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    Arrow A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    Got my answer, thanks.
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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    Quote Originally Posted by DarlaSummers View Post
    so we were considering buying it. ... We don't want to make a profit off of anyone.
    This isn't really true. You said you're considering buying the house, so if people are renting rooms in your home, they're pretty much paying off your mortgage.
    Quote Originally Posted by DarlaSummers View Post
    Does this sound like a plausible, sound idea or with that much estrogen in one house, begging for drama?
    Sounds like drama ... In theory it seems like it would be a good idea, but I think the majority of camgirls/strippers would probably rather just rent a one bedroom apartment and live by themselves ... it depends on where you live and what the cost of living is like, but the rent probably wouldn't be much cheaper in a shared house than it would be in a small apartment.

    All in all, I think it seems like a bad idea. Not trying to be negative, I just don't think many camgirls would consider this.

    Is there anyway you could buy a cheaper house and just live by yourselves? The male roommate situation seems pretty awkward.

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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    I do think its a great idea i just dont know where you would find girls like that and what you would put in the roomate ad. "Strippers and online strippers only - I gots a house can i haz sexy party renters?" lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by sammii View Post
    This isn't really true. You said you're considering buying the house, so if people are renting rooms in your home, they're pretty much paying off your mortgage.

    Sounds like drama ... In theory it seems like it would be a good idea, but I think the majority of camgirls/strippers would probably rather just rent a one bedroom apartment and live by themselves ... it depends on where you live and what the cost of living is like, but the rent probably wouldn't be much cheaper in a shared house than it would be in a small apartment.

    All in all, I think it seems like a bad idea. Not trying to be negative, I just don't think many camgirls would consider this.

    Is there anyway you could buy a cheaper house and just live by yourselves or maybe one camgirl/stripper roommate? The male roommate situation seems pretty awkward.
    Well, considering I'd be paying my 1/4th of the cost of the mortgage and utilities, and they'd be paying simply what you'd pay for a room in general, no, it's not a profit in any real sense of the word. We don't want a cut of anyone's pay, or make it into a real "cam house" where we get some cash to pocket every month.

    Most one bedrooms around here, in a good area, are about 900-1200 a month. You can get one for 400-500 (which is what the room would cost), however it's in the areas you really don't want to be in. To rent rooms it's anywhere from 400-600, which is a much better option for most and is very popular in this area. We don't have any issues, money wise, we just don't feel right kicking out our current roommate seeing as he's a pretty awesome roommate in general. I just hate the awkwardness of it.

    We also do live in a city with a very high strip club ratio (Vegas), so I'm not entirely sure it'd be that difficult to find girls in the industry. I just think the drama might not, at the end of the day, be worth it. Plus - the roommate we do currently have will be moving out in 2014 in April. So, maybe I should just stick it out until then.


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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    Quote Originally Posted by DarlaSummers View Post
    the roommate we do currently have will be moving out in 2014 in April. So, maybe I should just stick it out until then.
    maybe that would be ur best option then. do u and ur boyfreind own the house u live in now? maybe if u dont buy it rent the rooms out to camgirls untill the guy renter moves out then move next door? or maybe if you can afford it if u want the freedom to be able to be more creative with ur cam shows rent a apt to cam out of?
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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    The big question is if you can float the mortgage if you don't have all of the rooms rented - I have owned rental property and it was to big of a pain in the arse for me - and if you can get the house for a deal - hope it works out for you - good luck

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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    You have a lot of homework to do, like rental laws. The amount of cars that will be parked outside. Vetting the tenants. Girls may cam or dance & many hook. Now if just one has "clients" & she gets busted. You may be arrested for being a pimp or madam.

    Many cam girls or strippers are between the ages of 18 to 30 and in party mood so you can't expect them to respect your place & not have parties.

    Your neighbors may not accept a sex biz in the area well. They amount of people coming & going will bring attention.

    You may see it as a room for them just to cam in, but what if they just move in? If they do so, many will have a loser boyfriend move in with him. Then comes about how many tenants can live there. Not to mention all the drama.

