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    Hi ladies,

    I am so down I just don't know what to do anymore. I have been camming my ass off and still not even making enough to make ends meet. I really don't know what to do. I don't have a car at the moment so working from home is really my only option for now.

    I work three sites
    I am a bbw
    so I work Naked, Justbbw and allbbwcams
    i work at least 4-5 hours daily either day or night or sometimes both.

    it takes me a whole week to reach 100 payout on the bbw sites.

    and as far as naked goes, somedays I average about 40 bucks, and other days not one penny

    I also shoot clips for my clip store on the side and also have a Niteflirt acct. but No luck on niteflirt.

    At this point idk what to do, i am still not able to sign up for Streamate because my studio has issues deleting my accounts in full. I had two accounts with my studio and they just don't delete them no matter how many times I have asked them to.

    I pay 530 rent
    100 electric
    80 phone
    nothing for internet
    and food to provide for myself and my two children.

    I am not even making 400 a month. I really need some help, any other cam sites, tips anything i have been reading here like crazy, looking cute on cam, not showing anything in free chat, cute hair, cute makeup, friendly etc..but no shows.

    any suggestions would really help, idk what else to do at this point.

    Thank you,

    Bella

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    Well at least two of the sites you are on have really low traffic. I missed the part about your studio. Ok now I read further and you were only getting .87 cents umm no. I would try talking to Vanessa as was suggested below, hope she can sort you out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellabbw View Post
    Hi ladies,

    I am so down I just don't know what to do anymore. I have been camming my ass off and still not even making enough to make ends meet. I really don't know what to do. I don't have a car at the moment so working from home is really my only option for now.

    I work three sites
    I am a bbw
    so I work Naked, Justbbw and allbbwcams
    i work at least 4-5 hours daily either day or night or sometimes both.

    it takes me a whole week to reach 100 payout on the bbw sites.

    and as far as naked goes, somedays I average about 40 bucks, and other days not one penny

    I also shoot clips for my clip store on the side and also have a Niteflirt acct. but No luck on niteflirt.

    At this point idk what to do, i am still not able to sign up for Streamate because my studio has issues deleting my accounts in full. I had two accounts with my studio and they just don't delete them no matter how many times I have asked them to.

    I pay 530 rent
    100 electric
    80 phone
    nothing for internet
    and food to provide for myself and my two children.

    I am not even making 400 a month. I really need some help, any other cam sites, tips anything i have been reading here like crazy, looking cute on cam, not showing anything in free chat, cute hair, cute makeup, friendly etc..but no shows.

    any suggestions would really help, idk what else to do at this point.

    Thank you,

    Bella

    My only advice is for you to work the Streamate studio until you can make ends meet .Some money is better than making none.Also try to find a part time vanilla job if you can.My heart breaks to hear you going through hard times.Especially having to put food on the table for the little ones.Also try signing up for MFC,Adultwork,C4S.Good luck sweetie.Hugsss,better days are around the corner.
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    Hey Bella,

    You need to let go of JBBW and ALLBBW (I heard Naked wasn't that great neither) The reason why you need to let go is because the paying traffic has literally died in those places. Firstly, as much as I like the owner of JBBWC and his forum, the guys there are mainly there to wank and fetish FOR FREE. Girls used to do great on their picture sites but it's died down over the past 4 years. I love Moshe as well at ABBWC but again, once he left that site to Scott it died. I see he's trying his best to start it up again but it's just not where it used to be. He also only has a handful of advertisement sites that point to it. SM has hundreds of white label sites. His bonuses have also wilted. He used to offer like $100 just to be on cam for 40-50 hours a month. Now it's like $30 lol. If that went down his paying traffic must have to.

    I remember signing in for a few hours on that site back in the day and going in and out of shows all damn day. It was easy to make $100 a day there in like, 2-3 hours just by bullshitting with the guys in free chat. I didn't even know about SM at the time. Now you go in, and there's 10-12 guys posted in your room with $0.00-0.03 in their accounts and they have no intention of ever buy a show or anymore shows. 90% of the guys there are there to jerk for free and mooch. I logged on last night for about 2 hours and though there were 12+ guys in my room the whole shift, only one came in with money and he begged. Guess how much he had in his account? $6! And he went popping in and out of all the girls' rooms just to get a free flash so he wouldn't have to spend. I had a new name there and still saw the same old begging Joes that were there FOUR YEARS AGO! My memory is extremely sharp and I knew each of them by name. About four of the old heads that used to shoot the shit with me on my shifts were still there, and still BROKE! Not one of them added funds to their accounts in four fucking years. What does that tell you?

    Don't get me wrong, fetish is awesome, but you'll be exposed to a lot more money if you go to a big box site with multiple categories. You're boxing yourself up when you do only fetish based sites with low paying traffic. If you sign up to SM you will get more traffic and more money. Also, Vanessa is awesome, she's into model recruiting and can literally set you up today if you fill out all of the necessary paperwork and ID requirements. I know SM pays because I literally only worked like one or two days for like 30 min one time and 10 for another and already made $50. They have a BBW category and again, loads of traffic. You can make rent in a week there.

    Also, I would consider maybe changing things up if you're still not making anything after you change sites. Change your hair color, wear a cute realistic wig, do your make up differently, change your outfits or attitude. Good luck!

