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    Hi all,

    I was wondering if anyone can help please, I am new so bear with me.

    I have signed up to SM, have a decent profile pic & wear good underwear laying on my bed chatting to everyone who comes in.

    My sessions often last no longer than a minute, I get naked and start to play and by the time I start to relax they leave without any warning within SECONDS.. happens again and again!

    My hourly rate is terrible... ANY tips to help increase this would be most welcome!

    I would like at least one session longer than a minute dammit!

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    If a guy leaves pvt before 30 secs then they don't get charged. Maybe you're getting a lot of guys doing that?

    But it's a fact of camming that no matter how great you are and how long you can make a pvt last there will always be one minute wonders. Some guys just ain't got the stamina XD



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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    Quote Originally Posted by Cammi View Post
    If a guy leaves pvt before 30 secs then they don't get charged. Maybe you're getting a lot of guys doing that?

    But it's a fact of camming that no matter how great you are and how long you can make a pvt last there will always be one minute wonders. Some guys just ain't got the stamina XD
    Yeah a lot of guys are leaving within 30 seconds, so does everyone on here experience this regularly then? Any tips on how to get less of it?

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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    There are tons of 30 second "peepers", we all get them a lot. I find that I get them a lot less the higher my price is.

    What I do is once the first guy enters private, I don't get naked until at least 1 minute has passed. You can't really do much about the ones that come in during the show, some will say and some will leave quick. But when you very first get into private, slow it down and wait to get naked until at the very least 30 seconds has passed, but like I said I recommend at least 1 minute.

    Don't just sit there though, ask them questions and start to tease a little. You don't want to look like you are stalling.

    You can find online timers and once they enter private click the timer right away to keep track. I really wish SM had a built in timer like a lot of other sites have.
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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    just have to deal with it or start blocking them. you will get use to it.

    Since you stated you are new I will say , you are fresh meat. They will pretty much abuse you knowing you do not know how it works.

    Also, the first few weeks may be shitty bc you are new.

    A FUCKTON of new girls are signing up so you have mad competition. People suddenly think camming is a get rich quick deal. There is a lot to put in to get a lot out.
    Sounds like you are starting good as far as "have a decent profile pic & wear good underwear laying on my bed chatting to everyone who comes in"

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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    yeah what Sarah said as well

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    There are tons of 30 second "peepers", we all get them a lot. I find that I get them a lot less the higher my price is.

    What I do is once the first guy enters private, I don't get naked until at least 1 minute has passed. You can't really do much about the ones that come in during the show, some will say and some will leave quick. But when you very first get into private, slow it down and wait to get naked until at the very least 30 seconds has passed, but like I said I recommend at least 1 minute.

    Don't just sit there though, ask them questions and start to tease a little. You don't want to look like you are stalling.

    You can find online timers and once they enter private click the timer right away to keep track. I really wish SM had a built in timer like a lot of other sites have.
    Thank you for the advice, am really grateful!

    That makes sense, from now on I won't get naked until at least 1 minute has passed - too many times I have wasted energy getting dressed/undressed only to get nothing :/

    I think i'll probably sit up / look interested after 30 seconds though - seems like an idea!

    How much is your 'higher price'? Currently mine is set to $2.99/min - should I increase it?

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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    We all have 30 second loaders which usually mean they have been jerking off to whoever, whatever so they just need to see you for 30 seconds to a minute MAX to help them cum. I rarely get 1 minute men but its the 30 seconds and under fuckers that bother me because you get paid nothing.
    Like Sarah said, don't be rush to get all your clothes off so fast. Tease and ask engaging questions. Taking everything off so fast won't make them stay. Take your time and remember to give them one jujube at a time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvy Jane View Post
    How much is your 'higher price'? Currently mine is set to $2.99/min - should I increase it?



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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    This is just HOW bad it was today: (was daytime, mind)

    Total minutes for online time:
    130.87
    Total minutes for paid time:
    12.37

    Total paid sessions:
    5
    Total customer chat time:
    12m 1s
    Total earned:
    $13.08

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    Yes it's bad but the first step to making any change is to acknowledge it. Please raise your rates to at least $3.99 and over!
    Quote Originally Posted by Curvy Jane View Post
    This is just HOW bad it was today: (was daytime, mind)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Yes it's bad but the first step to making any change is to acknowledge it. Please raise your rates to at least $3.99 and over!
    Can people see my minute rate when looking at my profile? I browsed the main site and couldn't seem to find it on people's profiles..

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    They can't except for when you're online!
    Quote Originally Posted by Curvy Jane View Post
    Can people see my minute rate when looking at my profile? I browsed the main site and couldn't seem to find it on people's profiles..

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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    I spend the first 30 seconds asking questions about the kind of show he wants, where hes ftom, and so on. also your private rate should be AT LEAST $3.99 per minute.

