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    Default Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    I haven't been onto the site for a while. Reading some of the comments by the dancers are certainly a turn off for me. It certainly destroys the experience.

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    I am in no way concerned about what customers that visit SW think, because honestly I have never had a customer IRL mention anything about going on the internet to discuss strip clubs, let alone see the shit I personally post AND somehow know who I am and associate my handle here with my various stage names.
    I could really care less if strangers on the internet are getting turned off by me LOL sw is not my moneymaking site. Mfc and real life is where I go to worry about "the fantasy"

    Plus, you're ruining it for yourself by visiting an industry forum.


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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Sweetie, no. No, no, no... when we said those things, we were talking about all the other guys in the club, not you. You'd know that if you just took us to private chat. We can get way more intimate in there!


    In all seriousness, I realize some customers won't like what they see, but that's okay with me. IMO, all men should realize that an SC experience should ideally be an illusion/fantasy. If they want to look behind the curtain and spoil the magic show, that's on them.


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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Tuesday, you worded it so much more eloquently than I did. Thank you

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    no im not concerned. it might give them a much-needed reality check.


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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Most guys don't go online and check forums like this before walking in off the street. And, even if they did-once inside, the enviroment and welcoming ladies (as long as the club is inviting and fun) should be enough to convince them otherwise .
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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    [QUOTE=joyluckstripclub;2451091]I haven't been onto the site for a while. Reading some of the comments by the dancers are certainly a turn off for me. It certainly destroys the experience.[/

    Are we turned off by reading posts by SC patrons on stripclublistings lol

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    I think this Forum is an excellent way for erotic entertainers to get together to discuss how to make a customer's experience the best it can possibly be. I say, let them take the reins and show us how it's done
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    I don't care what customers think. I care about separating them from their wallet.
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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    Most guys don't go online and check forums like this before walking in off the street. And, even if they did-once inside, the enviroment and welcoming ladies (as long as the club is inviting and fun) should be anough to convinve them otherwise .
    I agree with this wholeheartedly. I doubt that most strip club customers even know this site exists. In fact, when you look at this board or even the discussion board over at tuscl, the reality is that it is a small population of customers who actually participate and I doubt that these boards are even that widely read by non-posting lurkers. And IMHO, the types of guys who are motivated enough to spend long periods of time on this type of site are probably not all that surprised by what they are reading anyway.

    For me, the lone exception to my last sentence above was a thread about how some girls struggle with physical contact due to dancing in contact clubs. I was not surprised per se given what I know about these types of clubs, but I had never really thought about it before and was admittedly a bit saddened by what I read. Outside of this though, nothing on this board has really been any great revelation and/or ruined anything for me.

    Joy, if you believe that this might ruin your experiences, your best bet would be to simply stop reading this stuff.

    Anyway, just my

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuesdaymarie View Post
    Sweetie, no. No, no, no... when we said those things, we were talking about all the other guys in the club, not you. You'd know that if you just took us to private chat. We can get way more intimate in there!
    LOL I love this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joyluckstripclub View Post
    I haven't been onto the site for a while. Reading some of the comments by the dancers are certainly a turn off for me. It certainly destroys the experience.
    Well the experience is what you're paying for at the club. Here, you're on a free board not paying anything. That's why you're getting reality not fantasy.
    I've read equally if not more horrifying things on the tuscl site. I may have spelled that wrong but still I can't say whether or not those comments are all true.

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Quote Originally Posted by joyluckstripclub View Post
    I haven't been onto the site for a while. Reading some of the comments by the dancers are certainly a turn off for me. It certainly destroys the experience.
    I think the guys who come here on a regular basis want a peek behind the curtain. Or they want affirmation that the fantasy is a reality, but leave when they hear, "No, she doesn't really love you, dude," (which might be the best thing for them).

    I can understand you wanting to keep your fantasy intact, and if so, yeah... I'd stop reading immediately. Ignorance can be bliss, I guess. But the info you'll find here might a) help you keep your wallet safe and b) help you have a better time during your next visit since you'll know the game a little more. Just food for thought.

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    As a a customer, I really do appreciate this site, and the fact that it is open. It's healthy to have an insight into the 'other side'

    The stripclub world is a mutual interaction, you're there to make a (hopefully decent) living, we're there for the erotic entertainment... when all is well, we all get what we're after.

    In truth, I've found that most of the women on here seem actually pretty nice.

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Quote Originally Posted by joyluckstripclub View Post
    I haven't been onto the site for a while. Reading some of the comments by the dancers are certainly a turn off for me. It certainly destroys the experience.
    Sorry if reality-based discussions are a problem for you joy. This site was created for and exists predominantly as a dancer support site. If what the ladies talk about here ruins your experience at the club I have to say that you are probably harboring unrealistic expectations about (a) why the ladies are there and (b) what your presence at the club means to them. Perhaps a reality check is in order.
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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    This is a good question and the simple answer is that its someone else's customer who gets turned off and stops spending. The odds of it being thier own customer is low, so they shrug it off. It also depends on the customers expectations,,if this is what they expected, then no, if they expected this forum would be all about how it turns them on, they'll be better off not coming or going to an escort board maybe. Also if thier into extras like FS, BBBJ, and so on they will be disappointed as Stripperweb frowns on such activiaty so girls that do so find it more unwelcoming then customers do. Also keep in mind Stripperweb strippers are minority of strippers and odds are against your local strippers being a member. Also all opinions offered are the posters own and may not represent the views of the strippers at home. Example you will not find the opinion of any stripper who gets upset over guys prefer a lapdance over a HJ,,BJ, FS. These dancers exist, although Ive never met one personally as I go a realitively "clean" club. You'll never hear thier side though as they don't join, or at least keep silent if they do. You also won't usually see lazy or unambitious shall we say Strippers, or strippers who date PUAs or Pimps, ect... Other rarer types like those that get turned on bPppppppy thier job, even part of the time, or who,really enjoy or neautral at least being felt up during contact dancer do post, but thier rare, and get drowned out or ignored.

