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    Default can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    ive always allowed no touching during lapdances (i started not too long ago though). im starting at a club that ive heard is "moderate" contact. could i tell the customers no touching during lapdances, or will i get in trouble for that since it IS a moderate contact club? didnt know how that works... thanks!

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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    As long as it's not legally, so to speak, a "touching club" (i.e. the club rules outline that customers can touch dancers above the waist, for example, and everyone allows that) then I don't see why not. If it's just a bit of a dive where customers expect it and it's not a rule enforced by management, then you are well within your rights to refuse touching IMO. Being a clean dancer in an dirty club could hurt your money, but it doesn't always.
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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    My 2c-- I think if you're in a club where most girls are doing moderate contact, and you're offering less than the usual, you might want to phrase your "no touching" rule a bit more gently, so the client isn't taken aback.

    What I would do is instead of saying "no touching" which sounds negative, I would say "please keep your hands right here" (pick up the clients hands and place them at his sides) and then nod at him and say ok? until he nods back and says yes.

    I dunno, I find that being cute about it keeps things fun and easy going.

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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    as long as its ok with the clubs rules, then yeah. be advised that you will have to probably be a much better hustler/ entertainer to make up for the lack of contact that other girls give for the same price. it can be done, but its hard to compete with a lot of times. and seeing as you are new to the industry i'd advise maybe finding a club that meshes a bit better with your dance style and preferences if you can? just my two cents

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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    You can set what ever rules you like. You can bend the truth and say you're saving your goodies for the VIP... then you can stretch time out and get creative whilst avoiding contact. This technique can be very effective. That being said, customers may give you a hard time and management may fire you.
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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    You can try, but that doesn't mean you'll make money. Even offering markedly less contact that most other girls (and I don't even mean extras, just actual allowed contact) makes it really hard for you to make money since customers simply expect a certain level of touching and know they can get it from any other girls in the club. It's worth a shot if no contact is important to you, but you're better off finding a club that has rules similar to your comfort level.

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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    of course. contact is not like price. even if most girls allow certain contact if you say no its fine. if youre nice and smart about it youll still make as much or more as everyone else. whereas if you claim that dances are 2 times what the actual price is customers know something is up.

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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    Quote Originally Posted by charlotte. View Post
    if youre nice and smart about it youll still make as much or more as everyone else.
    Not necessarily true. I work in a high contact club where everything but kissing and touching the kitty is allowed. One girl doesn't let customers touch her boobs. She's nice and smart about it and doesn't lie about it to customers, and she's happy to make $100 a shift. Offering significantly less than the expected level of contact by the rules is going to make it harder to make money if you're upfront about it. Sure, you may come across customers who don't care about contact and just want your company, but by and large, they want contact when they go to a contact club.

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    Default Re: can you set a no contact during lapdances rule at a moderate-contact club??

    If other girls are allowing contact it's a good chance you'll possibly see less business. You'll always get some guys that do not care about contact. They enjoy having that respect feature. But depending on the club you could really see a lot less income than the other girls.

    I worked in a full contact club once and there was a girl who wouldn't allow it. She was beautiful so she still got some dances but very few repeat custies. She asked me how much I made one time and her jaw dropped. I told her why I thought she was making so much less than us other girls.

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