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    Default Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    I have to admit, I don't usually like these. I know guys do, and I do do them, but I find them awkward for a few reasons!
    1) If the other girl the guy wants and I don't know one another very well and don't know one another's boundaries or next moves or generally, how we're going to act and what we're going to do-it can get muddled. Also, I don't know the girl's general boundaries with dances, how much she lets the guy do, what she's comfy with-I don't want to grind or let a guy touch my butt if she's not going to-It'll make her look bad, and the other way around if she's happy letting the guy be touchy with her and I'm not!
    2) If the other girl looks VERY different to me, a lot younger or smaller I feel self concious! On the other hand if she's older or a lot bigger, I feel awkward!
    3) Some girls, when they're simulating the lesbian actions, some actually go for it!I'm not comfy with a stranger going down on me!
    4) With the above, I did a 'lesbian' dance with a girl the other week and she was NOT nice, down there!Was like she hadn't washed for a week
    Do they have these sorts of dances in the clubs you work in?What are your experiences? Am I being a dick to not usually like them?
    I'll do them-they make money and if they're with a girl I like and get on with and work well with, they're a lot of fun!But 9 times out of ten I've not enjoyed them much.

    Edited to add, there's some girls in my usual club that I LOVE doing these with-we just have fun and are comfy with one another and I feel happy with them. But often, it's guy choice or just the girl that happens to be closest in proximity if that's what the guy wants!
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    Default Re: Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    My club does duo dances. Usually it's not the customer rounding up two random girls but two girls hustling them together or one girl getting a friend, so that helps limit the awkwardness of doing a duo with a stranger. The best way to handle the situation of doing a duo with a stranger is to just take her aside before the dance (tell the customer you want to freshen up or grab a drink or something) and just quickly figure out each other's boundaries so things don't get muddled and no one gets uncomfortable.

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    Default Re: Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    I don't like girl on girl dances either for the same reasons you mentioned. Unless I like the girl and know her boundaries (and she knows mine), I don't prefer doing duo dances. I've had plenty of girls pull me into double dances because the guy asked for me...but most of those girls ended up doing things to the guy, or letting the guy do things to them that made me really uncomfortable...which made the dances super awkward.

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    Default Re: Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    I love doing doubles! And I am straight. Normally I only do them with my friends or someone I know pretty well. I think what it all comes down to is that you know the other girl and are comfortable with her.

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    Default Re: Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    noo you're not being a dick..i've enjoyed experimenting with other girls a tiny bit, but i hate those girl-on-girl dances for customers..like you said, i feel like they are comparing us, i feel like the other girl might think I'm too pushy with her/ not pushy enough, etc..i had a bad dildo show experience a long time ago doing a show where i was pretty much injured from her drunk ass just jamming it in there. i agree with shana, you should go over boundaries first! i've never had a girl go down on me during a show, but i can't blame you there!! that's definitely a no-no for me anyways..i also feel much more self-conscious around girls! with guys im confident and i know what im doing but i dont have as much experience with other girls

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    Default Re: Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    My club does duo dances. Usually it's not the customer rounding up two random girls but two girls hustling them together or one girl getting a friend, so that helps limit the awkwardness of doing a duo with a stranger. The best way to handle the situation of doing a duo with a stranger is to just take her aside before the dance (tell the customer you want to freshen up or grab a drink or something) and just quickly figure out each other's boundaries so things don't get muddled and no one gets uncomfortable.
    I've never felt I could do that because, other girls never tend to so I usually think they'll think I'm a prude or too uptight!I agree It's a good idea though. I tend to work alone as a lot of the girls I'm very friendly with are a lot lazier than I am at hustling, they don't go over to guys as much, so if I end up in a lesbian show it's because another girl has happened to be wth that same group of guys and if he wants doubles we end up together.
    Quote Originally Posted by lovelydancer View Post
    I don't like girl on girl dances either for the same reasons you mentioned. Unless I like the girl and know her boundaries (and she knows mine), I don't prefer doing duo dances. I've had plenty of girls pull me into double dances because the guy asked for me...but most of those girls ended up doing things to the guy, or letting the guy do things to them that made me really uncomfortable...which made the dances super awkward.
    Yes I've had that a few times, once recently-she was letting the guy suck her nipples and I just wasn't up for it, she was a lot younger than me and has only just started dancing and seemed to think it was a giggle-the customers we were dancing for werent' the type I feel best comfortable with, anyway-the kind I'd normally expect to be disrespectful but she seemed to be loving all the 'attention'! No issue with that, apart from it kinda made me look a bit fuddy for not joining in!

    Quote Originally Posted by hollywood6 View Post
    I love doing doubles! And I am straight. Normally I only do them with my friends or someone I know pretty well. I think what it all comes down to is that you know the other girl and are comfortable with her.
    I do like doing them with certain girls who I click with, they can be a lot of fun!
    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    noo you're not being a dick..i've enjoyed experimenting with other girls a tiny bit, but i hate those girl-on-girl dances for customers..like you said, i feel like they are comparing us, i feel like the other girl might think I'm too pushy with her/ not pushy enough, etc..i had a bad dildo show experience a long time ago doing a show where i was pretty much injured from her drunk ass just jamming it in there. i agree with shana, you should go over boundaries first! i've never had a girl go down on me during a show, but i can't blame you there!! that's definitely a no-no for me anyways..i also feel much more self-conscious around girls! with guys im confident and i know what im doing but i dont have as much experience with other girls
    I think I will try to do the discussion with the other girl next time-I have been scared they'd find it a bit too 'serious' but for all I know, maybe they feelthe same as I do!
    Thanks for responses xx
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    Default Re: Doubles/2girls/'Lesbian' dances-does your club do these?Am I being a dick?

    Quote Originally Posted by sugarmouse0707 View Post
    3) Some girls, when they're simulating the lesbian actions, some actually go for it!I'm not comfy with a stranger going down on me!
    ^While I don't mind doing doubles, this is a pet hate of mine (when girls assume you'll be fine with xyz and simply go for it).

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