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    Question Nervous to take the first step

    Hello everyone! It's so nice that there's a forum that has people I can directly ask. But I am a 19 year old who wants to try "stripping" (in my area, the gentlemen's clubs are topless only) ever since my sister's best friend has tried it. She tells me stories of fabulous money and tips, which is what I desperately need for college. Also, I think it would be fun to do for some extra cash. The only problem is, is it hard to keep this kind of life on the down-low? Do any of you have a boyfriend, and does he mind your job? Is it hard to fit in once/if you get "hired", and is it more difficult to get a job as a dancer if you only have size 32B breasts? I feel as though I have a pretty face and my hair is very long and beautiful, but my body lacks those wonderful curves that most men would die for! Please let me know if I should try to pursue this. Thank you <3

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    i have 32 B too, and i earn fine money. not all men like huge boobs, they all have different tastes. finding a boyfriend while working in the adult industry can be challenging, but i wouldn't let that deter you, plenty of us have great men who support us in our work. i haven't had any problems "fitting in" , plenty of dancers keep it on the DL..i've found that i've acquired new friends since starting, kept a few old ones, and those who can't support me don't deserve my friendship. its helped me weed out the close-minded idiots lol. i'd say give it a shot, see if you like it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gracieface View Post
    Hello everyone! It's so nice that there's a forum that has people I can directly ask. But I am a 19 year old who wants to try "stripping" (in my area, the gentlemen's clubs are topless only) ever since my sister's best friend has tried it. She tells me stories of fabulous money and tips, which is what I desperately need for college. Also, I think it would be fun to do for some extra cash. The only problem is, is it hard to keep this kind of life on the down-low? Do any of you have a boyfriend, and does he mind your job? Is it hard to fit in once/if you get "hired", and is it more difficult to get a job as a dancer if you only have size 32B breasts? I feel as though I have a pretty face and my hair is very long and beautiful, but my body lacks those wonderful curves that most men would die for! Please let me know if I should try to pursue this. Thank you <3
    Did your sister's best friend tell you about the little magical elves that inhabit the dressing room and sprinkle fairy dust everywhere too? This job isn't always fantastic money and if she told you that it's a perpetual money tree 24/7 she's full of horseshit. This job is feast or famine. Yes it is fabulous money sometimes but between the recession and clubs lowering their standards drastically it's a dog eat dog world where only the strong survive. I've seen too many go in expecting to shit Benjamins and when the reality doesn't measure up to the fantasy they are sorely disappointed. This is NOT a job where you can view the world through rose colored glasses. It exacts a huge price that you better ask yourself if you're willing to pay. I have no regrets about paying the piper.

    It's not hard to keep this life on the DL but it can be a pain in the ass. You're going to get caught eventually. No if ands or buts.

    I have a boyfriend, he's 5 years younger than me and he really doesn't give a fuck.

    Why the hell would you want to "fit in"? This isn't a high school clique, it's fucking work.

    I had 34C's before my boob job and made plenty of money. I now have 32DDD's and make more money. I've never heard of a dancer's money go down because of a boob job. Not all guys like big knockers but they definitely do get attention.

    I wouldn't say don't do it but you have a lot to learn about this industry. Going in with your level of naivete is only inviting trouble.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Welcome! Check out the threads that are at the top of this subforum. They cover all your questions and concerns extensively. If that's still not enough, basically every other thread from a newbie has asked the same questions, so look through and find some comfort in knowing that you're not the first one to feel this way.

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    I'd recommend you not starting if you're going to start having to lie etc. You will only find it harder and harder to keep the secret. Some boyfriends don't mind and some actually like the idea of there g/f being a dancer. While some guys can't stand it.

    I only say don't start having to do it under lies because I rarely ever see it come out okay in the end. Somebody will eventually find out.

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    How is it going, have you started yet? I am 20 years old and also want to start but im so nervous! I never thought I'd be considering stripping but the more I read this website the more excited I am...just wanted to hear someone tell me about auditioning and their first night! you can also private message me if you just want to help encourage each other lol I also have a little frame and 32b breasts

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    Quote Originally Posted by karamadison View Post
    just wanted to hear someone tell me about auditioning and their first night!
    There are literally hundreds of threads from girls who came across the forum before their auditions and reported back about them and their first nights. Read through the rest of this section and you'll find them quite easily!

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    I don't work clubs, I'm a cam girl. though I can saw that the work is much easier IMO compared to other jobs, I can't imagine working in the industry at your age.
    I'm over 30 and semi retired, and married. I don't have kids so I have little to no reason to keep it a secret and I often find it hard. from relatives judging me because they think I'm 'just a housewife' and other things here and there.
    I'm perfectly happy with my job, but as others have mentioned, it's still work and it has it's challenges.

    if it was me, I'd take some time to look at the threads on this site on things like what it's like getting out of the industry when the time comes, ways to find good clubs and the like.

    you need to decide if it's all for you and if 20 years down the road you'll be happy you jumped in or sorry you did..........

    either way, Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gracieface View Post
    She tells me stories of fabulous money and tips, which is what I desperately need for college. Also, I think it would be fun to do for some extra cash
    ^Don't get me wrong, I love my job...but, as the other girls have said it isn't always "fabulous money and tips" or "fun". So, don't go into it thinking it will be easy and enjoyable (but reading through hustle hut and other threads will make your transition into dancing much easier).

    Boyfriends: Many of us do have boyfriends, who know (it's not something that is easily hidden, or that you should have to hide in a LTR anyway) and while some men accept it, others can't deal with it and it's often (sadly) ultimately them or your job.

    Looks: It's rare to see anyone with "the perfect body" in or outside of a club. Keeping fit is obviously a bonus, our body is our money maker, but girls of all sizes and shapes (boobs included) can make good money. It really depends on your hustle. I also a 32 B (leaning more towards the side of the spectrum A ) and I'm a top earner...boobs are boobs and push up bras are great !

    “Fitting in”: Basically, most girls don’t try to get to know to “the new girl” because the turn over of girls in this job is high. Keep to yourself and be careful with your personal belongings/keep your money on you at all times i.e. in your garter or a purse. You are there to make money, not friends. You’ll soon find out in the DR who is approachable and who isn’t.

    If it's something you really want to try, either call a club you are interested (maybe where your friend worked?) in to book an audition or visit it in person and ask to speak to the manager/ see if they are hiring.

    Goodluck
    “Give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world” -Marilyn Monroe

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