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    Duh I need advise girls!!!!

    I have run into a serious bind!!!!
    I am an escort and I got busted in Arkansas (I live in Oklahoma) they took my car and phones. So I am stranded hours away from home with no car and no money since I had to bail myself out.
    I would like to go to the strip club so I can get some money to get my car back and go back home. I have considered dancing for a while now and the only thing that has stopped me is that I have some anxiety and stage fright and I just feel awkward, mostly around other females. I am also nervous because I dont know anyone that can show me the ropes.
    Any Advise??? What do you do to overcome anxiety of being around a lot of strangers?? I have plenty experience with men so im not too worried about that I just need some tips on what to do since I have never danced before.
    Thanks!!!!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: I need advise girls!!!!

    How are you posting this if you are stranded and without phone(s)???







    Quote Originally Posted by DakotaSweets View Post
    I have run into a serious bind!!!!
    I am an escort and I got busted in Arkansas (I live in Oklahoma) they took my car and phones. So I am stranded hours away from home with no car and no money since I had to bail myself out.
    I would like to go to the strip club so I can get some money to get my car back and go back home. I have considered dancing for a while now and the only thing that has stopped me is that I have some anxiety and stage fright and I just feel awkward, mostly around other females. I am also nervous because I dont know anyone that can show me the ropes.
    Any Advise??? What do you do to overcome anxiety of being around a lot of strangers?? I have plenty experience with men so im not too worried about that I just need some tips on what to do since I have never danced before.
    Thanks!!!!!!!!!!
    Last edited by Sophia_Starina; 01-11-2013 at 02:18 PM.
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Default Re: I need advise girls!!!!

    I advise you to get in touch with a friend or family member and have them wire you money or bring you home.

    Stripping under duress is a TERRIBLE idea.

    You have been through something traumatic and you need to get your wits about you.

    Call in some favors and get home.



    Best of luck.
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    How are you posting this if you are stranded and without phone(s)???
    I am on my laptop. I am at a friends and I left the computer.

    Sophia I wish I could but I do not have anyone who can help me. I do not have a very large support system and those who would like to help just can't.

    Like I said I have thought about it many times. And after being busted I would like to start dancing since it is legal and escorting I have found is not worth the risk. I have a positive attitude and have my wits. Stripping is something I have been wanting to do.

    I just need some tips on helping with my stage fright.

    I appreciate the advise though

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    Quote Originally Posted by DakotaSweets View Post
    I am on my laptop. I am at a friends and I left the computer.

    Sophia I wish I could but I do not have anyone who can help me.

    Dakota, you are at a friend's place... technically they are helping you right now. You are not alone.

    Is there any way that your friend can get you home???

    I just 'hate beyond hate' the concept of someone jumping into stripping if they are uncomfortable with the notion of it. You are anxious around other women. You've just been busted for escorting. You say you have feel awkward on stage.


    I'm worried for you.


    That's all I am trying to say.
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    Default Re: I need advise girls!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I just 'hate beyond hate' the concept of someone jumping into stripping if they are uncomfortable with the notion of it. You are anxious around other women. You've just been busted for escorting. You say you have feel awkward on stage.


    I'm worried for you.


    That's all I am trying to say.
    i agree 100% with this. its a bad idea when girls who don't want to strip just decide to because they need the money..you need to be very thick-skinned, confident, and sure of yourself and that you want to do this when you go into this profession or it can be disastrous!

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    Default Re: I need advise girls!!!!

    Very good advises from Simone and Sophia. I agree 100%. You should follow then. Very big risk to be burned out as you would be in under very high pleasure.In my personal experience I never made money when I was really under pleasure due financial issues. Seems like the guy can read that in your face. Confidence and positive mind is a must for this job. I wish you the best luck

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    Default Re: I need advise girls!!!!

    eh, I jumped into stripping. Not in a high stress situation but I did need to find a way to be an independent grown up. So I grabbed some lace shorts, a NOLA tank top and the only heels I had and auditioned.

    You've had a shitty experience so maybe stripping will be incredibly freeing. Try it out. Maybe start on dayshift when it's slow so you're less overwhelmed. Grab some heels and some lingerie, whatever id you've got and have your friend drop you off and wait to see if you get hired.

    If you get hired, your friend goes home and picks you up after your shift.

    It's not that hard. The hardest part is why the nike slogan is so popular

    just do it.
    Ungoogle yourself:


    Also, now offering phone sexins!

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    Default Re: I need advise girls!!!!

    Pop a xanax and have at it. Your anxiety will be gone. (Disclaimer that most people probably already know - xanax carries the risk of dependence and addiction. If you have an addictive personality, don't take it. It affects everyone differently. It is illegal to obtain without a prescription but pretty cheap. 1mg should do you good. 1mg will most likely be blue and football shaped or blue and round. Anything that looks like a bar (white, yellow, green) is 2 or 3 mg.)

    I know that wasn't very ethical advice, but as someone who struggles with anxiety on a daily basis, if you're having severe anxiety, the sure way to temporarily eliminate it is a benzo (xanax is the best).

    Of course, this may not be the best advice given your current situation but whatever. You want to dance but have to much anxiety about. If you know how to do things in moderation, go for it.
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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