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    Do you have two seperate social networking accounts (1 for work and 1 for private) or do you add your friends and family to your work facebook and twitter?
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    separate! my friends and family know, but definitely seperate accounts. my real life and my work, i don't confuse the two

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    I only use Facebook for personal use and it's very locked down. Even though most people know what I do, I don't want it all over Facebook. I don't use FB for work, I used to but I found it to be pointless and I always got too worried about the "people you may know" thing. Again, people know what I do but it's one thing to know and another to have it all over the top social networking site that my Grandma uses!

    I only use Twitter for work.

    I don't suggest using the two interchangeably. Even if your family and friends know what you do, 99% of people are not "immune" to the sex world like we are. It's just not a good idea.
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    I can't imagine why someone would want to do that. Especially with family.

    But obviously my answer is no ha. I also found Facebook to be pointless for work plus they closed my account twice. I use twitter a lot but have no interest in following friends or family or having them follow me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette25 View Post
    I can't imagine why someone would want to do that. Especially with family.
    Well on Twitter I've seen some camgirls, porn stars, dommes, glamour models, and urban models post pics of their friends, kids, mothers, husbands, niece/nephews, and or family holidays and be so open about the towns/state they live in. I thought it was kinda of like whoa but it also made me wonder if anyone here was that open.
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    My close family and even my children know what I do. I did not go into this line of work without talking to the ones closest to my heart. There is no WAY In Hell I would share my personal family life with my customers. FUCK that shit! It urks me too when these guys ask if I have a facebook over and over again. I say "Yes I do", but its just for my family and very close friends. Then they ask me why? Like seriously! Why in the world would I want to be talking with my Aunt about her horses or my childrens school activities only to have JoeBlow from streamate jump in on the conversation saying some dumb shit like "Hey baby..when you signing on your cam, I have a huge load that I want to spew down your throat" or anything like that. LOL

    I use Twitter for work. I used to have a Facebook, but deleted it because of some kind of school feed app. I actually signed up to do that with my personal facebook only to have a classmate and fellow parent from my childrens school see my Work facebook picture on that people you may know thing. She wrote me and said "Carmen is this you" I just ignored her question and dealt with deleting it right away. So your right to be nervous about is Sarah. It does happen! I was livid and immediately wrote that app and was very upset with them. I told them to make sure all my information was off their stupid app. Luckily I seen it very fast and did what I needed to do. That high school friend never asked about it again. The fact that she had to even ask if it was me..made her wonder. I'm pretty much plain and pretty in real life. I look nice, wear makeup, do my hair. But my cam attire is a lot more bold. I wear a lot more makeup and my hair is usually a lot more what would you call it..Sex hair. LOL As my husband says when I do my hair for work "you look like you were fucked hard for a few hours with your hair like that"

    I would never mix the two..it causes trouble and grief. At least that is my view on it. And quite honestly I don't want any of those guys to view photos of my children and to know that I'm making cupcakes for my daughters school party, or I'm chaperoning a field trip for our local school or ANYTHING like that. It's creepy..and I just don't understand models who do that. But that is their choice and I will respect their decision to do so.

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    Im not out (some people know, but not my whole fam....aunts, uncles and shit)
    I have FB for personal and Twitter for work.

    I can't imagine combining the two! LOL. "RT, mmmm me fingering my wet pussy!" then see that my oh so nice aunt has RT for me.

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    I am not out to my friends and family but even if I did, I wouldn't "promote" anything sex work related on FB. We gotta protect our FB "family values".

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    I use both, but, over time IRL friends dwindle away , no biggie. Im not attached to people like that.
    I have FB for this and fam/friends, 2 sep accounts
    I have 4 twitters, One I stalk my kid with. I am a hot young stud from the beach I use one for her school, I have my reg one then 2 more to fuck around with. One is strictly affiliates and one is "Im tired of my followers and just want to talk to friends in the biz to find out the scoop with out other models knowing my next move" <--- sometimes ya gotta be slick bc models will be all up in your shit and then every model in the world is using your own plan. They can use it when I exhausted it and on to the next.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    One I stalk my kid with. I am a hot young stud from the beach
    I'm so doing this if Twitter is still around when my girls are teens!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    FB "family values".
    LOL fuck Facebook family values, they had a few vids a couple weeks ago swarming Facebook and being re posted of TODDLERS fucking around with their parents.
    Now they have a minister taking a bath with his toddler granddaughter, yeah, fuck Facebook. lol (nothing against you Marinna Star )


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    Girl when I thought my baby was perfect *sighs* (keep your husband happy lol, you will need the support. my support is verified, thank GOD H0ttie made the group)
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    I'm so doing this is Twitter is still around when my girls are teens!

