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    Default Re: hurtful boyfriend comment?

    I don't think he said it in a hurtful way.





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    Default Re: hurtful boyfriend comment?

    Ask him?
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    Default Re: hurtful boyfriend comment?

    I read it more as he couldn't believe that his beloved gf could've been involved in "seedy" adult industry work, lol. Is he fairly conservative? But yeah, rather than make yourself crazy why not just ask him?

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    I'm posting this here because I'm not a stripper. I'm an escort and very happy about it.

    Last night I was with the bf, fooling around and got drunk. He likes heels so I take out these stripper heels I have from an old photo shoot and wear them for him. He was all excited and asked me how I even have these (he doesn't know anything about my sex industry work since we haven't been together for that long). And I was all in playful mode so I told him well I used to strip before (as a joke). And he goes "NO way". I kina got the feeling he was saying I "couldn't" possibly have been a stripper, like I'm not hot enough or something. I don't know maybe it wasn't what he meant but being a woman we feel things we can trust our instinct. Maybe I'm being too sensitive but I wanted to share with someone...

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    Default Re: hurtful boyfriend comment?

    Im with Aether...hes probably not meaning you couldnt be, just that youre his darling gf who wouldnt possibly do such a thing *lash bat here*

    When I was with my ex and I told him I did cam, he couldnt wrap his brain around it... Like, I know he thought I was sexy, but I also knew that he was kind of confused, cause Im not and dont come off as porn girl make money naked sexy...I can admit it lol We were together for about a year when I finally showed him my website...and he looked at my pic, then at me, then at my pics, then at me...and I swear it, Ive never seen someone look so confused in all my life

    He said I looked hot......but.......that he thinks Im sweet and adorable, and he finds that more attractive... So yeah, dont take it the wrong way...it could be more the disbelief that you would / could do that because of the way he feels when with you, what hes attracted to about you is more than just the sexpot kitten that our jobs reflect, not that he thinks youre not hot enough to do it.
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