I'm sure we all get regulars that demand too much, get too needy, get all stalkery etc-- one or two or both or more!! I probably will post something like this again soon.
I have a regular who feels we have this amazing connection- has sent me many gifts off of my wishlist (the last being a $180 necklace). He is consistently offering to help (even fly out to help me move over the weekend- don't worry I said I was not comfortable meeting a stranger). He hopes we become friends and meet in person because from the privates we have had we have such "amazing chemistry".
I've been clear that I will pursue any meeting up in person if that ever becomes something I am interested in and for him not to bring it up again and he hasn't.
But now he is e-mailing me tellling me when he's free to get on skype (I have never skyped with him but have with other loyal paying regulars who understand this is business and they pay to play) because he "wants me to open my gift" with him there. I have never agreed to skype with him. I had agreed to wait to open my gift until we were in private- not in unpaid for skype and I feel it is opening up a doorway for trouble as I feel he is alluding I should skype with him atleast to open the gift. I'm certain I will be the "bad guy" though in the scenario who has to leave after 10 minutes so he doesn't waste my time and thus he will keep saying we'll talk more later or something to that extent.
Anyone have a good script to handle this regular so I don't lose him as a customer?
I'm thinking just straight up telling him I only skype when it is paid for regardless of gifts and that I have limited time and I do not get on cam for free no matter how much we may get along. Anyone have any better ideas or ways of saying it? I'm certain this will feel like he is just a customer to me then, and I don't think he is just some freeloading guy, but I don't have time to be catering to whimsy for free. (And I feel if I start now he'll push for more)
Or should I just skype with him since he is buying gifts etc.



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