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    You KNOW I was being sarcastic at the "family values".
    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    LOL fuck Facebook family values, they had a few vids a couple weeks ago swarming Facebook and being re posted of TODDLERS fucking around with their parents.
    Now they have a minister taking a bath with his toddler granddaughter, yeah, fuck Facebook. lol (nothing against you Marinna Star )

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    Oh really? LOL i have lost two account with them bc "explicit pictures" but teens can post all day Instagram hates me too! lol
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    You KNOW I was being sarcastic at the "family values".

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    Your account probably got flagged for giving these soccer moms heart attacks and their husbands hard-ons.
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    Oh really? LOL i have lost two account with them bc "explicit pictures" but teens can post all day Instagram hates me too! lol

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    I like it when they tried to say "that is not your real name" kiss my ass Facebook I OWN THIS NAME! lol I had to send in proof. WTF I swear it owned by the govt. Employers can get in and watch. That's bullshit. I can rage all day about Facebook and instagram.I like how they pull up shit that we deleted as well.

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    lol I dont post nude pics on FB. I assume my Facebook fans like to keep it clean due to wives etc.
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    Your account probably got flagged for giving these soccer moms heart attacks and their husbands hard-ons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    they had a few vids a couple weeks ago swarming Facebook and being re posted of TODDLERS fucking around with their parents.
    Do what now? Do you mean sexually?

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    FB is strictly for IRL friends and family.

    Twitter is for camming-related stuff and content site-related stuff (C4S/ELM).

    I don't even use the word 'Twitter' around family members, because I don't want them asking for my Twitter name.

    One thing I was thinking about...if you go on FB and follow a particular T.V. show that you discuss with your cam site regulars. Be careful, because if you happen to post on that T.V. show's FB page, and your FB main pic is YOU, your cam site fans (who also follow that T.V. show) could see it and be like "Oh, look, there's yummybrownfox! So THAT's what her real name is!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    FB is strictly for IRL friends and family.

    Twitter is for camming-related stuff and content site-related stuff (C4S/ELM).

    I don't even use the word 'Twitter' around family members, because I don't want them asking for my Twitter name.

    One thing I was thinking about...if you go on FB and follow a particular T.V. show that you discuss with your cam site regulars. Be careful, because if you happen to post on that T.V. show's FB page, and your FB main pic is YOU, your cam site fans (who also follow that T.V. show) could see it and be like "Oh, look, there's yummybrownfox! So THAT's what her real name is!"
    ^^Yes. FB is way tooooo...... I don't know how to put it? How they connect people to each other, like others you might know, it's kind of creepy. You might say ONE THING and its like "here are people you know!" I don't want to show up in my Grandma's "people you may know" because we watch the same TV show! lol
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    I've actually had twitter suggest my cam profile to my vanilla profile (when I had one) so twitter does the same shit. And I also had a burlesque one which was public and I saw one day that someone that followed me on my camming one had followed me on my burlesque one.

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    YES and it was disgusting.
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    Do what now? Do you mean sexually?

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    YES and it was disgusting.
    That's fucking horrid.

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    ^^^Are you talking about the pics that were of a couple in their underwear, and you could see in the mirror that it was a freaking KID holding the camera? That was appalling...

    Anyway.

    I am fully "out" but have tow fb accounts, and just one, professional, twitter account. I have a second FB account as a fanpage, just so that when people search for me there is something there - I barely use it. It just helps deal with the "do you have a fb" losers. My personal fb is on security lockdown - my name is some garbled version of my actual name, and there are no photos of my face that can be seen except by friends...and I have FEW friends on there. It means that I can be a little more open with that one.

    I talk about my "real life" with fans, but it is a carefully edited version, and the only photos that I post of me with other people are when the other people are also in the industry, or have been breifed about it (usually musicians fall into that category, but also a few tattoo artists). I don't think that it is fair to post a pic of your kid, because the kid may grow up and absolutely HATE that they were on a "porn" tweet...I just don't think that anyone should be posted on anything adult related unless they are 18+ and can consent to it. But I will post pics of me (alone) at events and things to help the fans feel part of my "real life". I'll also put up pics of my pets, (non sexual OBVIOUSLY), but part of that is to remind creepers that I have a BIG dog!

    Like others have said, I just don't think that my real friends need to see my boobs/ass/hear me talk about how my pussy is just begging for more cock....I've had a couple friends follow my twitter despite me warning them, and then they tell me that they had to unfollow because it was really awkward. The only real life people I have on my twitter are people (again, musicians, mostly) that want to cross-promote.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette25 View Post
    I can't imagine why someone would want to do that. Especially with family.

    But obviously my answer is no ha. I also found Facebook to be pointless for work plus they closed my account twice. I use twitter a lot but have no interest in following friends or family or having them follow me.
    Facebook has just gotten extremely boring, period. No one wants to post anything controversial so everyone drivels on about what they ate for dinner or their TV show. I avoid facebook, except for occasionally posting family photos for certain relatives. I recently signed up for Second Life and that seem really fun so far.
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