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    I occasionally dab in buying shows on sites like SM etc from other lady models because I honestly enjoy other girls company better than I do boys and I let them know what's going on before I tip in. I get the fact some ladies are straight and I respect that. I back off always if they are not cool with me there and always leave with a thank you. When other ladies are not comfortable, neither am I. I'm respectful and when they say I'd rather you not participate. There's no need to call me a freak ass bitch, rapist, lesbian, jealous and such. I know I dislike it when men call me mean names. We are all still human.
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    Ive always thought of doing that, but im to cheap :p Id love to see how another girl does things. Plus I play around a bit with another girl when a client buying a three way with us. I love that so why not! keep doing ya thing girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    There's no need to call me a freak ass bitch, rapist, lesbian, jealous and such. I know I dislike it when men call me mean names. We are all still human.

    WTF? Fellow models are calling you these names? That's fucked up. I'm strictly dickly, but I'd never look down on a female who is bi or lesbian or call her nasty names. 1) I don't think there's anything wrong with it and 2) that's just MEAN. We are ALL human...whether we're straight, bi, or gay.

    I know of ONE popular London model who makes a habit of calling guys rapists and "kid-touchers." I'm not gonna say the name, but y'all probably know exactly who I'm talking about...lmao. She says this to the guys who lurk her room and don't say anything. She's a real trip! I hope it wasn't her that called you these names though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    WTF? Fellow models are calling you these names? That's fucked up. I'm strictly dickly, but I'd never look down on a female who is bi or lesbian or call her nasty names. 1) I don't think there's anything wrong with it and 2) that's just MEAN. We are ALL human...whether we're straight, bi, or gay.

    I know of ONE popular London model who makes a habit of calling guys rapists and "kid-touchers." I'm not gonna say the name, but y'all probably know exactly who I'm talking about...lmao. She says this to the guys who lurk her room and don't say anything. She's a real trip! I hope it wasn't her that called you these names though.

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    most of those that say they are females, turned out to be males, That is why I never believe them, but I don't call them names or anything, I accept pvt and ask them to turn on their webcam, and they disappear lol

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    That is so weird that a host calls you names for spending MONEY on her! damn.

    I will admit I am really uncomfortable when a customer does cam2cam and I find out she is female, only because I'm straight and have no clue what to do for her! I do the best I can but I'm so used to performing for men I'm completely lost.

    That is crazy that a host can be so disrespectful and mean to another woman though.


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    I am also strictly dickly but I wouldn't call a female guest names. I just simply would tell her I am not comfortable.

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    Wow, that is messed up! I don't even understand why a model would call out a paying customer? I am straight too and when "girls" come in my chat room asking if I am interested I tell them straight up I am only sexually attracted to guys but they are 100% welcome to hang out in my room or do a show with me if they like. Anyone is welcome to watch me as long as they are 18 or older, that is my motto. Just because you're not into something yourself doesn't give you the right to be nasty to someone else as long as they aren't hurting anybody. You'd think cam models would know this by now, sheesh!

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    As a bit of a side-note, you know that if you buy camshows from other girls they count as tax write-offs because you can say you are using them for your "market research" or some shiz?




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    Great idea @incantatious - never thought of that - If you are a PERFORMER then as long as the audience is over 18 who cares - still no excuse to be rude or hurtful - and rapist??? how is watching a cam show being a rapist ???

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    Foxxy I know what you're saying, I buy camshows, (I'm bi) I used to not even say I was a woman. I didn't say I was a man and I had a girl's name, most never asked I think they assumed I was guy. However I decided I'd rather not give my money to someone who was going to be disrespectful. Now my girl and I specifically look for girls who say they are bi or lesbian, because honestly I don't want a show from someone who doesn't want to give me one.
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    My name is androgynous. I don't answer to anything but something I recognize. I could call myself Big Lou, Crazy Ed, I want Pussy (joke ladies) or something else asininely male but meh. I'm a girl and tell the truth. I do read profiles. I feel that if a model lists straight and I visit and tip and leave without a scene I don't deserve to be treated horribly. We are on an adult sex site after all.
    Exactly, but like I said at this point I pretty much don't bother with straight models except the few I know are cool. So many girls just seem to have a disrespectful attitude towards other females and I don't have time for that ish. I agree with you, but I just can't be bothered at this point, ya know. I have learned that people with in the sex industry can be just as narrow-minded as people who aren't.
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    I can't speak for all girls but I think I pretty much want the same thing as most guys. LOL. I can understand being uncomfortable because it's new territory, but I think the only difference between what I want and a guy is I realize a girl is not going to cum in 2 seconds, so I usually plan for my shows to be longer. I would say of you are ever in the situation just to do your normal show, and the lady will most likely be pretty happy.
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    That is so weird that a host calls you names for spending MONEY on her! damn.

    I will admit I am really uncomfortable when a customer does cam2cam and I find out she is female, only because I'm straight and have no clue what to do for her! I do the best I can but I'm so used to performing for men I'm completely lost.

