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    Default Dating an exotic dancer/girls' private lives

    The reality of strippers is that these girls learn how to play men to get what they want from them, using their bodies, their sexuality, their minds. A lot of the threads in Hustle Hut is about how to get the big spenders to spend ours in VIP rooms, how to weed out the guys with big money, etc. You have to wonder if this carries over into the dancers' private lives, do the REALLY hot girls just use their sexiness to find a rich guy/sugar daddy, or do dancers actually date normal guys? Lets hear from the ladies on this one!

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    Default Re: Dating an exotic dancer/girls' private lives

    Well ok but let's keep some perspective here. No one is dragging men into strip clubs like lambs to slaughter. We all know that it's a two way street...well, at least we should all know.
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    Default Re: Dating an exotic dancer/girls' private lives

    That's.. just kind of silly. Customers aren't helpless innocent victims of sexy succubus's , they go to the strip club with the intention to spend money to get the company of pretty ladies. Any cash that leaves your hand is a choice, it wasn't stolen.

    Dancers go for the big spenders because it's their job. Sure, maybe it attracts a certain type of women, and maybe sex work has a higher chance of carrying over to your personal life, but ultimately dancers are people too.

    Would you ask if a waitress's tendency to serve people and be super polite carries over to their love life?

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    Dancers date normal guys. End of story. When your working (in a strip club where guys only come to see naked girls) then yes by all means we are using you, just like you are using us. I am two different people, one person at work and the real me. When I'm not working, I'm not thinking about trying to get money out of men, I'm thinking about finding someone I have a real connection with.

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    Default Re: Dating an exotic dancer/girls' private lives

    If you are going to a strip club as a customer, thats what you are, a CUSTOMER. Customers have money to spend on a service. A dancer's service happens to be her time. Personally, I don't like to waste my time at work. Going to they guys most willing to part with the most money with the least amount of effort and time is just smart business sense for a dancer. Hustle Hut helps teach less experienced dancers the art of not wasting our time. Sure there are some girls who probably do use hustle in their OTC lives, I've seen it. But the majority don't. Most of us don't want to deal with the hassle that sugar daddy money brings anyway.

    I know I'm not a 10 on the hot scale, but I date a perfectly normal guy. We've been together 4 years and the only time money comes up between us is when the bills are due or it is tax time. We do normal stuff with our kids (birthday parties, the zoo, etc). We go to bed at 11pm. We both try to make the other happy. Most professional dancers are the normal chick you saw at the store, shopping with her friends or boyfriend.

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    Default Re: Dating an exotic dancer/girls' private lives

    If youre sincerely curious, there is a Life Support section on the site that often has to do with relationships?

    Most posts arent like "My bf bought me the latest Aston Martin instead of a fully operational 10,000 acre wine vineyard in Napa, should i dump him?", theyre like "hey, is this a good idea?" "is this relationship healthy?"

    you know, normal stuff from normal people?





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    Dating rich guys isn't exclusively a stripper thing... Just like any population of women, some strippers prefer to date guys with money, some don't consider income a factor when they are dating. You can't lump exotic dancers into a one-size-fits-all category of dating habits.

    I have a group of non-dancer girlfriends from college who ONLY date guys that will buy them expensive things, take them on vacations, help with their bills, etc... They joked that in school they were getting their "MRS" degrees. Interestingly, I've noticed these girls actually have real relationships with these men, whereas most of the girls I know in the sex industry with sugar daddies don't consider that real "dating" at all. It's part of their work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by summerbre View Post
    Dating rich guys isn't exclusively a stripper thing... Just like any population of women, some strippers prefer to date guys with money, some don't consider income a factor when they are dating. You can't lump exotic dancers into a one-size-fits-all category of dating habits
    ^This. Every one is different, some men and women are manipulative and materialistic in general, regardless of their occupation. But, if you are worried or paranoid about dating a dancer-then don't.

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    Default Re: Dating an exotic dancer/girls' private lives

    I've dated really rich guys. I didn't like it. They tried to solve our relationship problems with money instead of communication (I made you mad? Here let's go shopping). I didn't like that. I prefer to date a guy who has enough to pay his bills and not live paycheck to paycheck, makes smart financial decisions, and is responsible and down to earth. I'm sure there are some good rich guys out there, but it's not the majority.

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