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    Question Twitter/blog drama

    So it seems I've caused a bit of backlash on MGF because I think it's important to encourage the girls on there not to post about baby dadddies, ex-boyfriends, or anything overly-dramatic in the sections of the site that guys can see. So, I've decided to bring this discussion to CC. Someone talked to me about this on cam on SM today as well, about how they like coming to my room because I don't constantly talk about other men or how much I hate my ex.
    Do you think guys get turned off when they see a model's twitter, blog, website, room topic, etc, and it's something super dramatic? "OMG MY EX IS SUCH A FUCKING ASSHOLE!!" "Ugh i just wish my baby's father would let me ____________", OR on the contrary, "My boyfriend is so awesome!" "My fiance is amazing. Have i toldyou all about my fiance? He exists! isn't that great?"

    I just don't think guys want to hear about your drama, or how other men treat you so much better than they do. But, that's just my opinion and apparently this opinion is why I make no money(lol?) So,, discuss!

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    I agree with you. I think it's tacky and guys feel the same way. I remember a few months ago porn star Bree Olsen and her bf broke up and she went catty tweet crazy and then an hour later went back and deleted everything and apologized for being so unprofessional. And that's exactly what it is, UNPROFESSIONAL. As a camgirl, your persona might be a 'real person' but you need to be a real person who's constantly happy. On the flip side though, as happy as you can be, you shouldn't tweet how in love you are constantly either.

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    Personally, I think it kills the mood/fantasy for guys to talk about other guys. I mean, I'll get the occasional, "tell me about the details about the last time you had sex" request; but I always save that for private camming, and I never bring it up unless asked about it.

    I actually peeped on a cam girl once who was chatting with a customer and said, "You remind me of my ex.. I hate that asshole". I mean, REALLLLLLLY? LOL

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    Default Re: Twitter/blog drama

    People are naturally curious about drama, so if it works for someone, it works. But I wouldn't do it myself because I don't like to mix my business and personal life, or ruin what I suspect most of my customers come to me for: relief from their own daily dramas.




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    I think some guys LIKE reading about the drama. They also like reading about drama between other models. Those aren't the types of customers I want because they usually don't pay very well, but on more socially oriented sites such as MGF and MFC it makes some guys feel rather cool and in the know because they know so much about whatever cam girl's personal life. They delude themselves into thinking they are really friends with the girl.

    I don't think a model has ANY right to tell another model how to run her business. Unless a girl goes to you and asks for advice about what she is doing wrong/what she can improve, how is it any other girl's business? I would be highly offended if some other model scolded me for what I choose to tweet or blog about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    I think some guys LIKE reading about the drama. They also like reading about drama between other models. Those aren't the types of customers I want because they usually don't pay very well, but on more socially oriented sites such as MGF and MFC it makes some guys feel rather cool and in the know because they know so much about whatever cam girl's personal life. They delude themselves into thinking they are really friends with the girl.

    I don't think a model has ANY right to tell another model how to run her business. Unless a girl goes to you and asks for advice about what she is doing wrong/what she can improve, how is it any other girl's business? I would be highly offended if some other model scolded me for what I choose to tweet or blog about.
    ^^^^this

    I don't really understand chicas who share dramatic ish with customers but I don't think it's my place to tell anyone how to run their business. It'll either work for them or it won't, and if it doesn't the clever ones will shift their strategy.

    Courtney said it best, the guys with $$$$ are busy, they lead full lives and don't wanna take on anyone else's problems.

    as far as never mentioning SO's, I don't talk about mine alot at all but there are exceptions. I tend to share what's going on in my life with my best guys, so when our anniversary rolled around and we actually remembered it this year, I told a few guys with whom I felt comfortable sharing that. I got tipped large for it, too. That shocked the hell outta me.

    Some guys do care about our lives, after all they share alot of themselves with us, but that speaks to something different than purient interest or drama-mongering. Smart chicas learn that on their own, or not. You can't lecture someone into figuring out the difference

    as far as MGF, the culture of that site seems to encourage drama and over-involved white knights? I'm not sure if removing one topic of convo (SO's/ex's) from that will change much

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    I think if it's a cat fight between two females, guys think it's "hot." LOL. They even had a Seinfeld episode about that...lol.

    If it's a model ranting about her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, some guys will probably use that opportunity to ask 50 million questions about her sex life ("When you and your boyfriend fuck, do you like to be on top?"..."Do you swallow his cum?"...etc.), and some guys will probably kiss her ass and be like "If I was your man, I'd buy you flowers everyday, bb." LMAO.

    I think cam girls should try to save the drama for their FB page. Horny guys with hard-ons looking for a hot girl to take private don't need to hear a bunch of "My boyfriend doesn't appreciate meeeee!!!!!" rants. If I'm THAT pissed off, I might as well stay off cam for a while, and blast some Biggie Smalls til I feel better...lol.
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    I really don't care what other girls blog/tweet about - it's not like rates or doing shows for free that will affect the industry as a whole..

    But as a general point of discussion, I don't think that it is the best idea, but it depends on your persona. Some girls can really work the bitchy angle, or the pity angle, and if it works, all power to ya!

    Personally, my cam-persona is all happy horny sunshine, and bitching just isn't part of it. I do talk about men in my life and my sex life, but that is from the angle of "I'm polyamorous, so I have lots of sex with lots of men and it doesn't mean that I am off the market". Never mind that I'm not likely to go hooking up with any cam custys!! I think that sometimes it can kill the fantasy to hear about your SO, and while bitching and complaining may get people paying attention to you, I always wonder - why would a guy pay to listen to a woman bitch? Surely that's something they can get for free?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    I really don't care what other girls blog/tweet about - it's not like rates or doing shows for free that will affect the industry as a whole..
    Couldn't have said it better. Seriously. Some guys like some things while some are turned off by those same things. At the end of the day how I work that angle really only affects how well *I* do, it doesn't make or break cam girls everywhere.

    I've been going through a hard time this past month. I've been trying not to focus on it, trying not to talk about it in my free chat. But, there are a couple of regulars of mine who I know for a fact have a hero complex so when they come in my free chat I do answer their questions honestly when they ask how I am. It works for me with those guys. Someone from the outside might be thinking man, this girl is whack, why doesn't she just lie and pretent that everything is perfect? Well, beacuse I like those 20+ minute private shows that consist solely of my hero customer writing me poetry and telling me all of the ways he'd treat me like a queen! I will say, "Yeah, I broke up with my guy and I'm really bummed about it, I need an e-boyfriend to make me feel better," when that results in several shows that earn me a lot of money for very minimal effort. I think as a cam girl you've got to know your audience. For the most part, I am happy and carefree in free chat. BUT, when my big spenders come in I know what they want and I adjust my approach to make them inclined to do shows with me. Even when I give them a sob story that makes them want to come rescue me- in private chat, of course. This is what works for me and while I know it won't work for everyone, I think I have every right to do what I'm doing without my approach being criticized.

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    I agree, drama does bring you lot of attention and guys....who are broke as hell. lol. I have never had a whale ever be into any of that. Most men that are mature enough to be entrepreneurs or hold high positions at their place of employment don't have time for that crap. Is it interesting to watch? Hell yeah. Is it worth paying money for? Hell no. Who wants a show from a girl who may turn that bitch attitude on you?
    A good example is the cam girl who had the cam meltdown. She would cause drama in free chat but it didn't seem as though she made more money. Her free chat room was full of guys but that's about as far as it went. More of an audience for the drama but no one to pay up. Not to mention its so unnecessary. Why not enjoy your job and support others? =) That seems so much more pleasant. I don't get the drama but I don't think most do =/

    Most men like to sit back and watch the craziness unfold. Blogs, twitter, freechat...doesn't cost a dime to get front row seats to the fun lol
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    make up the fantasy personal life every guy wants to hear...

    and you'll be just fine.

    ... if all else, take it to the fkn Thunderdome and have at it.
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