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    Turn them off on StripperWeb.
    Turn them on in the Club.

    Rules to live by....
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Turn them off on StripperWeb.
    Turn them on in the Club.

    Rules to live by....
    Ha! Truth.

    Can't even count the number of times I've convinced someone who was "hustled" by a stripper or saw "the dark side" that "that woman" was not like me. And I would neeeever do anything like that to them. Seriously, it's their own fault for bitching about strippers to me in the first place...
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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Those who are turned off by this site are not my preferred type of customers anyways, for those are the kind of customers who expect reality and not the fantasy aspect of stripping. Doesn't bother me that anyone is turned off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joyluckstripclub View Post
    I haven't been onto the site for a while. Reading some of the comments by the dancers are certainly a turn off for me. It certainly destroys the experience.
    I'm a curious kitten. What turns you off about this site...


    Just wondering.
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    I find the more reality and less fantasy the better. I have no doubt I am in the minority of guys. I dream of a stripper encounter like this:
    Me: Hey, wow you are pretty can I get a dance?
    Her: Well I was going to the dressing room to text this attractive guy I know and I'd rather do that than rub my ass on you for 5 minutes.
    Me: Well, I do tip.
    Her: Ok, shit I hope the next song is short.
    (move to the couch)
    Me: What is your stage name again?
    Her: Fantasia.
    Me: Ah, they call me Nerd or Nerdy Max.
    Her: Whoopie.
    Me: So what are the rules here.
    Her: How much are you going to tip?
    Me: How about $50 for two songs, light hands?
    Her: Don't make me kick you in the balls, make it $60.
    Me: Done.
    (music starts but she's stalling)
    Her: So what do you do?
    Me: I'm an undercover narc, I go around to strip joints and try to entrap dancers. Can I get a blowjob for an extra $300?
    Her: What the fuck?
    Me: Sorry, bad joke.
    Her: (Trying to decide wether to slap me or laugh)
    Me: (mutters apology slips a bonus $10 in her belt)
    Me: Actually I have a very boring job, I work in IT and would rather not talk about it.
    Her: Uhm ok. (finally starts dancing)
    Me: You are very pretty.
    Her: (pretending she hasn't heard that 1,000 times today) Thank you.
    Me: (gently slides hands up her body)
    Her: Be a little more firm, thats so gentle its creepy.
    Me: Of course.
    Her: If you want to keep your hands on my tits the whole time we need to go to the skybox (vip).
    Me: How much fun can we have up there?
    Her: Don't try to insert anything anywhere and I won't have to stab you in the eye with my heel.
    Me: Sounds fair, how much is it?
    Her: Normally it's 175 for 30 minutes, but for you I'll do a special, $200.
    Me: (laughing) ok.
    et cetera, et cetera
    Eventually, when I've run through my 400 that I usually have in my pocket when I go in a SC, I might hint at OTC meetings or a number. I get the impression most dancers do not actually date clients OTC, but there are a few that do... and they usually want $1k for that first hotel meet, which is fine with me if I get the entire morning with them, we can shower together, playtime, pillow talk.
    I love attitude, but I'm not submissive. I'm just mostly attracted to women who are strong/opinionated/dont take shit from anyone.

    I'm guessing Joyluck is full in on the fantasy aspect of the clubs, so for him the peek behind the curtain is a spoiler.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd View Post
    I find the more reality and less fantasy the better. I have no doubt I am in the minority of guys.
    It seems like your fantasy is the Greedy Stripper fantasy. There are many men who have this fetish. And it is a fantasy, because strippers generally do not act the same way at work as they do outside of work (unless it's for p4p).
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    The only people who get rich off of Get Rich Quick Schemes are the ones who sell them, not the ones who buy them.

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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    Not to mention the humiliation

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    ^^^ Nerd I'm no stripper nor custie (I am both in virtual world ) but that is a big roleplay. Very sexy and subtle humiliation. I think you should tell strippers how you like being treated, as long as you do it with respect and tip I am sure they appreciate having directions





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    Default Re: Ladies, are you concerned this site will turn off customers?

    I was a waitress for ten years before I started this. I know for a FACT that if the customers of the restaurants I used to work at read forums about them, they would all go out of business.

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    Lolol. While your concern for us is touching. I question your reason for being here in the first place. I hope you get turned off, if my customers are here i hope they get turned off, they shouldn't be stalking my work forums. This isn't a cam-site, girls aren't trying to advertise here... were here to support and motivate each other!

    =) Theres a verified camgirl thread that is just for us. (Thats where all the fun is anyway) So sorry we couldnt get u off! Guess you'll have to buy a show =(
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