I have to admit, I don't usually like these. I know guys do, and I do do them, but I find them awkward for a few reasons!
1) If the other girl the guy wants and I don't know one another very well and don't know one another's boundaries or next moves or generally, how we're going to act and what we're going to do-it can get muddled. Also, I don't know the girl's general boundaries with dances, how much she lets the guy do, what she's comfy with-I don't want to grind or let a guy touch my butt if she's not going to-It'll make her look bad, and the other way around if she's happy letting the guy be touchy with her and I'm not!
2) If the other girl looks VERY different to me, a lot younger or smaller I feel self concious! On the other hand if she's older or a lot bigger, I feel awkward!
3) Some girls, when they're simulating the lesbian actions, some actually go for it!I'm not comfy with a stranger going down on me!
4) With the above, I did a 'lesbian' dance with a girl the other week and she was NOT nice, down there!Was like she hadn't washed for a week
Do they have these sorts of dances in the clubs you work in?What are your experiences? Am I being a dick to not usually like them?
I'll do them-they make money and if they're with a girl I like and get on with and work well with, they're a lot of fun!But 9 times out of ten I've not enjoyed them much.
Edited to add, there's some girls in my usual club that I LOVE doing these with-we just have fun and are comfy with one another and I feel happy with them. But often, it's guy choice or just the girl that happens to be closest in proximity if that's what the guy wants!





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