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    thank you ladies for all your tips, i am really trying to sign up with Streamate but my studio will not fully delete my accounts. I had two accounts, a regular one which was deleted and an old couples account when I used to cam with my ex. they have no deleted my couples account, so when i try signing up for daily pay with Princess Jenny i keep getting an email saying my email is in use. So i emailed back with another email address but i have not gotten a response. this is so frustrating because I know SM has the paying traffic. but at .87 cents a minute with my studio idk if i can do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellabbw View Post
    thank you ladies for all your tips, i am really trying to sign up with Streamate but my studio will not fully delete my accounts. I had two accounts, a regular one which was deleted and an old couples account when I used to cam with my ex. they have no deleted my couples account, so when i try signing up for daily pay with Princess Jenny i keep getting an email saying my email is in use. So i emailed back with another email address but i have not gotten a response. this is so frustrating because I know SM has the paying traffic. but at .87 cents a minute with my studio idk if i can do it.

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    Use a new email, tell Vanessa that you were with a studio ages ago, tell her your old name and see if she can remove the info. I created an account last month, made some money, then realized I didn't want to cam on SM anymore as a personal choice (aka overexposure but worth it if you want traffic) and had it closed. Emailed her last night about reopening and she said I could just sign up with a new account. Easy Peasy. Obviously your old studio is holding you back but if you are archived you can just submit a new application. Email her at ATTN: Vanessa [email protected] if you haven't already.


    Okay, I see you're still with them? Why don't you drop them and see how long it will take you to sign up with them again?

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    I would do whatever it takes to get on SM - and try chaturbate as well - not sure what the BBW market for it would be, but I know a lot of girls that love it, and you didn't mention it in your list...

    E-mail Vanessa. E-mail Liz. E-mail the crap out of SM support. Attach all of your previous e-mails to the studio so that they can see that the studio is refusing to release you. Try signing up with new e-mails. Do not let them go!!

    Other than that, maybe crank up your marketing as well? Twitter, fb, etc. Crank up your clips, and you should be able to pull in decent money from c4s.
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    a couple of immediate thoughts....

    re: clips4sale, are you updating every day? Particularly if your studio is pretty new, def try to upload at least one clip per day, experiment with different categories until you start to figure out which categories are your strengths (earn you the most $$$). If you work c4s consistently you should be able to earn more there alone that your current totals on your existing sites

    re: sm. Def try all available avenues to try to get out of your studio. If the worst case scenario occurs and you can't leave (I know from reading Roast's posts some studios make it difficult/impossible to get out) could you jack up your rates to earn more than $0.87 per min your cut? I think the default high there (the highest you can go without having sm raise your rates ceiling for you) is $4.99 per min but you can request that sm raise that ceiling. If your rates are $4.99 per min or above would you earn more than 87 cents? If you bang on every metaphorical door and still can't leave your studio, I'm with Judy, sometimes a lower cut on a decent site is better than nothing at all.

    as far as nf or anything indy related, you need to be able to drive your own traffic in order to see results. Right now it looks like you're struggling to put food on the table, so marketing yourself as an independent may not be your best use of your time resources right now. I'm not trying to discourage you from nf, just giving you my thoughts as someone who knows how labor-intensive marketing can be.

    good luck chica. I really hope Vanessa can help you get out of the studio

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    Ok, so i just got an email from SM saying my application has been processed, a login and that i need to upload my new performer agreement and id's, does this mean i have been approved? God i hope so...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellabbw View Post
    Ok, so i just got an email from SM saying my application has been processed, a login and that i need to upload my new performer agreement and id's, does this mean i have been approved? God i hope so...
    Yay !!!!!! I'm so happy for you.Let's all do the happy dance for Bella

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    YAY! Happy dance!!!
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    You ladies are great, thank you soo much for all your advice!! I really appreciate it. hopefully everything will go through ok. crossing my fingers

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    What I wanted to say has already been said by a lot of great ladies here. I wish you the best of luck and may you prosper on Streamate. Streamate is my only site and I still love it. Things will get better if you want them to. It can't just rain forever, ya know, ?

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    Bella, you and I work a lot of the same sites, and if you are who I think you are, you are absolutely adorable. I wish you the best of luck with this, and yes I second contacting vanessa if you have further issues submitting documents. She was a great help to me.

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    Thank you I really appreciate it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellabbw View Post
    Thank you I really appreciate it.

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    Congrats on the approval of the new account see everything is turning around!

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    Quote Originally Posted by islandsoutherngirl View Post
    Congrats on the approval of the new account see everything is turning around!
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    yay i got my boyfriend to print out my documents at work, he is bringing them over tonight for me, so all i have to do is scan and upload and wait to see

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    Good luck Bella, and I'm glad things are starting to go better




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    Yippie! I'm sure you'll do well on sm.
    Sinceyou aren't new to camming at all you'll probably be rolling in dough soon
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    What I wanted to say has already been said by a lot of great ladies here. I wish you the best of luck and may you prosper on Streamate. Streamate is my only site and I still love it. Things will get better if you want them to. It can't just rain forever, ya know, ?
    Best of Luck to you, I understand! I am gonna use this as a siggy!^


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    Awesome, very happy for you! I hope to jump on cool bus of SM too, as soon as I can figure out my passport.

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    Best of Luck to you, I understand! I am gonna use this as a siggy!^

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