Results 1 to 13 of 13

Thread: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

  1. #1
    Member Leonna's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Charlotte NC
    Posts
    29
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheerful

    Angry I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Okay,
    So this guy called me and kept stressing how he was "Clean" and married and rarely ever did this. The asshole had a thick southern accent and was clearly an idiot. So he gets rude on the phone and tries to jew me down. I started to hang up on him, but another call came thru at that precise moment and I ended up hanging up on them instead. So, I cool off and tell him the price is NOT negotiable. So he acts stupid but agrees to pay it. The he doesnt want verified, so I go round and round with him on that. Then he finally gives me the info. Then the asshole says he will be half an hour before he sees me. I wait 40 min. and call him back. He shows up 15 minutes later. By now, I AM PISSED and HAD turned down another call (Stupid of mee!!!) Then he gets here and goes to the wrong room. He calls and says I gave him the wrong room number. WTF? I dont even GIVE OUT my room number until the client calls from the parking lot (which he didnt do in the first place!!). He finally knocks on my door. I open it and this joker is ugly as hell and stupid looking at that. You can literally see that he isnt that intelligent, just like I could hear it in his voice. So, he comes in and looks me up and down snottily and I say- You can set the money on the counter. He begrudgingly does it. I tell him to make himself comfortable and I get into my lingerie. I head over to the bed and grab this idiots dick. OMFG!! I look at it and immediately think WTF?? It has Huge HPV warts on it. He sees me looking at it and says- Oh- thats from where I was circumcised, back in the 50's they didnt do to good of a job at it way out in the country where Im from. OH- HELL NOOO!!! Do you think I'm fucking stupid? Circumcision scars are indented, like my c-section scar. And there were several very big puffy wart lookin things on the under-side of his dick. So, I just look at him and say- "I am NOT sucking on that;" The words were BARELY out of my mouth when he jumps up and starts putting his clothes back on. I throw him his money and tell him to go get his dick cleaned off. He shouts back that "No -one has EVER complained about it before." Uh-huh............right! And then he says my prices were too high anyways. WHAT A Retard!! Excuse me Forrest- But your a fucking cheap-ass idiot with a dirty dick!! I DO NOT Fucking Think Sooooo!!! Has anything like this ever happened to anybody else? Also, the guys have review boards on us- Can I have him black-listed??? Seriously! What a douchebag!

  2. The Following User Says Thank You to Leonna For This Useful Post:


  3. #2
    God/dess shanna dior's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2008
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    4,980
    Thanks
    621
    Thanked 6,894 Times in 2,672 Posts

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Next time a potential client acts like that over the phone (tries to negotiate, doesn't want to go through verification, etc.), firmly tell him neither your rates nor verification process are negotiable and to get in touch when he's prepared to cooperate. Then hang up. Use their phone manner as a part of your screening process because it's clearly a fairly decent indication of what to expect from an actual meeting.

  4. The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to shanna dior For This Useful Post:


  5. #3
    Member Leonna's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Charlotte NC
    Posts
    29
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheerful

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Yeah..........I actually did try and hang up but a freak thing happened when that other caller called me at that exact time. I hung up on the new caller, but my phone call with him stayed connected. I shoulda pushed the end button again tho. Anyways- this guys dick grossed me out. How disrespectful to even expect another person to touch that. I want him BLACK-LISTED!!!! And to warn other females. Ewwww!!!!

  6. #4
    Featured Member strippername's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    1,459
    Thanks
    668
    Thanked 1,079 Times in 492 Posts

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    It may not be HPV. You should have known he was going to be weird or difficult from the clues he gave you over the phone.

  7. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to strippername For This Useful Post:


  8. #5
    Member Leonna's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Charlotte NC
    Posts
    29
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheerful

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    You are sooooo right! No denying I screwed up. But- that dick looked weird as hell. And the fact that he stressed right off the bat, that he was married and "very clean" and "rarely ever did this type of thing" spells out to me that he definitely had something............and was lying about it. What a piece of SHIT! Isnt there a blacklist on P411 or something? Not that Im on that yet, but I need to sign up for some of those services really bad!

  9. #6
    Veteran Member Obenta's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Posts
    429
    Thanks
    889
    Thanked 565 Times in 179 Posts

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    You must learn how to screen.

    You should also read threads here on SW about escorting going back YEARS. Use the search feature. There is loads of info if you want to do this thing right.

    You can learn how to avoid getting into icky situations, and so much more. There are worse things that can happen than the situation you experienced.

  10. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Obenta For This Useful Post:


  11. #7
    Veteran Member DoodlebugBites's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Dirty South
    Posts
    342
    Thanks
    1,173
    Thanked 1,089 Times in 276 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Leonna, be careful in that area of NC. Mecklenburg County ranks pretty high for STDs. Not saying that he had HPV or not, in fact sometimes you would not even be able to see it because those cells can live in the base of the throat. Just be aware that it's a higher-risk area from what I have seen researching on the internets.