    That is crazy that a host can be so disrespectful and mean to another woman though.
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    Da fuq? I cannot understand why a model would do that???

    I mean, just because she is straight (our hypothetical model, I mean) does that mean that she can't take money from women? That she has to be attracted to all her customers, or turned on by them?

    Christ, I'd take money from a rock if I could.

    Then again, some girls that I see really do treat camming like its a big game, or just hang-out, or whatever. I guess I am too professional to go turning down money because of someone genitals.
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    I just tip them, I don't go into their shows. And if I did do that, I wouldn't tell them because I feel like they would act differently, and the point of me watching is probably to see how they conduct their show. I've never been called names for tipping though.

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    I don't see how that's even possible if a lot of cam girls put bisexual as their sexual preference . Sorry that happened to you.

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    Hrrmmm...Money is money is money to me and honestly,most women that want a show or come in to my room are much more respectful,listen better and spend more money than a good percentage of the guys.I never hear them say "open boobs bb?" or " why dont you stand up and give mama a lil twirl,butt ass nekked,while singing yankee doodle,for free of course,since im a girl" or " do you like big clits? I bet you like big clits huh? Mines so small "

    If women are abusive to you,it may be that some are a bit jaded? Ive heard so many horror stories of ladies getting other models in their rooms,only to be reported that same day for something they didnt do,or the other model has embarrassed them in their room by starting shit,talking shit or proceeding to persuade all of the traffic to leave the room and go to hers instead etc. So i can def understand why many ladies may be uncomfortable or even feel threatened,but calling you a rapist or other horrible names? That doesnt even make fuckin SENSE! Jesus,some ladies need to seriously clean that bucket of sand out of their vaginas!

    I will admit that when a woman comes into my room (most will straight up tell me,whereas 95% of the guys that have a womans name will call me Mistress and proceed to tell me they are just a sissy and currently wearing my panties with a 19 in dildo up their butt) i tend to get nervous but its only bc i feel intimidated and self conscious!

    The whole time im thinking " does she think im pretty enough? Is she another model?? OH GOD she just said she was,stay calm Bri,staaay calm,you can do this! *deep breath,sexy duck face,wink* Is she here to troll my room? What if shes waiting to screenshot and report me?Well i dont break the rules so afucka YOU maam,go ahead and try ho! *mad sexy bitch face* Oh wait,she just took me private,shit! *surprised panic mode* Does my hair look good enough? What about if she laughs at my show? Are my tits going to be good enough for her? please dont let her be hotter than I am,ill never be able to relax if she is" etc etc LOL

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    Umm... doing a show for another girl sounds super hot!!!

    After dealing with a bunch of dicks all day I would think most girls would jump at the idea! Although I do understand if someone would feel uncomfortable, then they can just say that that's not their thing and maybe refer her to another model who's into doing shows for girls.
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    I honestly don't care if my customer is male, female, TS, whatever. Money is money, and I'll treat every customer like they're gold until they give me a reason to otherwise, such as being an asshat. And I figure it's simple - I'm sure there are girls out there that do fetishes that we aren't into, but don't mind doing for others (ie Feet. So not a thing for me, but I do it). So how is performing for a woman, even if you aren't into women, any different?

    On a side note though, while I am openly bisexual and am in a current relationship with a woman, I always do find it a little odd when I get a lady customer. No idea why - I love perving on other girls free chats, but when I get a girl it's like I get all blushy and nervous or something.


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    I can't believe these models are insulting you, when you're paying them. They are dumb bitches. There's always a few bad apples that spoil the bunch and make it bad for everyone. I've never insulted any of my customers. Although, I am straight I wouldn't mind having female customers. Money is money. But I have no idea how to entertain girls. I'm barely keeping the males entertained lol.




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    I bought a GS from a girl earlier today partially to see another girls GS and partially because she wasn't even able to make a $40 show, so I decided to throw in. After the show she kicked me. I didn't say anything (and neither did the other guys) other than to ask if she reached her goal. Wah??

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    Stephanie is your user name girly sounding?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Christ, I'd take money from a rock if I could.
    fuck yes. this forever.

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    I couldn't imagine refusing money from anyone. I've had "women" tip me in chat and take me into shows but it was never confirmed because there was never any cam2cam. Maybe it was a dude getting off on Lesbian role-play the whole time but I'm probably a good 80/20, favoring the gay side and they sounded pretty convincing, to me. But honestly, I really don't care, either way. I was making money and playing into it. That's my job. As far as I'm concerned, in this industry there's no such thing as a "straight" porn star. If you're smart, you're always (at the very least) "Gay-For-Pay". I'm more often "Straight-For-Pay" (to quote my friend's awesome book title ) but again, my job isn't to be attracted to anyone. My job is to be attractive to everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Melodie View Post
    Stephanie is your user name girly sounding?
    Yeah. I guess so. lol But to kick me after I was only one of 5 who paid for your show? That seems catty. lol

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