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    Default Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    I got a mixed review on TER and it will obviously make clients not want to book with me now and its embarrassing.. Pretty depressed and pissed off about it... any tips how to cope?
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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    You can call it a fake like lots of girls do or encourage new reviews from clients to cover up the bad one. Don't let it get to you. I don't read my reviews even when they are good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    You can call it a fake like lots of girls do or encourage new reviews from clients to cover up the bad one. Don't let it get to you. I don't read my reviews even when they are good.
    How would you go about calling it a fake? The reviewer has reviewed several other ladies on TER.
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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    I don't know. I have not done that before. Is it really, really bad? Most guys will notice the good reviews around it and really not care too much.

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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    If youre other reviews are good and this is the only bad one, or rather mixed review, which means its not bad per se, just not good... then guys will check out all your reviews and be able to tell that was one guys opinion, which is not usual to most guys opinion of you.

    Guys can be curious too though, and want to see for themselves, was it really that bad? Kind of like a cant drive past a car wreck without looking sort of thing... I mean, there are girls who have cash and dash/not the girl in the photos/horrible experience/would never repeat..and yet they have review after review...because guys cant help themselves, they want to see if its true. And for those who know it isnt..they will make sure to write thier reviews to push the bad one down.

    So dont let it get to you....a mixed review isnt the end of the world and it wont hurt your career..if anything guys will want to see what the fuss is about for themselves.
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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    See if you can get some of your regulars with accounts on TER to write up reviews specifically addressing the points that this guy dissed you on. That way at least other people who read them will see you in a totally different light.

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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    I contacted TER about the review and this was the follow up e-mail. I'm obviously not going to contact the guy who did the review.

    Hi,

    Thank you for contacting us.

    We want you to kindly contact the member and sort out these issues with him. If he agrees with you then he can contact us.

    If and when he gets in touch with us we will make the review editable for him so as to make the corrections.


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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    Without knowing how many reviews you have and just how bad the negative review was it's hard to say if it will cause problems for you. When I was a heavy user of TER I looked at reviews as one part of the equation. A single negative mixed in with a lot of positives wouldn't really scare me away. Obviously more negative reviews would be an issue. Going on your local board and trying to call the review a fake can be risky. If the guy has an established reviewing history on the site you will open a whole can of worms with him and other local posters that could make it look like you are trying to hide something. Also, getting guys to write good reviews of you is always a good idea but guys who have already reviewed you recently won't be able to just simply go and write a new review as someone suggested. TER tends to take the reviewers side in these issues if he is an established reviewer. As much of a pain as it may be their suggestion of contacting the reviewer is probably the only way that you may be able to get the review changed.

    As you accumulate more good reviews the less favorable one will become less noticeable. Also remember that, in spite of what TER and it's members would like to believe, the site is not the be-all and end-all of the escorting business. Lot's of men still just go to Eros, Cityvibe, Back Page etc and book a girl without ever knowing about TER. Your other advertising sources are just as important as TER.
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    Default Re: Dealing with a bad review on TER...

    Quote Originally Posted by livefast View Post
    I contacted TER about the review and this was the follow up e-mail. I'm obviously not going to contact the guy who did the review.

    Hi,

    Thank you for contacting us.

    We want you to kindly contact the member and sort out these issues with him. If he agrees with you then he can contact us.

    If and when he gets in touch with us we will make the review editable for him so as to make the corrections.


    Thank you for the support,
    --TER Support Staff
    TER was and never will be geared towards provider's needs... Bad reviews are a part of this business, as are unreasonable clients.

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