have many that I role play with who do not want anger or punishment in that situation. You need to know which type of kink you're dealing with from the start.
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