    Let me get this straight-You are considering buying a property with your BOYFRIEND not husband? That is a major mistake right there.

    Instead of going into further debt & being responsible for a house payment, insurance, taxes & upkeep. Work hard to make enough money so that you dont have a male roomate besides the bf. Then you can cam in the room he vacated & have the whole house to yourself to run around nude in.

    To purchase or rent another place counting on others to make the bills is irresponsible. Finding that many people no matter what job they hold down is almost impossible.

    I take it you have never worked a job where you were the boss & had to do the hiring or firing. Finding responsible reliable people is not easy. To find that many is impossible.

    Buying a home is a 15 to 30 years of responsibility. . Even a year rental is 12 months of stress. Do you want to be on the hook for that kind of money every month year after year?

    Get rid of the roomate & use the home you currently reside in.

    And as much as you love & trust your boyfriend all those girls will be hitting on him. What happens if you found him in bed with one of them? then what? You are inviting trouble in more than one way. Even if you are swingers there can be trouble.

    May sound good in theory, so does sex in a pool or on the beach. Reality is it SUCKS!

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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    Vegas

    Now I am LMAO a town full of con artist & the most transient population in the U.S. And it is possible to rent a studio or one bedroom there for $500 to $800 there. Live in Vegas for 3 years myself.

    Better off hitting the slot machines at the grocery stores.

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    I think it's a good idea, but like Snowy says, as long as you could find the girls!Have a plan B in case it doesn't work out-also I may be immature but sometimes drama is good drama, you could have a lot of fun if you got the right people! I think I'd like to live somewhere like that.
    But, it could go wrong-you could get the sorts of people you don't like-if you got strippers, what if you got girls who do extras and/or are promiscuous and bring conquests home ? Or are heavily into drugs? Not that other types of girls don't do this of course! I've lived with plenty of girls who weren't dancers and did things that made me wary. But it's still something I would think about.
    Would your hubby be able to handle it if you all became friends and it became too much of a girly girly household?

    If anybody cottoned on to what you were doing you could end up in the local paper

    I'm just brainstorming here-but don't get me wrong I overthink things far too much sometimes If you're sure you won't lose much if all goes wrong, then go for it!
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    It was just a simple thought that we had toyed around with - not something we had invested in seriously. And as an aside, I don't believe my legal relationship status with my boyfriend should be a factor in anything, seeing as we've been together longer some have been married and have held off on marriage for personal reasons.

    And yes, I have been in that position in the past as has my significant other. I wasn't too concerned about the legality etc. of it because I'd do that research if it were something to seriously consider. As of now, it was just a fleeting idea we had thought of and as I said - I'd probably simply prefer to simply wait until our current renter moves out of the house right now.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DarlaSummers View Post
    And as an aside, I don't believe my legal relationship status with my boyfriend should be a factor in anything, seeing as we've been together longer some have been married and have held off on marriage for personal reasons.
    Legal status is pretty important when it comes to property, especially when it come tax time. And while I'm sure you're not going to break up tomorrow or anything, it's always important to keep in mind what is in who's name. Just in case.

    My SO had this idea once but I said no way. My dad rents a few places out, I know how much of a hassle it can be. Though, it IS a pretty awesome idea. Wouldn't it technically be a studio?

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    Default Re: A good idea, or just asking for drama?

    Give me 3 or 4 years and I will do the same. My "TENANT" will go off to college and I think it a great idea o have a home with a person in the same industry. i have done it in my past and tbh industry workers are the only ones I got along with. "normal people" can hang it up. I think there is a certain respect.
    Quote Originally Posted by DarlaSummers View Post
    It was just a simple thought that we had toyed around with - not something we had invested in seriously. And as an aside, I don't believe my legal relationship status with my boyfriend should be a factor in anything, seeing as we've been together longer some have been married and have held off on marriage for personal reasons.

    And yes, I have been in that position in the past as has my significant other. I wasn't too concerned about the legality etc. of it because I'd do that research if it were something to seriously consider. As of now, it was just a fleeting idea we had thought of and as I said - I'd probably simply prefer to simply wait until our current renter moves out of the house right now.

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