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to DoodlebugBites For This Useful Post:


  13. #8
    Member Leonna's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Charlotte NC
    Posts
    29
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheerful

    Duh Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Yeah, I'm thinking of traveling inside the state or to a neighboring state anyways. I'm trying to decide what city to work in next. Raleigh has lots and lots of girls there already. Any suggestions inside NC or SC or VA ladies??? And I'm going to start using a website because half the guys on b.p. are scum who wont let me screen them anyways. I have pics, but want to blur my face and need to know what sites I can use for photo editing like that? Anyways- B.P. Is ridiculous and too much of a gamble. Ive read how to screen and am working on my regular client list of verifiables now. I knew better then to take that guy ANYWAYS. So, any suggestions on what cities are good to work out of around here???

  14. #9
    Veteran Member DoodlebugBites's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Dirty South
    Posts
    342
    Thanks
    1,173
    Thanked 1,089 Times in 276 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Leonna, I wish I knew more about it but I don't. One thing I can say is that business travelers coming through Charlotte may be a safer bet, if there is a way to find them. Have you checked into any of the coastal cities, like Wilmington or Charleston?

    ETA: Also, are you on Adult Work? I have had a couple of people contact me who were traveling through RDU but I wasn't able to meet up. It may at least give you another avenue for the time being.
    Last edited by DoodlebugBites; 01-28-2013 at 09:22 PM. Reason: Added AW bit

  15. #10
    Member Leonna's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Charlotte NC
    Posts
    29
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheerful

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Ewww.........Charleston is a bad spot too from what statistics I looked up. Im working on my regulars here too. And thats the prob tho...If I leave, I might lose them. Sigh............but I would love to get out of this city and do some traveling! The hotel I'm at right now even recognizes me, but they seem to like me too. HAHAHAA! But, yeah- Its time to travel. I'm ready for it! When My website is ready in the next day or so- I want to have some of you ladies look at it and tell me what ya think? Is that possible? I wish there was someone closer to me that was smart and classy in this biz to kinda give me pointers- but all I have found is skanks from B.P. that I met once and want Nothing more to do with. Haha! Sad but true. Anyways, If I'm going to be in this business- I want to do it the smartest and classiest way possible. I'm also trying to raise my rates as high as possible and get the higher end clients. That def means getting my site up and running and NOT getting guys off B.P. Even the wealthy guys on there are "bargain-hunting." Its awful!

  16. #11
    Veteran Member DoodlebugBites's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Dirty South
    Posts
    342
    Thanks
    1,173
    Thanked 1,089 Times in 276 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    Ugh, I hear you on that. I have only been in this area for about a year and only briefly tried to escort and/or strip and what I found just appalled me (just getting a SC audition was a debacle). So for now I am camming but I am pretty good at design stuff so I'd love to look at your site, just PM me! Good luck getting out of here, I am right behind you, at least once I can afford to move again!

  17. #12
    Member Leonna's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Charlotte NC
    Posts
    29
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheerful

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    OMG! If you are in "Chuck-town"- R-U-N!! That place is soooo Anti-woman! I have horror stories from that place and when I tried to dance down there in the clubs. At least the men in NC wont grope you on stage or think its normal, and they actually tip. HAHA! As far as SC goes- Columbia or farther South than that and the men treat women like sh*t there, so I'm not heading down that far. Although, I have been wanting to work in Myrtle BEACH and get the golfing clientele in about a month. When I danced there- I banked Big Time!!! I'm pretty sure escorting there would be a breeze. Its nice to talk about this with others. Thanks! I may end up there in February.............just thinking.........

  18. #13
    Member
    Joined
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Southeastern United States
    Posts
    64
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 40 Times in 22 Posts

    Default Re: I am really disgusted! Has this ever happened to you???

    I have had similar encounters, all I am going to say is if something doesn’t feel right then don’t go through with it.

    If the guy is giving you trouble over the phone there is a good like (99%) chance he will be a troublesome, possibly even dangerous, client.

    You are in NC correct? If you could I really recommend you look for work elsewhere, even other states. However if you cannot then I would recommend hitting up Raleigh or Myrtle Beach for sure. I have escorted and danced in Myrtle and let me tell you it was a cakewalk (during golf season that is) I think any other time would suck though.

    Someone mentioned Wilmington. Don’t even bother, you can try it and might swing a few high rollers but for the most part Wilmington attracts a very low-end clientele. Mostly cheap ass backpage scum who want everything for practically nothing. Wilmington is also infested with drug addict/crackhoes who give out $60 specials. Hell just checkout our backpage and you will see what I mean.

    Sorry for the long reply, just had to give my two cents on NC. Best of luck to you and stay safe out there.

Similar Threads

  1. I feel disgusted right now....bleck.
    By Lady Xplicit18 in forum Camming Connection
    Replies: 31
    Last Post: 10-17-2011, 09:11 PM
  2. Uterus Disgusted!
    By BuffyFlame in forum Other Work
    Replies: 15
    Last Post: 01-23-2011, 05:21 PM
  3. I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.
    By Vyanka in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 10-02-2008, 12:09 PM
  4. im disgusted
    By jaizaine in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 02-07-2007, 06:17 AM
  5. Disgusted
    By BrunetteGoddess in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 07-15-2006, 10:46 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •