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    Another weird camming experience. A guy takes me private and wants to be cockolded. He's white and wants me to compare him to big black guys. He's more verbal than visual and wants me to talk. He keeps asking questions and suddenly I'm making all these comparisons, racist stuff, about dick size and bodies and brains, you can only imagine. Suddenly a voyeur leaves, and I'm sitting there wondering what the hell i was just allowing myself to say. I was getting carried away in the role and didn't mean any of it. I was acting. Another trap to watch out for, like the incest fantasies. Geez...i feel pretty regretful right now. It was an act though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by christinarita View Post
    and I'm sitting there wondering what the hell i was just allowing myself to say. I was getting carried away in the role and didn't mean any of it. I was acting. Another trap to watch out for


    Quote Originally Posted by christinarita View Post
    He's white and wants me to compare him to big black guys. He's more verbal than visual and wants me to talk. He keeps asking questions and suddenly I'm making all these comparisons, racist stuff, about dick size and bodies and brains, you can only imagine.
    Better watch out for those CUCKolds. Because like, omg geez they'll make you loose complete control over what you say and you'll spout off RACIST things. The incest guys and the taboo men are out to get us - mind control. WATCH OUT GIRLS. THEY'RE GOING TO MAKE YOU SAY HORRIBLE THINGS AGAINST YOUR WILL. PUT ON YOUR TIN FOIL HATS.

    WTF was the point of this thread. Either have some self-control? Or you're a racist. Which one is it?







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    If only it was possible to talk about big black cock without being racist...



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    Sooooo.... If you're not comfortable with doing something, don't do it. It's pretty easy. Yeah you will lose money from that show but if it's making you this upset it really isn't worth it. I always say, sometimes money is too expensive.

    I don't see how racist cuckold fantasies are a trap. It's a legitimate fetish that some people have. Just because you are not personally comfortable talking about it, that doesn't make it a trap. It just means you're not into it. And that's okay. As cam models, sometimes we do shows that aren't sexually satisfying for us but that doesn't mean it's a trap.

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    Maybe only do that sort of thing in exclusive 1-on-1 so you don't put other guys off?


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    This whole post sounded flippant and "oh dear me, I was just blabbing racist things and don't know what came over me and this cuckold guy, omg - such a trap. these taboo men." PLEASE. Self-aware.

    Either "Yes I do racist roleplay." Own it, whatever.

    But you don't "accidentally" spout off racist things and then try to blame it on a customer because you somehow have no self-control at all????

    Wut.







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    I don't think you're racist. It's roleplay. If you gave him what he wanted, then don't worry about it. Fantasy is fantasy-- don't let your work persona or the fetishes and fantasies you may deal with impact your daily life.





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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    This whole post sounded flippant and "oh dear me, I was just blabbing racist things and don't know what came over me and this cuckold guy, omg - such a trap. these taboo men." PLEASE. Self-aware.

    Either "Yes I do racist roleplay." Own it, whatever.

    But you don't "accidentally" spout off racist things and then try to blame it on a customer because you somehow have no self-control at all????

    Wut.
    Well you know what? It is. You hear stereotypes in the media and just because they are taboo, doesn't mean they don't stick in your subconscious. And it's the taboo stuff, not the nice everyday, smoothed-out-for mainstream consumption stuff, that these guys want to hear. And for every good stereotype, there is a bad and opposite stereotype.

    I have had black guys and white guys ask me to do this stuff. I'm open to everything initially, but I will have to think about whether I will be open to this in the future. NO, this is not a flippant post. It's me being reflective on something that genuinely took me by surprise.
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    Quote Originally Posted by christinarita View Post
    Well you know what? It is. You hear stereotypes in the media and just because they are taboo, doesn't mean they don't stick in your subconscious. And it's the taboo stuff, not the nice everyday, smoothed-out-for mainstream consumption stuff, that these guys want to hear. And for every good stereotype, there is a bad and opposite stereotype.
    Gotta be honest, I don't think I've ever just accidentally said the n-word. o.O



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    I think you just need to set boundaries with yourself better. It's probably not something you've really thought about if you're experiencing this type of regret now. But take some time and really think about what you're okay with and what you're not okay with and stick to that! Then you'll never been in this type of situation again.
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    Here's a little reading material, that might help you decide on your boundaries before someone even asks http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...?175790-Limits


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    Quote Originally Posted by christinarita View Post
    suddenly I'm making all these comparisons, racist stuff, about dick size and bodies and brains, you can only imagine.


    I feel like I take part in 'Oh golly a big black cock!' roleplays alot*.... and uh I have yet to talk about brains? Do you mean craniometry, eugenics and pseudoscientific racist studies? because whew you dug deep into the history of racism cookie jar for that one.


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    I do those kind of shows all the time and I'm not racist in the least. I'm performing a fetish and doing what my client wants. This whole cam world is lies, all of us women know this. I say all kinds of shit that doesn't turn me on at all. I do things that really don't get me off. But it's what the customer wants..plain and simple. I hate freaking anal...but to these guys...OMG I freaking love it and I'm a huge ass slut. If your worried about the guy that left..don't worry. I'm sure he has seen and heard a hell of a lot worse peaking in on shows. Don't worry about it.

    If you, yourself feel uncomfortable doing those kind of shows, then don't do them. Your the boss and you just learned something about yourself as well

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cammi View Post
    If only it was possible to talk about big black cock without being racist...
    you hit on something important with this post

    setting aside the range of words and slurs that can be involved in race play, I think it's important to recognize that white obsession with Black sexuality (and the white guys wanting BBC play) is in itself built upon racism. In saying that I'm not accusing people who do race play of being 'racists', I do think within one's own boundaries race play is completely acceptable should one choose to engage in it.

    Rather, what I'm saying is that the Black body as a fetishized 'object' for white consumption is a legacy that is centuries old, built into the fabric of societies that center whiteness and have continually pathologized and fetishized difference for interlinking theoretical and tangibly economic reasons. That legacy endures. Since the development of our sexuality is something that is heavily influenced by our socialization in a racist society, it makes sense to me that some individuals get off on race play. That fetish only exists because racism does.

    Whether one chooses to use the 'n word' or not doesn't alter that underlying reality.

    Again, this isn't a judgment. Provided it's between consenting adults whatever two people choose to do together is between them. I don't think race play is racist, I think race play reflects the fact that racism exists.


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    Hell, send him to me next time. I'll trap that shit right up. We are in the customer service business, and sometimes we have to do things we don't personally think are stimulating, but it is up to each of us to set our own limits as to where 'the line' is. Sometimes that line differs with each client.

    Seriously, our society fetishizes anything that we (also) repress. I honestly have some of my best sessions when I do taboo role play with clients.

    I think it's fun, not harmful.

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    I am sure many guys go in an out of premium because it isn't what they are looking for. Why make a big deal over a fetish? I mean in a nice way.. you are making a guy horny by making compliments to other strangers which happen to be dark skinned. It is a compliment to those guys and actually a characteristic that is proven!

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    I have no issue with raceplay cuckold, these guys seriously have a fetish for it and a black man loves being a "bull". I did one session in reg priv chat and one of my regs pops in, a black man, he joined the show. Made the experience all that better for the 3 of us. Yes i was a bit nervous and kindly said to my 2nd custi, I have a cuckold in the room and he said "do you need a bull?" To my surprise he joined in.

    If you are labeled fetish, taboo or what not then they expect all that. If not then set your limits.

    I had a reg take me exclusive the other night for a "fetish" I do not do. I will not shit, piss or throw up. I kindly said "babe I dont do that type of fetish, anything else?" He logged off. No biggie, just set the rules for your room.

    I make mad money off my cuckolds

    Some can say i am racist, some say white trash, some say a disgrace to my race BUT when the show is over my next thought is the next show not the previous one. I will not let others and what they think worry me and more than likely if "recorded" and watched by others all they will say is "she is just cuckolding" and if they have a issue, then skip over to the next model.

    Some can say i am racist, some say white trash, some say a disgrace to my race<--- with that said no one really knows me and its all a act. If they only knew my REAL LIFE

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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post


    Better watch out for those CUCKolds. Because like, omg geez they'll make you loose complete control over what you say and you'll spout off RACIST things. The incest guys and the taboo men are out to get us - mind control. WATCH OUT GIRLS. THEY'RE GOING TO MAKE YOU SAY HORRIBLE THINGS AGAINST YOUR WILL. PUT ON YOUR TIN FOIL HATS.
    this actually had me laughing so hard as i was thinking they dont say horrible things about us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    I have no issue with raceplay cuckold, these guys seriously have a fetish for it and a black man loves being a "bull". I did one session in reg priv chat and one of my regs pops in, a black man, he joined the show. Made the experience all that better for the 3 of us. Yes i was a bit nervous and kindly said to my 2nd custi, I have a cuckold in the room and he said "do you need a bull?" To my surprise he joined in.
    That is just hot. I find cuckolding sooo hot. And the fact that he even joined wow!

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    ^ I know, right? I've had that happen as well.

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    IMHO, the only thing that is wrong with it is that, if someone wants you to perform something that can seem insulting/disgusting/WTF boring to potential second-hand viewers, he should take you Excl or True Pvt. As for doing or saying horrible things along the role lines - there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with it. I am speaking from my 10 years' experience of live-action RPG playing. Playing a mean character doesn't make you a mean person. Period.
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    I know you may not have intended it to sound flippant...but it kinda did.

    Here is the thing. If you work in this industry and don't set your own boundaries, they will be CRUSHED - you will have people walk all over you. And given the nature of the work, it is pretty difficult to just say "oh it's ok, I will figure it out as I go along and consider how I feel about something after I did it the first time.". Becuase with a lot of these, if you find that you have overstepped your comfort level, it will steamroller you. You can't take it back. Not only that, but you can't take it back, and now it is all over the internet and you can NEVER take it back.

    Have a good, long, in-depth think about what you are willing to do, given all the possibilities that you can research, and go from there. Don't go the trial-and-error route. When you overstep your boundaries camming, it can be a slippery slope, and suddenly you are crying in the shower.

    As for this one - cool, if that is your limit, fine. I couldn't care less about racial play - I am more than happy to talk about black cocks and white pussy till the cows come home.
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    Hehe.. this is kind of cute, actually. Congratulations! You just discovered that if you can stomach raceplay, you will preform it! Good for you. I've said before, I can't do it. It's like peeling my skin off. I become visibly bothered. But hey, I just don't do it! I can't. I tell guys that and if they stay in the show, I use my extensive vocabulary to say literally anything cruel and unusual that I can come up with that isn't race-based. Some chicks can deal, some can't. If you really had such a huge problem saying racist things in any scenario (even while getting paid), you just wouldn't do it. But if you can, I'm not gonna hold it against you.
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    Lol he didn't trap you. Its more like your true colors came out. I'm not saying your racist though. It wasn't the customers fault it was yours. You need to set your boundaries an not just with racial play with what you will and won't do in a show. If a guy can "talk you into" racial play then he can talk you into pretty much anything.

    Racial play isn't something to be played with so causally. What if he recorded that show and posted it on a bunch of tube sites and then a bunch of ppl stormed to your room calling you racist. You have to think about stuff like that (you know the consequences of your actions/cause and effect) because that is what may happen if you do race play or with something your not comfortable with in general. You have be comfortable with what your doing other wise don't do it.

    Not telling you how to run things but I highly recommend that you only do personalized shows like that in exclusive. You had no idea if that other person in your room was black or if he was even into being a cuckold. You could've offended him or anyone else coming into your room. If you had asked the other person what he was into before doing the personalized show for the other customer then you probably could've keep him in your room and made money off of 2 customers. Word of advice learn how to control yourself, learn how to control your room, and think before you do things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLexy View Post
    I do those kind of shows all the time and I'm not racist in the least. I'm performing a fetish and doing what my client wants. This whole cam world is lies, all of us women know this. I say all kinds of shit that doesn't turn me on at all. I do things that really don't get me off. But it's what the customer wants..plain and simple. I hate freaking anal...but to these guys...OMG I freaking love it and I'm a huge ass slut. If your worried about the guy that left..don't worry. I'm sure he has seen and heard a hell of a lot worse peaking in on shows. Don't worry about it.
    If you, yourself feel uncomfortable doing those kind of shows, then don't do them. Your the boss and you just learned something about yourself as well[/QUOTE]

    Thanks. Yeah that's kind of the way I see it after doing it....like an act, playing a role in a movie. It was just the moment when the voyeur left that kind of shocked me....but the guy paying for the show got off hard. I was saying some pretty sick stuff, but that's the stuff they want to hear I guess. Did not say n-word though.
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