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    Default Re: Members only viewing for under a minute - frustrated!

    Yesterday one of those 30 secs guys , sent me 10 gold then he left lol . Usually in free chat I mention that I only get naked after 30 sec so many idiots are put off.

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    I don't get naked until at least 2-4 minutes. I charge $5 for tit flash, and I charge $4.99/min as my private rate, so I wouldn't get naked until I'm making at least double what I charge for a flash.

    Definitely set your rate to at least $3.99/$4.99 and you will see a significant decrease in trolls and peepers. They will still happen, but fewer and far between.

    Here's some reading material to help you learn what to do during that first minute or three and make more $$$:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ake-More-Money
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...e-Private-time


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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvy Jane View Post
    Thank you for the advice, am really grateful!

    That makes sense, from now on I won't get naked until at least 1 minute has passed - too many times I have wasted energy getting dressed/undressed only to get nothing :/

    I think i'll probably sit up / look interested after 30 seconds though - seems like an idea!

    How much is your 'higher price'? Currently mine is set to $2.99/min - should I increase it?
    I think AT LEAST 3.99/min but I feel like 4.99/min is better.

    I'm currently at 4.99/min but I like to move around between 4.99 - 6.99 depending on my mood, how traffic is, and if I want more privates or more gold shows.
    xoxo ~ Sarah




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    Remember that you get a MAX (from the site) of 35% of what you charge. If you're charging $2.99/min, you're only earning $1.05/min. Minus taxes = $0.73/min. Think of that when you're deciding how much to charge. DO NOT tell the guys that you'll only get naked after 30 sec. They know exactly how long they have. You can make a lot of money on the ones who stay 31 sec. If you're teasing & keeping them distracted, it will happen more often. Just play the game.

    Everyone operates differently, but pulling me into a private show for the purpose of ripping me off is a ban. It's shady enough to come in partway thru someone else's show & pull that crap; it's an entirely bigger deal to me if you pull me away from a room of potential spenders to be an asshat. Just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cam_Model_Jess View Post
    It's shady enough to come in partway thru someone else's show & pull that crap; it's an entirely bigger deal to me if you pull me away from a room of potential spenders to be an asshat.
    ^This, a thousand times this.

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    I dont like that we cant ban them after they have left the room there should be a way to do that, i get SOOOO many 30 sec asswipes and i want to ban all of them but i cant just stop what im doing to ban each one, sm needs to take advice from the models and make some changes, my rates are at 6.99/min and i still get tons of 30 sec cheapos

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    I think AT LEAST 3.99/min but I feel like 4.99/min is better.

    I'm currently at 4.99/min but I like to move around between 4.99 - 6.99 depending on my mood, how traffic is, and if I want more privates or more gold shows.
    It seems to be the general consensus that I should charge AT LEAST 3.99/min - does everyone think I should I should charge that or more considering i'm new & perhaps not as attractive & experienced as you guys?!

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    I am so glad you said it! Do not tell guys you won't take anything off after 30 seconds, LOL!
    Show them that clothes won't cum off after a few minutes, don't tell. Permission is not needed. I've been in privates/exclusives which my clothes didn't have to cum off 'til 15 mins into it.
    Quote Originally Posted by Cam_Model_Jess View Post
    Remember that you get a MAX (from the site) of 35% of what you charge. If you're charging $2.99/min, you're only earning $1.05/min. Minus taxes = $0.73/min. Think of that when you're deciding how much to charge. DO NOT tell the guys that you'll only get naked after 30 sec. They know exactly how long they have. You can make a lot of money on the ones who stay 31 sec. If you're teasing & keeping them distracted, it will happen more often. Just play the game.

    Everyone operates differently, but pulling me into a private show for the purpose of ripping me off is a ban. It's shady enough to come in partway thru someone else's show & pull that crap; it's an entirely bigger deal to me if you pull me away from a room of potential spenders to be an asshat. Just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I've been in privates/exclusives which my clothes didn't have to cum off 'til 15 mins into it.
    Hell, I've been in pvts where my clothes never come off and I'm sure most girls here can say the same



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    You're free to charge whatever you want but a lot of us have been doing this for a very long time and we can tell you that lower rates will usually attract assholes and cheap ass mother fuckers. Never, ever think that you are not attractive enough so you have to overcompensate by charging so little. You are new so use that to your advantage because guys like something new.
    Quote Originally Posted by Curvy Jane View Post
    It seems to be the general consensus that I should charge AT LEAST 3.99/min - does everyone think I should I should charge that or more considering i'm new & perhaps not as attractive & experienced as you guys?!

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    Ya don't lower your price

    In the camworld a high price says that you know wtf is UP! And that you're worth it. IThe price tag itself gives you an artifical confidence boost in the eyes of your pervs. =)
    Raise your prices =)))))

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