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    Not me, but a friend of mine that I knew of when I lived in Virginia.

    She contacted this guy who claimed he could give her 1900 bucks a month to be his SB. My friend told him that as long as there is not sex involved right away (instead of saying flat out no) that she could work with that starting up; she suggested they could start off by going on dates, kissing, etc and if they clicked she may think about it but not on their first meeting. The guy flipped on her and basically acted all butthurt about it telling her that sex is the most important thing on an SD/SB arrangement (saying that oh, but my last SB had sex with me at my beg and call for 2K a month, and I bought her a car and paid for her tuition at UT). She's very frustrated since she's not very experienced in this area. What are the best ways to weed out dudes who want a cheap escort from legit sugar daddies?





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    I guess a way to tell the cheap ones from the legitimate SDs are the ones offering cheap prices, like the amount that guy is offering above while still wanting sex straight away.

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    Default Re: another thread on sugar daddies

    He only offered 2K a month. That's like 500 a week and most people in this site can make that in less than one or two days.





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    Honestly, I'm pretty sure sugar babying is dead. Or at least you can't meet one online because, with the media exposure for those sites, its like 99% fakes and also men who want a discount escort now. It did not used to be like that. But 2011 and after, I gave up being a SB since I was spending so much time weeding out fakes. And they were all suddenly fakes after the media coverage! Its takes too long to weed out the real from the fakes now, not worth it.

    So... hang out where millionaires hang out? That's the best idea I have. And if a guy is a real one, he will start being generous right after you meet. You should never have to put in any effort because rich men are certainly not dumb (unless its brand new money, but he'd be flaunting that fact if it were true). Its like girls that ask "how do I get financial domination guys?!?!?!?!" and the answer is, the real ones find YOU. They are not all talk, they spend right away, and spend generously.

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    ^I thought the same thing; sugar babying is dying. They all want cheap escorts. I'm almost certain that the car that SD bought for his former SB was on HIS name and all. She found him on craigslist. Yeah, very smart girl.





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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    Honestly, I'm pretty sure sugar babying is dead. Or at least you can't meet one online because, with the media exposure for those sites, its like 99% fakes and also men who want a discount escort now. It did not used to be like that. But 2011 and after, I gave up being a SB since I was spending so much time weeding out fakes. And they were all suddenly fakes after the media coverage! Its takes too long to weed out the real from the fakes now, not worth it.

    So... hang out where millionaires hang out? That's the best idea I have. And if a guy is a real one, he will start being generous right after you meet. You should never have to put in any effort because rich men are certainly not dumb (unless its brand new money, but he'd be flaunting that fact if it were true). Its like girls that ask "how do I get financial domination guys?!?!?!?!" and the answer is, the real ones find YOU. They are not all talk, they spend right away, and spend generously.
    OMG, so well said, & so true..the last one I met off a site wanted me to 'go on tour' w/him to push some bullshit sports product, & "make a lot of $" Yep, he knew all the free places to park an RV too


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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    OMG, so well said, & so true..the last one I met off a site wanted me to 'go on tour' w/him to push some bullshit sports product, & "make a lot of $" Yep, he knew all the free places to park an RV too
    Ahahaha! this is hilarious! All the free places to park an RV...lol. Do these guys really think there game will work? I literally look at them and laugh. I am a major ball buster especially for the fakes. Ugh I hate these guys and you guys are right there everywhere,its annoying. They all just need to stay home and outta the way

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    I had a guy on FetLife contact me about a SD/SB relationship. As soon as he explained what he was looking for, I couldn't help myself but laugh. I mean really WTF are these dudes thinking. Oh and for reference my profile there says that i'm a cam model o.o

    Him You'd travel to me once a month and stay a week. We'd sign up for a live webcam fuck site and let people pay us to fuck. You'd get all the profits. And yes it works. I belong to a few of them.
    Me Other than you getting to fuck me on cam what are you offering?
    Him The profits
    Me Hahah oh dear. You realize its more profitable for a female to cam alone or with another female than doing couple cam sessions right?
    How is this even a sugar daddy concept? It sounds like your looking for a free fuck.
    Him Never tried it. Looking for someone willing to try it because the bitches I meet on vanilla websites aren't willing to give it a shot.


    Anyhow these are the lovely lads posing as sugar daddies these days.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mistress Anika View Post
    I had a guy on FetLife contact me about a SD/SB relationship. As soon as he explained what he was looking for, I couldn't help myself but laugh. I mean really WTF are these dudes thinking. Oh and for reference my profile there says that i'm a cam model o.o

    Him You'd travel to me once a month and stay a week. We'd sign up for a live webcam fuck site and let people pay us to fuck. You'd get all the profits. And yes it works. I belong to a few of them.
    Me Other than you getting to fuck me on cam what are you offering?
    Him The profits
    Me Hahah oh dear. You realize its more profitable for a female to cam alone or with another female than doing couple cam sessions right?
    How is this even a sugar daddy concept? It sounds like your looking for a free fuck.
    Him Never tried it. Looking for someone willing to try it because the bitches I meet on vanilla websites aren't willing to give it a shot.


    Anyhow these are the lovely lads posing as sugar daddies these days.
    Honestly, I can't even tell you just how dumb some of my experiences were. I had maybe 3 good sugardaddies after a million potentials. I had one guy offer me $300 for a 3-night long weekend at his house. $300. Three-hundred dollars. No. I had another guy who said he was 39 who was at least 59 in person, he rented (lol) a mercedes to pick me up (fake location though), took me to the cheesecake factory (lol) for lunch, and secretly (except I "secretly" watched!) tipped the waitress $0. I can't even.

    No, just no. Just... don't do it. Unless some rando out of no where starts spending mad cash on you in person, don't even bother looking for SDs online anymore.

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    Its not that being a sugarbaby is dead...just that finding them online was a passing craze that blew up then died down.

    The old fashioned way is still the way to go. If I were more conniving, Im sure I could do okay, esp here in Miami... Think Ive mentioned this before, but a few years ago, a guy saw me pumping gas, pulled up next to my car and asked me if Id like to join him on his yacht the next day. I was in a low loooooow place else I woudlnt have said screw it and accepted... But yeah, he ended up being disgustingly wealthy...we never talked money, he knew I had a daughter and would just give me anwhere from a few hundred to a couple $k to "help out with bills" and would say if I needed anything to just let him know. I wish my head was screwed on tight, cause it didnt even occur to me to try and take better advantage. Id just broken up with my ex and was all weepy over that still...so most of the time thats all I talked about..I miss my bf, hes such a jerk, I loved him, we were supposed to get married!!!! wahhh! Looking back, I wonder wtf this guy was thinking or why he still did all that for me. I was such a mess. lol

    But I digress..meeting someone in person is a whole different ball game, there are guys out there who will be actual sugardaddes and not looking for cheap escorts...just not online.
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