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    Default Opinion of lap dance -- too mild or ok for vip?

    I've been pretty much following these moves, obviously switching it up with talking, drinking, air dancing, flirting, etc. for 1/2 hour VIPs. Do you think this is satisfactory? I think I'm doing ok, but hard to know because I've been told nyc is slow for this time of year. I've had a few guys extend their vips so I guess that's a good sign.

    http://www.break.com/usercontent/200...-part-3-608893

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    Default Re: Opinion of lap dance -- too mild or ok for vip?

    that's pretty good. what is this site, it's helpful! that dance looks good, certainly better moves than when i started. in vip i bust out some moves i hold back ifrom normal dances, so it's different.

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    Default Re: Opinion of lap dance -- too mild or ok for vip?

    It really depends on what the rules are at your club in terms of contact and stuff. The video you posted seems pretty standard and is relatively easily adjustable based on more/less contact.

    Personally though, I move a lot slower through moves and positions to really drag them out, especially when I know I'm going to be with a customer for a long time. I also spend significantly more time being cuddly and doing small sensual things. It's like what the narrator said - eye contact and affection will keep him coming back for more.

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    Sorry to sound crude here....but is it standard to put your hands down your thong like she did? Just seems unsanitary to me and I don't feel comfortable doing that. I also have a problem with so much facial touching....i.e., my lips to his face. Also, my boobs are kinda on the small size, natural and perky, but i certainly don't have enough to shake them all over his face like she does. I feel like he barely gets a touch of the sides when I do that move. I'm over analyzing everything here....sorry!!!!!

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    Default Re: Opinion of lap dance -- too mild or ok for vip?

    I also have small boobs and when I do the "boobs in your face" move I just grab them and squeeze them together, holding them so my hands are on the outside of my boobs which helps. Small details like putting your hands down your thong or facial touching are really boundaries that you can create yourself. If you don't feel comfortable doing them then don't do them. As long as you are following the clubs rules, you can customize your dance to what you are comfortable with.

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    i stopped touching my face during dances, simply because it made me break out around my chin area!! ugh. ill stick my hand down my thong, but i don't touch my lady parts, ill just kind of stretch the thong in a sexy way..but you do whatever you are comfortable with!
    i also have very small boobs, and you don't have to have him motorboat you or smother him to make it sexy..i find the guys i dance for are more into nipples ..just my two cents!

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    Ok I get what you're saying about the hand down thong....I can handle that.....looks naughty and sexy, yet you're not revealing anything....I like that. Once again sorry for sounding so graphic, but do you let the guys touch your nipples if you're not smothering them with your boobs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by swirlygirl View Post
    Once again sorry for sounding so graphic, but do you let the guys touch your nipples if you're not smothering them with your boobs?
    That depends on club rules. I work in a club that is full contact apart from the kitty, so I let them touch my nipples. Mine aren't particularly sensitive so it doesn't bother me, but I know other ladies who won't let it happen. I do move their hands away if they get too rough though because that just hurts.

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    Default Re: Opinion of lap dance -- too mild or ok for vip?

    Ugh i hate when guys are rough or grab my boobs too hard. Im not racist but does anyone else notice indian guys are the worst at this? They just squeeze super hard, i am always having to ban them from the boobs!lol.

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