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    Dizzy Delicate Question - I am sorry for asking. Escort Work Issue

    I feel silly even asking this. But my partner and I are with a wonderful agency and are going to start doing doubles. We were supposed to start yesterday.

    Except, well, Aunt Flo came to visit and we are not sure if there are any tricks for us to still be able to work. We JUST started with this agency, and we want to work!

    Plus, we don't fancy having to take off a week a month.

    I am sorry for the grossness of this, and any help would be appreciated. We were thinking maybe those Luna Cups, but we don't know if they shake loose or anything.....

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    Jade & Pearl sea sponges!

    http://www.jadeandpearl.com/catalog/...htdlb1ne7rco51

    I'm not an affiliate, I just like them. My only issue is, um, removal. As far as comfort and no leakage, they're great. They come in 3 sizes. Don't microwave or boil them, that makes them hard and shrinks them. If you're really worried about leakage wear the soft cup then insert the sponge, but the cup isn't nearly as comfortable and your partner can feel it more easily. Before you insert the sponge make sure that you wet it with warm water than squeeze out the excess, maybe add just a touch of lube to help.

    Like a regular tampon you need to change out the sponge every few hours. Keep a couple sets so you can use a new sponge while cleaning the used one. To clean, I put them in a container with 1/2 cup hydrogen peroxide, 1/2 cup warm/hot water, 1 tbsp sea salt, and 5 drops tea tree oil. I don't like using vinegar because the scent lingers and you don't want to smell like vinegar while working! Let soak 30 min-1 hour then squeeze out and air dry.

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    Thank you so much!! You have no idea how much I appreciate this info. YOU ARE A LIFE SAVER.

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    You're welcome! About removal, getting it out manually is kind of tricky. J & P recommends sewing some dental floss through it so it's easier to get out. I'd guess you need to sew it while it's wet? Then you can tuck the floss in. You just reminded me that I need to start doing that!

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    Since you need these last minute you can go to an art supply or health food shop and look for sea sponges. I just started to use latex free makeup applicator rounds. They work a lot better for me.

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    I'm not an escort but I can answer this question! There are birth control pills that actually totally stop (for some girls) their cycle. I take those right now. The worst problem with them is that you may actually have your period for weeks before it stops entirely...but then you're good to go!

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    Do you mean like Seasonale birth control? I tried those, they do make things easier. For awhile I went 6 months without a period which was awesome! Just some concerns about messing with hormones. Gynecologist also said when taking those pills you need to allow your body to have a period every so often.

    Btw, forgot to mention to really remove sponge discoloration you might need to soak overnight, but if you're in a hurry soaking 30 min.-1 hr min. should be fine for basic cleaning.


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    To clean, I put them in a container with 1/2 cup hydrogen peroxide, 1/2 cup warm/hot water, 1 tbsp sea salt, and 5 drops tea tree oil. I don't like using vinegar because the scent lingers and you don't want to smell like vinegar while working! Let soak 30 min-1 hour then squeeze out and air dry.

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    I really, really want to thank all you ladies.

    It was so kind of to share, and I really appreciate it. It's kinda hard when you don't have anyone to ask about these things, as I and the girl I am doing doubles with are so new to this whole thing.

    And we really want to do well.

    And none of you laughed at me - THANK YOU!

    I really hope this agency works well for us. They seem really nice, I just wish we could get started. There were ad issues I guess.

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    With birth control pills. if you coutinuously take the active birth control pills and not the sugar pills that come in the pack your period won't arrive,

    but the sea sponge is a good option for most women. just make sure its big enough and high up enough
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    With birth control pills. if you coutinuously take the active birth control pills and not the sugar pills that come in the pack your period won't arrive,

    but the sea sponge is a good option for most women. just make sure its big enough and high up enough
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    Default Re: Delicate Question - I am sorry for asking. Escort Work Issue

    Another vouch for sea sponges...btw, I soak mine in hydrogen peroxide to clean and disinfect them both before first use and between uses. I only use my sponge for one cycle, then get a fresh one. I could probably hold onto it longer, but know that they do break down after awhile, and dont want any issues.

    I use the ones from Whole Foods...I used to buy the big bag of sea sponge and cut them to size, but found they also sell them as facial sponges cut down to the perfect size already. Its more expensive prepacked like that, but I hate cutting those things. But also, Whole Foods is pretty much everywhere, so even if Im out or on tour, Ive been able to buy one if caught by surprise.

    BTW, a tip I figured out in a moment of panic, if ever you do end up getting one stuck, coat your fingers in like, coconut oil and then go for it....maybe other oils would work too, just that Im afraid to try and I know coconut oil can safely be used vaginally. I was once in such a panic cause I couldnt even feel the sponge, but the oil provides enough slip for it to dislodge. So far, that has done the trick for me every time.

    BTW...no worries on asking delicate questions....stuff like this is just another day in the life of an escort...
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