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    I was wondering - have you ever had someone pay and just want to talk to you? I'm new to camming and I just had this happen. He seemed really sweet and said he didn't want to see anything. He spent a half an hour talking to me and I was a bit worried he'd ask personal questions but he really hasn't so far. It was just kind of unexpected and I don't really get why he spent money for it. He said he'd be back later this week. Have you ever experienced this? I don't really know how to feel about it.

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    Yeah it happened like-once? Well I did my thing for a while and stripped and everything and then he went cam2cam and he wasn't even jerking off anymore and he was like "you're so pretty and sweet! let's chat!" and the whole private was at least 45 minutes. I wish I had more dudes who just wanted me to talk to them for money! I am a natural chatterbox!!

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    yes.....

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    ALL THE TIME! This used to be way more prevalent for me when I started camming back in 1998. Guys back then wanted to forge a friendship with you, and, if you got to that *other stuff* it was near the end of the 2 hour or more visit. Those were the days! I still have some of those guys visit, maybe a dozen or so. They don't really want to do the jerking off thing with me anymore, they just want to talk about how things are going, their chart or life in general.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    So is this something I can expect to see more of? I don't get the motivation. Does it weird you out that they're paying money for this?

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    ^ These guys are lonely, that's their motivation. Don't be weirded out by it unless they start trying to meet in person or asking too personal of questions. Set your boundaries clearly and you'll have no problems. Take it as a compliment that you're interesting to talk to and not just a sex machine!
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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    i haven't had it happen often, but when it does, they seem to want to talk and hang out for quite awhile. I had an older dude take me exclusive for just under an hour when I first started camming. I talked for the first 45 minutes, and then eventually showed him my boobs....but mostly I took my shirt off because I felt so silly being clothed!
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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    Very frequently... But only the men in my country. Some of them doesn't even want me to get naked or wear sexy outfits, they just talk to me hours and hours. You shouldn't feel any different, they know what they are doing and what they are spending their money on. It's their call at this point, and it's time for us to earn money on friendship Relax and put your "personality" on

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    i looooove this guy because we like to talk about hot guys on cam and what we d do to them haha very natural and fun. i do love all the rest but it s nice to get a noce break

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    get this all time. there are a few types.
    a) he starts off genuinaly just talking and then the convo turns into him suggesting we meet in real life
    b) he tells me all about other girls he 'met off mfc in real life' and tries 2 convince u he is not an axe murderer
    c) he just out right asks if u will meet him for sex

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    get this all time. there are a few types.
    a) he starts off genuinaly just talking and then the convo turns into him suggesting we meet in real life
    b) he tells me all about other girls he 'met off mfc in real life' and tries 2 convince u he is not an axe murderer
    c) he just out right asks if u will meet him for sex
    d) he talks to you about his life and interests and then logs off without even asking to see your tits



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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    I am the queen of talk.. often times I can get the3m to forget why they are in pvt .. and talk to them til they run out of money..lol...It's an art.. haha

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    Yes and I love that my clothes don't have to come off! Just look into my eyes, talk to me and tell me no lies, LOL!

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    Yep! I make more money talking naked than by fucking myself my regs and I usually talk before or after our naughty time! Or my new good reg like me to talk and talk and talk while using the hitachi (about my day, the jerk at the gym, etc.). It's this personal interaction that keeps them from just watching porn.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    All the time, some of my longest exclusive are talkers. And they pay 9.99/min just to talk.... lonely guys with money. Most of them are super sweet and very enjoyable.

    Not all of them are trying to get you to meet them, in fact the ones that stay the longest and come back often know that will never happen and truly just want someone to talk to.
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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    I have a new reg that I just adore. He's been coming by twice a shift for the past few days and will often hang out in guest chat for hours just listening to me talk. When he takes me private it's easily 20 minutes or more with the first 10 minutes consisting of him asking me to recite poetry. Then there's 5 minutes of naked shenanigans, usually instigated by me because I'm sitting around kind of sexually frustrated, and then there's another 5 minutes of just talking. It's really nice.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    Yes, and none of mine have ever asked to meet in person. Some are much older men who don't get out much. Some are really shy and just want some company. It means you're an interesting person to talk to.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    I have had it happen more & more lately. The $$ is awesome but I think it's actually easier to bang out a few xxx shows for people in private than spend the energy on a regular in exclusive who wants to talk and fall in cyber-love.

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    yes and I love when it happens. The show tends to be long and much less strenuous than a regular cam show. Would prefer it if all my shows were this way.
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    Default Re: Have you ever had someone just want to talk?

    Yes. I have it happen quite a bit also.
    When I first started, I had a Regular- he would log on and talk to me for 2 to 3 hours, in exclusive, and just talk. He actually made me put my clothes ON. And it was great- nice guy, nice to talk to, but after about 6 months of this, he started trying to convince me to come visit him in California (I'm from the Midwest). Not wanting to lose a gauranteed $200/night client, I led him on, told him I couldn't visit because of school, and we kept talking. And of course, he couldn't come to the midwest b/c he was "afraid of flying"- yet, he flew to visit family in Taiwan (or somewhere like that) once a year. Shady grady.
    About 3 months later, he got very aggressive about me flying to CA to visit. I straight-up told him "I am a webcam girl, I am not able to have any outside contact with clients- you know this. I will not be able to visit you".
    When he realized I was serious, he stopped doing shows with me altogether. Blah. Miss the money.

    But yah, I get some "talkers" (as I've named them) who really just wanna talk about life, politics, sports, my past sex life, etc. LOVE these shows, cuz if you're a good talker, you can turn these shows into a couple hours long. CHA-CHING!

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    ^ Yep...
    I had a 20 minute show talking about football tonight...I don't know too much about it but enough to skate by I guess lol..The only reason it ended is bc the guy reached his limit.
    I used to have a regular who would get 30 min exclusive blocks to talk but my prices were too low back then...
    Now every once and awhile he comes around but not as often and doesn't get 30 min shows...

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    The first time this happened to me I was kind of unnerved, but he kept coming back and I got more and more comfortable just chitchatting instead of stripping. I can see my weirded out face now, lmao.




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    Yes, and I like it. I think they're just men with money, and not much else-in their lives. Talking to me cheers them up and I'm a good conversationalist. I think most of what I've earned on cam this week came from one session with a guy who I've done nothing with but talk!
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    Ugh yes.... and he would keep me on for like 2 hours and more until I was always falling asleep that I had to cut him off. I welcomed the cash but the boring conversation just wasn't worth the money in the end. And I don't miss him or the cash at all.
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    Yes I do a lot of shows like that. I like shows where you just chat or model outfits.

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